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Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ten06(m): 7:18pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Fabulocity: 9 Likes
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Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Victornezzar: 7:18pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
sonofLuci:e be like say u neva do ponzi b4 |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by gatiano(m): 7:19pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Do you want the truth or sweet patting on your back or shoulder? I share it with you from experience. mylander: |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by israelmao(m): 7:19pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
My sincere sympathy.Some women can't just endure with men for one minute.Women are like babies who are only mindful of available luxuries once they vanish you would hardly see them around. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by wristbangle: 7:20pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
I would advice you put in more energy to searching for another job even if the pay is below what you were earning at your previous job or probably start up a business by getting a loan hence moving your feet back on strong financial ground to cater for your family upkeeps (I mean your children majorly). I won't say you should ignore your wife when your riches have return but be very prudent with the way you spend on her. This is the only way you can manage the situation. Just try envelope the insult thrown from your wife ( a gold digger) at the moment. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Victornezzar: LOL as a G boi you no fit scan me na so why I go do ponzi when na my work ni |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
It's another one... |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by salford1: 7:21pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
its when a man is down that you would really know the type of wife u married. 6 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by jay2smart19(m): 7:22pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Victornezzar:bros it's not common. dat woman is nt a wife jor. I just learnt from a close FAM frnd dat he was jobless for almost two years and non of us knew it. the wife is a primary schl teacher. she still respected n loved d man within dat period. if not dat he kind of told us in a gist, non of us knew it. na woman wey knw God and has respect from home and does not keep crazy frnds and believe in book authors dan she believe in her husband. oluwa show me d way. 16 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Emanodimo(m): 7:22pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Just a normal reaction from women. She is pushing you to get back on your feet, not to bow to defeat on job matter. I will suggest u need more patience till u get something doing. Think on what u can do aside looking for job... With your banking experience u can find ursef with Microfinance bank... 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Victornezzar: 7:22pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
sonofLuci:But ponzi scheme still dey function ni |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by dejt4u(m): 7:23pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
InvertedHammer:pls reply to the PM I sent to you |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by eph12(m): 7:23pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
I can never marry someone that's not working. She has to be responsible for something in the family, whether it's feeding, rent, school fees or building our house. 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Victornezzar: 7:23pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
jay2smart19:u may be ryt not all women behave like ur friend's wife 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Ifyone123(f): 7:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
BiafraBushBoy:Lol...ivn d so called investment is a gamble(dats if u knw wat gambling is)..Let me make it easy. Investment: Risk gamble: Risk Investment: Loses ar inevitable Gamble: Loses ar inevitable If am stil wrong..fix me right |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by dingbang(m): 7:24pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
sweerychick:na so.. Wait until the moment comes... Pray that the devil don't take hold of u 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
She's not a gold digger. What gold is there to dig in a banker's salary anyway? Many women would react that way especially if they feel the husband has gotten too comfortable with them financing the home, and if he isn't making any effort at finding a new job. She's simply reminding him to be a MAN and resume his responsibilities once again. Although she's doing this the wrong way. wristbangle: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by micflo28(m): 7:26pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Very mature narration @op but lacked complete exploration of variety of options. Good thing you have been in a banks employ for an appreciable time, which indicates you have some savings and have a second option following the nature of bank jobs and the already battered economy. loose no time and get to work by starting a business with your savings. Carefully stir your business prudently and reap far more than what you earned while working as a banker. Consider opening a large expanse of poultry, fish pond fashion outfit or a laundry outfit. Good thing you mentioned you own a car, consider registering under uber and make twice what taxi drivers make. Sit and think and don't just lament. A second option is the only way out and business is the best escape route.I wish you well in your future endeavors. 6 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
No mind them. Na so dem go dey run their mouth. The woman is wrong in her actions but I really can't blame her. It takes great grace not to react in the same way the woman did. dingbang: |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Rhozabeth(m): 7:26pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Bros what is happening to u is nothing unusual, i can guarantee u that more than 98% of women will behave that way, only very few (2%) will behave otherwise! My advice to u sir,, intensify ur effort at getting another job, pray hard and dont forget to pray for ur wife and i tell u this will become history soon and never report ur wife to ANYBODY! I wish u luck! 5 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by donestk(m): 7:27pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Women always support their own 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by keypad1: 7:27pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
So there is no gender equalilty here right? Why women wicked like this? 4 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by sexy74(m): 7:27pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
mylander:My guy my advice to you is to get a book yourself too and write down every expenses she spends that relates to you directly or would I say personal to you. It is always bound to happen that's why I beg God that my wife will never provided for me, people might say its stupidity but it saves you much agony. Now never let her nagging make you a less human, when ever she does anything you are not down with please and please again put your foot down and make her understand and know her boundaries. You will surely come out strong that I know I believe. Never lose focus in all you do,God be with you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Nobody: 7:27pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Victornezzar: Okay lol as e still they function go put help for mmm na |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by bayulll011(m): 7:28pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
mylander: marriage that thing scare shiit out of me,bros u never had wife that is considerate in the first place I always say this always look well before you marry not all ladies are marriagle..yes money is good for home and you need it to sustain life's and living,try get another job and know that your wife is not a real woman 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by dingbang(m): 7:28pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Fabulocity:ha.. My mum na champion o... My dad will provide but she won't complain..when she borrows him money and he doenst give back soon, she will just be grumbling in my front... I will just Smh.. And be like.. Lord, let this cup pass away from me 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by Mccullum: 7:29pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
she's showing you her real attitude by running marriage like business institution as she's recording all money spent by both of you in order to collect it back when you get money but my advice for you is just continue to pray and think of what you can do to survive, that will restore your authority back. Then you'll know how to handle your wife as her real picture of character has been shown to you. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by dingbang(m): 7:29pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:what kind of stupid woman is that? 6 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by keypad1: 7:30pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Fabulocity:no gender equality in this case abi? What happen to what a man can do a woman can do better? 7 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by waldigit: 7:30pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
mylander: Bro I tell you majority of women are like that. Only very few percentage may be different. I have told you that from experience. But as a banker I expect you to have mastered many things in your career that can make you free financially. Pls. try farming like poultry also go and train for forex trading. As a banker if you had mastered forex trading you would have been the one that would have sacked your bank an not other way round. |
Re: I Lost My Job, Now I Am Losing My Dignity At Home by eph12(m): 7:30pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Emanodimo:So this is normal? How is this normal? This can make a guy depressed or consider doing some illegal shite and we will come back to blame the guy. 3 Likes |
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