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In recent years, movies and television shows geared toward women have idealized the gay male friend. Shows like Sex and the City, for example, seem to suggest that no woman’s circle of friends is complete without at least one good gay friend. Maybe we’re reading a bit too much into this, but we’re pretty sure this fictional phenomenon has at least some roots in reality. In our experience, women love gay men.


However, according to the big and small screens, it seems there’s a particular kind of gay man with which most women are enamored by: They love the stylish, sarcastic and supportive guy; the gay man who looks good, listens to her and is loyal to a fault. Upon examination, it’s not hard to figure out why women love gay men who fit this criteria.

So, it stands to reason that by examining what women love about gay men, we heterosexual guys might be able to learn a few things.
Men’s clothes
Many, if not most, gay men have a great sense of fashion and style. For whatever reason, it seems gay men know how to dress, and they often put us heterosexual guys to shame with their impeccable taste in clothes and high fashion IQ. This is just one of the many reasons why women love gay men.

So, how can you tell if you have style or not? Ask yourself this: Do you ever walk into a crowded room and feel like the best-dressed guy there? If your answer is “no, never” you may need to rethink your wardrobe. In fact, if women rarely compliment you on your appearance -- say, less than once or twice a week -- it’s probably time to restock your closet.

Physical fitnessYes, it’s a bit of a stereotype, but you’ll probably concede that many of the gay men you know are serious about physical fitness, and that’s another reason why women love gay men. Of course, heterosexual women are big fans of the carefully sculpted male form. Gay or straight, women enjoy being in the presence of a well-built man.

However, it’s also the shared interest in working out and living a healthy lifestyle that women appreciate about their gay friends. In many instances, gay men simply take better care of themselves than we do, and our female companions would appreciate it if we followed suit. So take a cue from your athletically inclined gay friends, and hit the gym with your significant other, or join her when she goes for a run.
Sensitivity
A 2008 study published by the National Academy of Sciences revealed that gay men and straight women have similarly shaped brains: Both are symmetrical, whereas the straight male brain is asymmetrical; it is slightly larger on the right side (the same shape as the gay female brain). So, it’s possible that gay men think and see the world in a way that women can relate to; that might be another reason why women love gay men.

The bottom line is that your girlfriend’s friends communicate with her, and her gay male friend is no exception. His willingness to sympathize and try to understand her is surely one of the reasons your girlfriend loves her gay friend. And it wouldn’t kill you to take a cue from that guy and think about her feelings a bit more often. Just because our brains are shaped differently doesn’t mean we can’t be a little more sensitive.

Faithfulness
Why do women love gay men? Because women don’t have to worry about their gay male friends leaving them for other women. Surely one of the things that women get out of a friendship with a gay man is male companionship without the fear of betrayal or abandonment.

So what can you do to demonstrate your faithfulness to a woman (besides, you know, not cheating on her)? Try keeping your wandering eye in check. For instance, when you’re out with your girlfriend and a pair of insanely hot twins walks by, don’t let your head spin around like a top.

Fun
We’re generalizing again here, but let it be said: Gay guys are just a good time. They’re funny, refreshingly frank about sex and they can dance. We recognize there must be some dull, socially awkward gay guys out there, but most of the gay guys we know are fun to hang out with, and that’s another reason why women love gay men.

The lesson for straight guys: Try to be less inhibited. Talk louder. Be bolder. Maybe even strut your stuff on the dance floor every now and then.

what do you all think straight guys.

Aint that ladies single-handedly love gay guys.


Its just that gay guys are more like women of their kind,
so they tend to make friends with them more.

i like the them, they are cool and openminded.

And they do have a great sense of style, and a lot know how to do hair.

I had a fabulous hair cut by a gay man. .

And they are much less to thumb down on people.

The white ones I see are usually so cute, u get mad when u find out they are gay!

Had this very very gorgeous white violinist in my strings group, and i mean every girl was in love with him, ( no to mention the fact that he was uber talented!!) but i was so hurt finding out he was doing the celloist, a man

yeah
gay guys got it all sexy slim and fit no pot belly

raphy:

yeah
gay guys got it all sexy slim and fit no pot belly

u must like gay guys no wahalla

[s]gay guys keep up with their fitness because they have to compete with women lol[/s]

Women love gays because. . . . . .

gays are more sensitive to a woman's needs.
gays are more faithful(they won't leave women for other chics)
gays have a great sense of fashion and style.
gays are also physically fit(Women like men that are well-built).

gay guys make good companions for them and have similar interests (the effeminate ones)

I like gay guys but not really gay girls .  .

especially the "butch" ones  hell na 


but the girly gays though can be just as bitchy  as regular girls, but some are real cool

@sauron- gays is not a nice word

platinumnk:

@sauron- gays is not a nice word

So what is the nice word?
Quuers?

~Sauron~:

So what is the nice word?
Quuers?

booty pirates 

butch's are way too masculine (ex- weird mc)

bawomolo:

booty pirates 

Butt-wreckers

~Sauron~:

Butt-wreckers

sword fighters. oh ok now this is going too far 

carpet munchers for the femmes

ooh you guys are terrible 

i got a name : soccer players

platinumnk:

ooh you guys are terrible 

i got a name : soccer players

lmao expect a defamation lawsuit by fifa asap.

flame works for the homos also

platinumnk:

i got a name : soccer players

Emos should do.

bawomolo:

lmao expect a defamation lawsuit by fifa asap.

flame works for the homos also

for what . . they look gay

~Sauron~:

Emos should do.

hmmm most emos arent usually gay . .

platinumnk:

hmmm most emos arent usually gay . .

They are all closet gays abeg.

~Sauron~:

They are all closet gays abeg.

aren't emos just a bunch of weird looking depressed folks.  the sensitive version of goths?

plat - if soccer players look gay then american football is worse with all that tackling 

~Sauron~:

They are all closet gays abeg.

No, no they're not

emos are usually too withdrawn to contemplate being gay

I like to think them as asexual

bawomolo:

aren't emos just a bunch of weird looking depressed folks.  the sensitive version of goths?

ure right, they are in too deep within themselves to think deal with that

bawomolo:



plat - if soccer players look gay then american football is worse with all that tackling  

naaa american football is much more manly. . .  its like how male animals fight each other to be the male victor

platinumnk:


naaa american football is much more manly. . .  its like how male animals fight each other to be the male victor

lol you would enjoy watching rugby and the ufc then.

emos are just plain creepy

platinumnk:

I like gay guys but not really gay girls .  .

especially the "butch" ones  hell na 


but the girly gays though can be just as bitchy  as regular girls, but some are real cool

@sauron- gays is not a nice word

Interesting, I always postulated this as the case being most women being better friends/more comfortable with gay guys while men really being more ok with gay females. To my knowledge as well as empirically  this has always been the case.

bawomolo:

lol you would enjoy watching rugby and the ufc then.

emos are just plain creepy

rugby  . . . i dont know

emo music is cool though evanescence, frou frou, etc

Can't go the whole mile of befriending a gay dude. They tend to talk a lot.

stillwater:

Can't go the whole mile of befriending a gay dude. They tend to talk a lot.

but they are usually funny, always cracking jokes lol. . .

there is gay guy on youtube that has some sorta video diary and she/he is hilarious!

Naa, they are not humorous to me. Can't even stand ladies who talk a lot, how much more a dude.

ibkaye:

No, no they're not

Emos = gays = queers = butt wreckers = butt invaders = shirt lifters.

~Sauron~:

Emos = gays = queers = butt wreckers = butt invaders = shirt lifters.

if you barely have emotion for anything than themselves, how can they be gay?

platinumnk:

if you barely have emotion for anything than themselves, how can they be gay?

self love = same sex love = homosexual = gays = emos.

ROTFLMFAO!!

no i dont like gay men

my gay friends are all keepin it in the closet!

personality wise thay are very similar to women

just that they are men|!

women prefer the company of men than fellow women

not really much rocket science to it!
most of the outly ones can be pretty annoying

but the normal manly ones just freak me out!

most of the outly ones can be pretty annoying

Yeah, very annoying lol. Usually men are not one of the most talkative species so when you find another man who cannot shut his trap its really vexing. I have a friend named Gay Joe , and the guy never stops talking man, and he always talk about intimacy all the time lol

Infact the outly ones are the most annoying, I prefer the ones in the closet

SEFAGO:

Yeah, very annoying lol. Usually men are not one of the most talkative species so when you find another man who cannot shut his trap its really vexing. I have a friend named Gay Joe , and the guy never stops talking man, and he always talk about intimacy all the time lol

Infact the outly ones are the most annoying, I prefer the ones in the closet

you feel me!

one thing i HATE more than gay men

is men who talk too much and men who gossip

so imagine how i feel abt a man who is gay and talks too much??