ibkayee:
You mean cleaning, cooking, sex, etc?

If so, it's pretty normal to do some of these things for a boyfriend, they're part of the things that set the tone for a possible marriage, it depends on the couple.

I understand the points you're making though, there's no one method when it comes to relationships unfortunately as you'll have guys who will take advantage and leave and some who appreciate it and don't, you've just got to discern the ones that are taking you for a ri done, in such cases we can only try to be sharp and hope.

Most important thing is to maintain a balance between doing some of these things as a girlfriend because you care for him and not being a doormat, devaluing/respecting yourself etc, do things for him but don't blindly play house, especially when it isn't being reciprocated.

Yea, you're right. I think that's the point she was trying to make...

pocohantas:

Yea, you're right. I think that's the point she was trying to make...

Ahh we're on the same page, thought she meant don't do it at all, my bad

PREAAACHH! Oh lord this comment gave me shivers down my spine

Inanna:
You have a very good point there. Men are very parasitic creatures, they'd use and suck a woman dry till she's empty and then find another fresh, "untainted" woman to settle down with. And it's so sad that women of these days are so gullible and would do anything to keep and please these men who'd eventually use them till they're garbage and then move on to the next victim.

Girls, be very wise. Don't make yourself easy to get by these men. Don't turn yourself into his personal maid and cook just for that "wife material" tag. He'all eat your food, wear the clean clothes you washed for him and enjoy twisting you in all angles for sex and still tell you that the man that'll marry you will be lucky. Give yourselves brain and prestige. Don't make your relationship a do or die affair, don't go in with too much expectations (that's where most of you all blunder) and just be a good woman, not a good wife to someone that has not yet even proposed.

ibkayee:

Ahh we're on the same page, thought she meant don't do it at all, my bad

LOL! I thought same at first, but I got her message towards the end. Their anger is that she made men seem like the evil ones, and women the victims of their manipulation...

You summarised it in less vindictive way, so, you're the wife material for today

pocohantas:

LOL! I thought same at first, but I got her message towards the end. Their anger is that she made men seem like the evil ones, and women the victims of their manipulation...

You summarised it in less vindictive way, so, you're the wife material for today

I don't want to be wife material on here biko, take it back abeg

pocohantas:

I don't think I typed in swahili.

What part of my post did I complain of being a victim? Please show me where, if not, stop personalising or giving my post a different meaning. Thanks.

I guess this talks about something(I'm used to them and their plenty lines, ashawo,
feminist, frustrated feminist... very predictable
)

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