A lot of women have fed their minds with the fact that no man wants a pure woman.

The bitter truth is “they do want a pure woman”.[i][/i]

Often, we hear guys saying, ”Chioma my girlfriend is a very beautiful, caring and loving lady but I can’t take her home to my mother”.
Did you hear that? It simply means that she is good for dates and not good enough for marriage.

70% of men in our world today spend a better part of their bachelorhood with a very vibrant, beautiful, classy, and hardworking young lady. And when the time is right for them to quit bachelorhood, that longtime girlfriend suddenly is not good enough for marriage. They’d rather go to their villages to pick someone whom they think is homely, not exposed and can keep a home.
And you still believe they do not want a pure woman?

This is one of the major reason why there are so many ladies who are heartbroken today. It is also the reason why there are a lot of unmarried ladies who are not getting any younger.

Ladies! We have to “game up”. We have to stop making our lives miserable in the hands of men who thinks we are only good in bed and not good enough for marriage. A lot of men are tricky and deceitful, we don’t have to become their prey.

On the other hand, why would they want to marry you when you have given them all of yourself while still in a relationship you do not know where it is headed?
You visit your boyfriend and most times live in the same house with him. you perform all the duties of a house wife,you wash, cook, keep the house tidy, added with the all the sexual benefits and you still expect him to tie the knot with you?

He has seen it all, he has no motivation, nothing entices him about you, he longs for nothing new in you anymore and will never take you for a wife.
Most of them even thinks you are desperate and irresponsible when you go out of your way to please them, even though you sacrifice all of that just to make him see how dedicated you are and how much you love and care for him.

Although there are exceptions to this, do not make yourself the unfortunate one by becoming prey to the unserious guys.

Beloved sisters, we do not need to be stung by a scorpion before we come to realize how harmful it is. Let us live to learn from the bitter past experiences of others.

Make a decision about your love life today and watch things change for good.

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This is my opinion,what's your opinion on this?

Ladies always playing the victim.

Like say guys no dey give girls thier all and still get heartbroken.

Op, it's a two way street, deal with it.

Lubbish.

My opinion is that the girls are mumu.

Prey? Don't play victim o.
As long as the guy didn't use juju, you are responsible for yourself. I can only make excuses for teenagers who are impressionable.

That energy you use to do silly things for one boyfriend...put it into fish farming. In two years, you will be smiling to the bank...

pocohantas:
My opinion is that the girls are mumu.

That energy you use to do silly things for one boyfriend...put it into fish farming. In two years, you will be smiling to the bank...

Do you have a boyfriend?

A stubborn fly follows the corpse to the grave. You made some valid points but it's inevitable some would keep doing wifey roles while they're dating.

God knows av not deceived any gal b4....so y won't I go 4 a pure lady

Inanna:
You have a very good point there. Men are very parasitic creatures, they'd use and suck a woman dry till she's empty and then find another fresh, "untainted" woman to settle down with.

Haba!
It's the host that allowed the parasite attach na.
Why allow them suck you in the first place?

You made good points though...

Do not mind some of these comments above me



So many butthurt ladies. Geee!

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Inanna:
You have a very good point there. Men are very parasitic creatures, they'd use and suck a woman dry till she's empty and then find another fresh, "untainted" woman to settle down with. And it's so sad that women of these days are so gullible and would do anything to keep and please these men who'd eventually use them till they're garbage and then move on to the next victim.

Girls, be very wise. Don't make yourself easy to get by these men. Don't turn yourself into his personal maid and cook just for that "wife material" tag. He'all eat your food, wear the clean clothes you washed for him and enjoy twisting you in all angles for sex and still tell you that the man that'll marry you will be lucky. Give yourselves brain and prestige. Don't make your relationship a do or die affair, don't go in with too much expectations (that's where most of you all blunder) and be a good woman, not a good wife to someone that has not yet even proposed.

d guy dat drained u is very wicked I swear
Almost all ur posts av been about hatred on men
nawa oo

Victornezzar:
d guy dat drained u is very wicked I swear Almost all ur posts av been about hatred on men nawa oo

Seriously, more like pains of a dyke


Or if she's a virgin, we'd understand

imo, not necessarily pure but a lady wey never cast.

VargasVee:


Seriously, more like pains of a dyke



Or if she's a virgin, we'd understand

Ifffa hear virgin
By her comments she be like pesin wey don dey sleep with men since primary skul

Victornezzar:

d guy dat drained u is very wicked I swear
Almost all ur posts av been about hatred on men
nawa oo

Azzin ehn. E just weak me.

Fadiga24:


Do you have a boyfriend?

What is a boyfriend?

NairalandCS:


Azzin ehn. E just weak me.

Just check her comments Bro

pocohantas:

What is a boyfriend?

The more you post, the more your frustration manifests.

your head dey der jare. we ladies need to "game up".[i][/i]

Inanna:
You have a very good point there. Men are very parasitic creatures, they'd use and suck a woman dry till she's empty and then find another fresh, "untainted" woman to settle down with. And it's so sad that women of these days are so gullible and would do anything to keep and please these men who'd eventually use them till they're garbage and then move on to the next victim.

Girls, be very wise. Don't make yourself easy to get by these men. Don't turn yourself into his personal maid and cook just for that "wife material" tag. He'all eat your food, wear the clean clothes you washed for him and enjoy twisting you in all angles for sex and still tell you that the man that'll marry you will be lucky. Give yourselves brain and prestige. Don't make your relationship a do or die affair, don't go in with too much expectations (that's where most of you all blunder) and just be a good woman, not a good wife to someone that has not yet even proposed.

Fadiga24:


The more you post, the more your frustration manifests.

You asked a question and I asked for explanation...so I can answer well. Then you come with the usual frustration line.

Can you guys be unpredictable for once?
I guess never...

pocohantas:

You asked a question and I asked for explanation...so I can answer well. Then you come with the usual frustration line.

Can you guys be unpredictable for once?
I guess never...

U really ever needed an explanation to the word 'boyfriend'?

Or you asked the meaning of it because you seemingly doesn't care anymore what it represents

And they say women are confused. Problem is, they can't handle the truth. When they are faced with reality, they either cower like scared dogs or they tell you that you're frustrated or that you're ranting or one of their other usually stupid lines. Just learn to ignore. I Don't t attempt to answer their question or reason with them because to be honest, their ability to reason rationally and logically is heavily clouded.

pocohantas:

You asked a question and I asked for explanation...so I can answer well. Then you come with the usual frustration line.

Can you guys be unpredictable for once?
I guess never...

Inanna:
And they say women are confused. Problem is, they can't handle the truth. When they are faced with reality, they either cower like scared dogs or they tell you that you're frustrated or that you're ranting or one of their other usually stupid lines. Just learn to ignore. Doubt attempt to answer their question or reason with them because to be honest, their ability to reason rationally and logically is heavily clouded.

I'm used to them and their plenty lines, ashawo, feminist, frustrated feminist... very predictable creatures. The OP said the truth, I am just against playing victim, women need to start taking responsibility for themselves.

That's why I will always say, they all have pricks...sadly wisdom isn't in the genitals. So, ladies should work on themselves and be deserving of that man with a brain...

how do u expect me 2 read dis lng tin ehn

pocohantas:

I ask again...what is a boyfriend?

Seems you are more interested in dealing in semantics than the real thing.

I've got no time for explanations.

tosyne2much:
I'm highly impressed by this piece of thoroughly researched write-up

The truth of the matter is that men will always go for reserved and conservative women when it comes to marriage. That's why you can be as pretty and classy as Beyonce, yet your boyfriend may dump your ass and marry a "village" girl as you said

Ladies should learn to work on their attitudes rather than their looks. Most men date for "beauty" when it comes to relationship, but when it comes to marriage, they marry for "attitudes".

When you have good morals and attitudes yet men keep dumping your ass, please examine your life and you would see that something is wrong somewhere.

Lalasticlala, please what's your take on this?

are you sure about that because a few years ago a guy broke up with me and in his exact words he said "you are too reserved for me"

havilla:
are you sure about that because a few years ago a guy broke up with me and in his exact words he said "you are too reserved for me"

The truth of the matter is that most reserved ladies are usually very respectful, calm, intelligent and well behaved. They don't jump from one place to another all in the name of fun

Most reserved ladies always want their men to be very committed to them and I guess that your guy doesn't want committment but still wants to flex his life

You mean cleaning, cooking, sex, etc?

If so, it's pretty normal to do some of these things for a boyfriend, they're part of the things that set the tone for a possible marriage, it depends on the couple.

I understand the points you're making though, there's no one method when it comes to relationships unfortunately as you'll have guys who will take advantage and leave and some who appreciate it and don't, you've just got to discern the ones that are taking you for a ride which I know is easier said than done, in such cases we can only try to be sharp and hope.

Most important thing is to maintain a balance between doing some of these things as a girlfriend because you care for him and not being a doormat, devaluing/respecting yourself etc, do things for him but don't blindly play house, especially when it isn't being reciprocated.

pocohantas:


I'm used to them and their plenty lines, ashawo, feminist, frustrated feminist... very predictable creatures. The OP said the truth, I am just against playing victim, women need to start taking responsibility for themselves.

That's why I will always say, they all have pricks...sadly wisdom isn't in the genitals. So, ladies should work on themselves and be deserving of that man with a brain...

Do u actually know what u want in a relationship,or u are moved by the pleasures in it,coz if u don't u won't be a victime to ur complains...

Martin0:
Do u actually know what u want in a relationship,or u are moved by the pleasures in it,coz if u don't u won't be a victime to ur complains...

I don't think I typed in swahili.

What part of my post did I complain of being a victim? Please show me where, if not, stop personalising or giving my post a different meaning. Thanks.

ibkayee:
You mean cleaning, cooking, sex, etc?

If so, it's pretty normal to do some of these things for a boyfriend, they're part of the things that set the tone for a possible marriage, it depends on the couple.

I understand the points you're making though, there's no one method when it comes to relationships unfortunately as you'll have guys who will take advantage and leave and some who appreciate it and don't, you've just got to discern the ones that are taking you for a ride which I know is easier said than done, in such cases we can only try to be sharp and hope.

Most important thing is to maintain a balance between doing some of these things as a girlfriend because you care for him and not being a doormat, devaluing/respecting yourself etc, do things for him but don't blindly play house, especially when it isn't being reciprocated.

Just look at brain.