I met ds girl not quite long.but within a short period of time our love grew so much beyond my understanding.but later i gat 2 know dat she's fatherless and d mother also stays faraway in north and she's doesn't care 4 her.so she's just strugling wit life.but i love her for who she was.not until her mum fell sick and she return 2d home town she then later sent 4 her 2 come to ebonyi and im a yoruba guy.and beside i dont think my family wil accept her 4 her tribe.and d mum dont even want her back in lagos and i advice her to stay.but she stil want 2 come though she knows dat im not in lagos .but we do see anytime i comes back from school but always talk on phone.and im stil in school in ilorin now.and i know dat my luv 4 her is fading away and fallin in love another lady here but i dont want 2 hurt her because it can result in anything because of her health .what wil u do

My guy that's a very sad story (i only came in to speak to a mate on another section)

You sound like a young guy but you are very compassionate, but you really have to put yourself and your feelings first.
Go with your heart, but try to let the other girl down gently.

and madlady how on God's green earth did u manage to read this and understood what
this poster is trying 2 pass across

why am happy is that the poster is still in school so there is HOPE

190:

and madlady how on God's green earth did u manage to read this and understood what
this poster is trying 2 pass across

why am happy is that the poster is still in school so there is HOPE

190 I am not talking to you'I am still expecting you to remove me from that list .
But seriously I am in a good mood so I tried to work it out.

He his a darling young man that just needs to sow a few  wild--- . He's got more compassion than guys twice his age.

nope!

Like madlady said, let the other lady down gently. You can do it through subtle actions if that makes you more comfortable.If you lead her on, you'll be hurting her more esp as your feelings for her is dwindling

@poster no though i didnt read ur story

Thank all 4 d advice .but pls can u tell how 2 do coz im always afraid of dis girl .coz i think she's possessed