Mercy will be a fool to accept an apology,
if she goes back to that man's house, she
probably won't come out alive.

UnknownT:
We won't accept this!!!!! He wasn't the one that typed this, therefore the apology is not accepted.
Someone help me with that Orubebe's pic with a mic

thought I was d only one DT noticed. dis man dat writes abi n types poorly. all of a sudden he is perfect

Someone must have helped this man to type,he isn't that coherent with grammar.I hope she truly forgives him

An apology is good but can never be enough for attempted murder.


Till we let victims get justice and let peeps pay, domestic violence will continue.



The life you may be saving could be YOURS.

*in jenifa's voice*

Radarada

delishpot:


How do you know no where is better? That every man beats his wife or?
Yes couples have missunderstandings even parents with their kids but beating each other is not in every home.

I am not an advocate of domestic violence, I hate it with passion.
However, 'nomadic' marriages isn't a solution to domestic challenges.
Understanding the environment we find ourselves and avoiding issues that will ignite violence is what I suggested there.
Can Mercy state the truth why they got to the point of fighting? Is she a submissive wife?
That's their issue to resolve, good the man has apologies to her.
What you see before leaping from point A, may just be better off than when landing at point B.
Sincere discussion, respect, openness etc builds love and stable home.

fatymore:
see them.. Supporting his fellow men...

Not in any way supporting domestic violence but they say two wrongs don't make a right


When you start standing up to ur husband, who do you think has more to lose??

Olukat:


I am not an advocate of domestic violence, I hate it with passion.
However, 'nomadic' marriages isn't a solution to domestic challenges.
Understanding the environment we find ourselves and avoiding issues that will ignite violence is what I suggested there.
Can Mercy state the truth why they got to the point of fighting? Is she a submissive wife?
That's their issue to resolve, good the man has apologies to her.
What you see before leaping from point A, may just be better off than when landing at point B.
Sincere discussion, respect, openness etc builds love and stable home.

If she says yes she was submussive? What other reasons would you then give? Have you asked her why she did not cook and take to the hotel? Do you kniw if he uses that food to feed his babes and she found out about it and decided not to cook again. I know first hand of a guy that does it. He is my cousine. His babe woukd ask for soecial delicacies that she ate from his cooler at work and he would call his wife to make it. The poor woman woukd run to the market cook and bring it he woukd tell her to drop it with the receotionist that he isnt at the office. Tell me if she finds out and decides to stoo cooking would you say she wasnt submissive. Being submissive doesnt mean being foolish. She is human and has brain to think too. Niw, I am not saying Mercy was right or wrong I am saying if a people start using violence when their better half doesnt live up to religious and societal expectations(note that sometimes men also dont live up to every expectation of marriage too) would that be permissible or it is only to be seen as a small offence when a man does it because his wife fell short?
What if she leaps from point A to point C which turns out to be even more better than point A and B? Point B may not be better but this world does not have only points A and B. I know of a woman who left her point A for the same reasons and she landed in Point C where she lived in peace and understanding till death parted them. If your hands are ckean then you need not fear to leave an abusive partner because even the universe would stand by you. The only time one has to fear is when ones hands are not clean and he or she wants to carry that same bad attitude to enter another marriage or relationship that is where the problem lies. But we should not say someone to remain in a bad place with threats of point B may be worse.

fatymore:
A time is coming when the table will turn round from you guys.. That's when you know women too have power....Maybe when ladies start standing up to you.. A blow for a blow.. A slap for a slap... Men would stop beating women

Eziokwu! When the day come pm me thanks

gede7744:
well that's courage but pls stop beating her couples do have misunderstanding but beating up your wife is s cowardice way of approach

l pray she finds it in her heart to forgive you

You don't know the real sorry dear. Mercy is stubborn i heard from a right source that she is aggressive.

ivolt:
Mercy will be a fool to accept an apology,
if she goes back to that man's house, she
probably won't come out alive.

How are you sure the fault is from the man. Well time will tell.

delishpot:


If she says yes she was submussive? What other reasons would you then give? Have you asked her why she did not cook and take to the hotel? Do you kniw if he uses that food to feed his babes and she found out about it and decided not to cook again. I know first hand of a guy that does it. He is my cousine. His babe woukd ask for soecial delicacies that she ate from his cooler at work and he would call his wife to make it. The poor woman woukd run to the market cook and bring it he woukd tell her to drop it with the receotionist that he isnt at the office. Tell me if she finds out and decides to stoo cooking would you say she wasnt submissive. Being submissive doesnt mean being foolish. She is human and has brain to think too. Niw, I am not saying Mercy was right or wrong I am saying if a people start using violence when their better half doesnt live up to religious and societal expectations(note that sometimes men also dont live up to every expectation of marriage too) would that be permissible or it is only to be seen as a small offence when a man does it because his wife fell short?
What if she leaps from point A to point C which turns out to be even more better than point A and B? Point B may not be better but this world does not have only points A and B. I know of a woman who left her point A for the same reasons and she landed in Point C where she lived in peace and understanding till death parted them. If your hands are ckean then you need not fear to leave an abusive partner because even the universe would stand by you. The only time one has to fear is when ones hands are not clean and he or she wants to carry that same bad attitude to enter another marriage or relationship that is where the problem lies. But we should not say someone to remain in a bad place with threats of point B may be worse.

You have a point!
However, the man has started the process of reconciliation
I believe lessons has been learnt from the dark days of their union.
Let's hope they admit their responsibilities, forgive each other and build a better relationship.
In that case, there won't be any need to try other "points"
Have a great day!

gede7744:
well that's courage but pls stop beating her couples do have misunderstanding but beating up your wife is s cowardice way of approach

l pray she finds it in her heart to forgive you

Beating her ke? Where is he going to see her to Beat again? She is gone jare!

He has done the right thing by apologizing...its never late to do the right things. All u need do now is be consistent in ur apology and pray to God to touch her heart to forgive and come back to you. Let peace reign.
Get to know God more and see how he turns ur situation around for good. Trust me I am a living example.

gede7744:
well that's courage but pls stop beating her couples do have misunderstanding but beating up your wife is s cowardice way of approach

l pray she finds it in her heart to forgive you

She should forgive but not go back to him cos he would beat her silly again...a one time neighbour was like this..he would beat hell out of his wife, when she runs away, he would find and begin to plead and apologise and then she'll come back..he would beat again and repeat same process..until she once had miscarriage from the beatings and finally left d man.. a woman beater can't help it..it's in their blood..they don't deserve to have partners..

djpop100:
that's what a real man should do
and for d wailers who has turn it to an habit of making fun out of wrecked family, u all shall not succed and to them​! liberal woman, humbleness is the guy to an happy home

Humbleness? Really?
RIP English

hischoice:
Sounds more like:

"In my heart of heart, I don't want to apologize, but you are taking this sh*t too far and it's affecting my business. So just take this sorry, get lost, and don't forget to drop my keys"

Sincere apologies don't start with "For peace to reign." But for our women, anything to make them appear the winner is good.

Look at this:


"The events of the last couple of weeks between my wife and me have taken me to the lowest of lows. I have made mistakes, and unfortunately, the victim of my mistakes is this innocent lovely woman. I am not proud of my actions....

"I just hope this woman gives it a thought to consider me fit often her love again. While she is at it, I will be visiting therapists...."

Thank you jare! I thought I was the only one that noticed! what kind of apology is that? He didn't even own up his actions nor expressed deep regrets for his actions nor a willingness of never repeating such!

Imagine, "for Peace to reign"! like Seriously? Who does that? SMH for these breed of men oo!

Whatever happened to "I am really sorry for my actions against you, I have no right to strike you or any woman for that matter. I sincerely regret my actions n therefore take full responsibility for my actions; n seeing a therapist already to get help.
I sincerely plead you find a place in your hrt to forgive me. I'M SORRY".

You call this apology? This is just a write up and nothing more. Giving the impression that people are making you apologize means he's not sincere with the apology. He has to convince himself first that he's sorry then he can talk to his wife with all sincerity and but all this rubbish.

Edited: what is he apologising for? The beatings or the online back and forth or the family war going on between him mum, brother and his wife? Apologising without specifying is not sincere in my opinion.

Oh

Hacked account,this is nt d gentry i knw.

gede7744:
well that's courage but pls stop beating her couples do have misunderstanding but beating up your wife is s cowardice way of approach

l pray she finds it in her heart to forgive you

That's cool, now you have grown up

Hahahahahahahaha

Olukat:


You have a point!
However, the man has started the process of reconciliation
I believe lessons has been learnt from the dark days of their union.
Let's hope they admit their responsibilities, forgive each other and build a better relationship.
In that case, there won't be any need to try other "points"
Have a great day!

Yes, reconciliatiins shoukd always be encouraged if the intentions are pure and not for the sake of cleaning ones character in the eyes of outsiders while still maintaining the same mindset when no one is looking.

The man clearly stated that he is doing it because he is tured of people giving him wahala. E be like how yoruba go put am ......."Oya gba, ma pka mi je"!
What he wrote is nott an appology Mercy could as well come online and say oya o, me too I have heard o. I have forgiven you can I also rest now?

What a lovely couple.
Too bad they could not make it work.

Very soon he will come out to say his account was hacked

These yeyebrities and their drams sef don tire person

The grammar is quite different from the earlier screenshot from Mercy, just an observation!

gede7744:
well that's courage but pls stop beating her couples do have misunderstanding but beating up your wife is s cowardice way of approach

l pray she finds it in her heart to forgive you

HMMMM

Edo kpomo sweet like fresh mango juice.

whitering:
Don't tell us you are already missing her kpomo.

free2ryhme:
The truth is this konji don hold the guy

Make we talk am as e bi

Stop saying that, did he tell you that he did not see women if truly is konji

Flexygist:
Nollywood Actress Mercy Aigbe's estranged Hotelier husband, Lanre Gentry has publicly apologized to her.

He took to his Instagram to apologize adding that he wanted to bury the hatchet.

Read what he wrote after the cut...

Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/30/lanre-gentry-publicly-apologizes-to-his-estranged-wife-actress-mercy-aigbe/

^^^^^^^^
^^^^^^^^

Good thing he did that... at 52 years of age he is supposed to LEAD by example.

In the mean time, Lanre and Mercy Aigbe both need to go for anger therapy and
emotional intelligence training with experts like Lanre Olusola and/or Innocent Usar.

There is nothing to be ashamed of. People are only interested in HOW they
successfully resolve their issues in order to learn from them.

Success to both of them and to any couple going through these marital
challenges that crop up from time to time. Marriage is NOT for kids but for mature people
who are able to GIVE LOVE and RECEIVE LOVE!