most people would not consider their life successful if they have not found love and a happy marriage. We spend a better part of our youth in search of the perfect partner and the perfect relationship. Sometimes, it takes us a couple of attempts before we get there. Many of us dream about a fairy tale life of happily ever after. But, none of these tales talk about the trials and tribulations a couple have to go through before they get married or the changes that takes place in each one’s life after marriage.

Living the happily ever after is based on mutual trust, love and the ability to adjust and compromise. There should be give and take from both sides of the party. And of course, a person’s likes or dislikes might change with time. After marriage, we need to accept all this.Here are some ways to deal with changes in marriage.

Ways to deal with changes in marriage are:

1.Try to understand: When you encounter marriage problems, especially after a long relationship, it might be difficult for you to accept this new face of your partner. Try to understand why your spouse is behaving like this.

2.An open conversation: An open heart-to-heart conversation always work miracles in many marriage problems. Time your conversation, so that your partner is in a good mood and willing to open up about the new changes.

3.See a therapist: Sometimes, it will take more than a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse to understand why he behaves in this new way. Therapists are trained to weed out marriage problems and it is advisable to seek their help.

4.Let the past be past: When you are trying to learn how to deal with change after marriage, always let the past be past. No one likes to be reminded that they are no longer as good as they used to be. Don’t let the past drag you down.

5.Don’t point fingers: It is easy to point fingers and start blaming others while you are trying how to deal with changes after marriage. Blaming your partner will not help you to adjust with new changes.

6.Change yourself first: While you learn how to deal with changes after marriage, give a thought of changing yourself before you try to change your partner. Try to adapt to the new situation and see how smart your are on this.

7.Give some time: Sometimes, these new changes are only temporary. In order to know how to deal with changes after marriage, all you might have to do is to give your spouse some time and he may grow out of it.

8.Renew your love: Despite all the new changes in your life, your spouse is still the same person you married. Renew your love and show that you still love and respect them, while you try how to deal with changes after marriage.

9.Only two in matrimony: When you want to know how to deal with changes after marriage, be careful when you seek advice of a third party other than a professional.

These are the ways to deal with changes in marriage.


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I love this tnx

Ok and noted, thanks........It's raining and cold so I will........

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Okay oooo... B. Sc in female secrecy
Someone should bring a funny post jare.. We need to laugh small after all this bad bad news during the week.

Can't wait to get married to this nairalander.

10. Do not rely on the advice of friends

That's how they will make you break up and get down with your partner.

Kinda scared of getting married but when I do, the best option is to adapt to the changing situation.

Is that all?

Make i park here first

lemme book here first

and here too

How about sexual changes like what I'm experiencing

https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife

OchoL:
Sometimes when love is lost, no amount of "fixing"
can bring it back
An unhappy marriage is cancer to the soul.

So wat r U advicing, DIVORCE



ARE U MARRIED

wat if she is a chronic cheat

Marriage is like a game of chess, except the board is flowing water, the pieces are made of smoke and no move you make will have any effect on the outcome.

Otexdog:
How about sexual changes like what I'm experiencing

pls throw more light on the "SEXUAL CHANGES" YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT

You didn't touch every area.. What if she's a cheating wife?

oshe11:
pls throw more light on the "SEXUAL CHANGES" YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT

https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife

For this lekki flood marriage make sense ooo


This is serious and the rain is still pouring down heavily people now leave their houses with canoe


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you will die very soon.............IJN

NCANTaskForce:
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none

NCANTaskForce:
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Op, marriage is the only institution where there are no textbooks nor handouts, no lectures sef but so many course advisers

From experience, it is a two way street, to avoid wahala,
Husband should lead a responsible lifestyle, get a job and build a career.
Wife make your own money, support the family, be submissive to your husband, guide your home and don't keep unnecessary friendship with people.

Forget about challenges, they will definitely come around, when they do u, be free to express thyself in a matured way, identify the root cause and amend same together, do not get a third party involved on any issue because nothing is new and nothing is too urgent in this life!

Otexdog:
How about sexual changes like what I'm experiencing

Sexual changes? Please elucidate