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7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by Tosinjoy: 3:30pm On Jul 05, 2017
7 KINDS OF RELATIONSHIPS THAT MIGHT NEVER LEAD TO MARRIAGE
You know it’s of a truth that not every relationship one goes into would lead to marriage; most relationships would just fizzle out on the surface, why some would last for a while then comes to an end, with some even lasting a pretty long time but still won’t result to marriage. Most times, you might want to get married to your partner, but your partner wouldn’t want to get married to you and that’s another harsh reality. So, how do you know your relationship wouldn’t lead to marriage? What kind of relationships don’t lead to marriage?

1. DESPERATION OR SURVIVAL RELATIONSHIP
This kind of relationship, is type in which one partner is highly desperate for marriage. Such relationship might never lead to marriage because desperation isn’t a good quality. Being desperate would throw you in bad light, show your many flaws and could even make your partner feel edgy about getting married to you. Lot’s of desperate ladies end up not marrying their man.

2. THE SEX ONLY RELATIONSHIP
Lots of relationships out there can be referred to as the ‘s*x only’ kind of relationship. In such a relationship, s*x is the long-term and short-term goal of the relationship. A relationship that’s built solely around s*x might never lead to marriage

3. EXPERIMENTAL RELATIONSHIP
I term relationships that keep going back and forth as experimental relationships. Any relationship without stability might never lead to marriage; if all you and your partner do is breakup today and make-up the next day then it shows a sign of incompatibility or that you haven’t found solutions to your relationship problems. If such a relationship leads to marriage, it wouldn’t fare any better.

4. LIVING TOGETHER WITHOUT FUTURE GOALS
The fact that you are living together with your man is no guarantee that such cohabitation would lead to marriage. If there is no marriage in sight, or talks about it, or at least talks about the future or each other’s long-term goals then you might cohabit for a long time, and it would only end there.

5. VALIDATION RELATIONSHIP
This is the kind of relationship where one of the partners seeks other people’s responses and validation before approving to anything. Such a relationship has the feeling of insecurity around it and might never lead to marriage.

6. RELATIONSHIPS WITHOUT LONG-TERM GOALS
A relationship that’s built for the short-term would probably only last the short-term. In relationships that might lead to marriage, both partners (not one) have each other’s future in mind and care about the long-term future of the relationship. When you and your partner never discuss your long-term goals with each other and think about the relationship’s future then marriage might just be a dream that would never happen.

7. THE PASS TIME RELATIONSHIP
In this kind of relationship, it’s mostly about the s*x, the fun and the pleasure. Couples like this have fun in abundance; but deep down, they both have the feeling that it wouldn’t lead to marriage. Such a relationship lacks the commitment and seriousness to walk down the aisle.

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by LMandela(m): 3:50pm On Jul 05, 2017
Even if it leads to marriage, it wouldn't last...period!

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by Rexhenrex(m): 3:56pm On Jul 05, 2017
quite true. ..
Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by Lionessza(f): 5:44pm On Jul 05, 2017
I agree with all, but there are people out there who still go ahead and get married even in relationships like these hoping things would change when married. Delusional they are . Marriage doesn't make a couple , a couple makes a marriage. So if you weren't a good couple before marriage, you will be more lost as a married couple. Misery is inevitable here.

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Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by modestypii(m): 6:48pm On Jul 05, 2017
I fully agree wit no. 1, when a lady is desperate 4 marriage, its very bad. if a man rush into it, i tell u d guy don enta b dat o. my ex broke up wit me cos of her desperation 4 marriage. she used to give me a date we must wedd, then i av to wise up seeing this. this av bn her prob,guys see dis, chop her n go, am sure same wil hapen wen her bf nw c her desperation too. anyway, i stil love her
Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by Tosinjoy: 5:19am On Jul 07, 2017
thanks to you all guy
Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by tetula123(m): 5:30am On Jul 07, 2017
am currently in number two...just finished working now self

Re: 7 Kinds Of Relationships That Might Never Lead To Marriage by Nobody: 8:00am On Jul 07, 2017
Hmm

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