tosyne2much:
An evil person is not only someone that wants you dead. An evil person is someone who knows a man has wife at home yet decides to have an affair with him

Karma is always there to pay back those kind of ladies in their own coin sha

Fakemumu:
Well at this stage of my life,if I found out my husband is cheating on me,well I will hang my bag,carry my pikin n leave .I don't have time for nonsense oo,faithful men are out there,not all are cheats , atleast I know of one.,faithful men will certainly cross a path of a faithful woman like myself.simple,life is too small to live the rest of ur life unhappy..,

Asorockqueen:
The rate at which some couples break up is now alarming and records have shown that it's always the cause of some side chicks, Why do some girls always find joy in seeing their fellow girls suffer in marriage, I know we have to blame the men in a way but most girls are quick to do anything to have the man, well I just want to say whatever you reap you shall sow, Ladies let's learn to support each other

iwadobo:


Be prepared to move out soon. Except your husband is a dumb ass, he is certainly cheating on you. Mark my words.

Asorockqueen:
The rate at which some couples break up is now alarming and records have shown that it's always the cause of some side chicks, Why do some girls always find joy in seeing their fellow girls suffer in marriage, I know we have to blame the men in a way but most girls are quick to do anything to have the man, well I just want to say whatever you reap you shall sow, Ladies let's learn to support each other

connectpoint:


You didn't include Abuja, the senetorial quarters..although e don dey cast.. back in d days, it was a market square for girls..

When Ajah too first opened up, you need to see, 2pm 3pm 4pm, they carry their tooth pick legs all over the place upandan...


it's ladies exploiting weak men at the expense of women..it's a cycle

sekem:


Thank you so much for saying this

Please help me pass on this same message of yours to people like lionessza and lalas247

Thank you

BluntBoy:


What is this one saying?

boiz2men:


i do not wish you bad but if it turns out ya husband is one of those "dogs".... i wonder who you would confront when you catch ya husband and his side chick smooching....

dont be too quick to say things with all seriousness if you dont have a first hand experience.. (in this case, you as a wife).


as for other females trying so hard to heap all blame on the man....... my guess is , you are all unmarried with no experience..... i think only that amarabae girl or somthing is married here... go read her contribution and you all would see y i think shes married.









if i were a lady, i would smartly (without being caught) kidnap the side chick and pour acid on her face and see if my husband would find her attractive again.. and i would make sure she never looks attractive ever again....


side chicks dont deserve getting married





p:s
i dont cheat.... so i can make such judgment...

ibkayee:

It isn't 'in a way', if the guy has no respect for his marriage/relationship, why would the sidechick? You’d also be surprised at how many sidechicks aren't aware that their partner is already with someone. When she does know though, it's a 50/50 effort at the very least

Women who involve themselves with anyone knowing that they're already in a relationship are a disgrace and you'll probably lose him the same way you got him

boiz2men:


i do not wish you bad but if it turns out ya husband is one of those "dogs".... i wonder who you would confront when you catch ya husband and his side chick smooching....

dont be too quick to say things with all seriousness if you dont have a first hand experience.. (in this case, you as a wife).


as for other females trying so hard to heap all blame on the man....... my guess is , you are all unmarried with no experience..... i think only that amarabae girl or somthing is married here... go read her contribution and you all would see y i think shes married.









if i were a lady, i would smartly (without being caught) kidnap the side chick and pour acid on her face and see if my husband would find her attractive again.. and i would make sure she never looks attractive ever again....


side chicks dont deserve getting married





p:s
i dont cheat.... so i can make such judgment...

boiz2men:


so this is ya new moniker abi... yeye mosquito


and yes.. every one i find out with lose their pretty face....... killing them would be too merciful.... i would want them to look into the mirror and regret their every action and the chicken hearted will eventually commit suicide....

waladis:


Do you think it's that easy if you are not spiritually strong to keep a vow in a country where the women population is almost triple of the men's population plus all what you see everywhere you go now are seductive women especially the new generation of young slay Queens telling the old ones to park well or sẹnpẹ/retire

NwaAmaikpe:


Women are very stingy.


A man can not be owned by only one woman...


The mistake wives make is that they see their men as Limited Liability companies who belong to only them when we are actually Public Limited Companies whose securities are traded on a stock exchange and can be bought and sold by anyone.

We belong to everyone and to no one.
The preek has no defined home.

Wives must understand that the sidechick is her ally and not her rival.
The English proverb rightly said, "what is good for the goose is good for the gander"

So learn to share a preek in peace.

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I blame the men of nowadays, we've become so much of cowards that we can't even run polygamous homes.

pocohantas:

Envious of what Sir?

Funny question @OP.
A man cheats on his wife, and you think the problem is women supporting each other? You go on to see the other woman as the enemy who isn't supporting you. The men that support you women, why can't they keep to their vows?

pocohantas:

Hahaha. Pour a fellow human acid because of an adulterous man?

I should go about soiling my hands ? ? And if she dies? Or I get caught?
To think that his definition of a smart married Nigerian woman is wonderful.

Why do most men get angry when women say they can't fight for such men. Seems they enjoy seeing women tear themselves. So they can sing their anthem on how women hate themselves

Please, you people should stop this beer parlour gist. The population of men in the world, is estimated to exceed that of women with over 65million.

In Nigeria, National Bureau of Statistics, currently estimates the population. At 98,630,184 males with 94,762,333 females.

The last conducted National Census in 2006, had more men than women , with men @ 71,345,488 and women @69,086,302. I understand the whole there are 5women to 1man appeals to the pehnis ego...I understand.

iwadobo:
After reading some bunch of comments here, I realised we are just fighting nature. Monogamy and taking of vows are mere culture of the Europeans . They are not part of God's inherent plan for man and woman relationship; they were rather invented by men who think they are now very civilised to know more than God. Every census in every country, we have more women than men- nature. A man produces about 120 million sperms cell per day while a woman produce 1 egg per mont, nature.

Based on the above natural occurrences, it is glaring that man is naturally designed to be polygamous. It is for this reason that despite the way polygamy is hypocritically being condemned by all, it is still very much in practice , wether directly or indirectly. You claim to have just one wife, yet you have at least , a side chick that is 100% loyal to you, you guys copulate at will, but because you didn't take her to either church or registry as told by your slave masters, the side chick ain't your wife and you are a monogamist. I laugh in spiritual language when I see people reasoning that way. The truth is , men are naturally polygamous, most men are polygamists. If you are married to just a lady and u have side chick, you are polygamous, if you have more than just a wife at a time, you are polygamous. It is time women learn that all men are born polygamists and learn to handle such issue with care so that they can enjoy worry-less and happy marriages. What I preach is moderation , I don't preach monogamy, when I know it is a war against nature , a war nature is sure to win. Yea, nature always win even in the most advanced countries of the world.

SonofDevil:
stop deceiving yourself .

If a man cheats the karma he gets is another man sleeping with his wife and his wife is sent packing .

When a lady dates married man and eventually broke his marriage the karma she gets is another lady breaking her home .

No amount of grammar can change this

KARMA IS REAL

Pataricatering:
the reason why they shame the sidechic is cause they are weak and impotent ! There is nothing else they can do.
Your husband does not send or value you so you can't caution him so you go after the sidechic either physically or with silly emotional blackmail like the op. Its silly to actually think anybody apart fron your immediate family should include your happiness in the decisions they make - like the world actually owes anybody anything! Mschew

boiz2men:



Hope u know I'm male. Lol... If my Lady cheats , she should just elope with the guy.. I will just move on...

But then, my lady may never cheat... She's too busy with furthering her studies. Benefits of dating a bookwarm

HannahHitler:
op it's not anybody's fault if you marry a dog.

there will always be women of easy virtue and your dog. sorry I meant husband is ready to spend your children's school fees on them.

Try to check your husband every morning if he actually wears his ring.

Amarabae:
A sharpner may not be able to stop the pencil from going to other sharpners.
So a sharpner must make its blades sharp to be on top of the game in trapping the pencil.

cococandy:

Oh so you'll move on.
But if you cheat she's expected to not move on?

How don't you sound like a fool to yourself?
I mean don't get how other humans reason sometimes
Like is there a part of brain that fails you logically so badly that you can't make the connection between being ridiculous and making sense?

I give up. It's like teaching a zebra quantum physics

Helentwitty:
my sister, na so one mumu man come de toast me ooo,he said he had a girlfriend and I told him I don't break relationships but I made him my friend but he wanted more..always toasting me.. one day,I just saw one message on my WhatsApp "hey,if u want to be loved by any man,leave my husband alone". I was shocked, before I talk,she don block me. I checked her number up on truecaller and noticed she bears the mumu" s surname. I then texted her and told her to unblock me and I will send her sth. na so she unblock me,I come snap our conversation to the lady..she come de apologize say the husband say I de toast am,I was like what??!!!!!! the problem is with the guys ni!

funmisticqueen:
When a fool talks, it better to keep quiet and be thought of as wise than to open your mouth and leave no doubt of your stupidity.

First of all this is not the context of what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander, it means that if men are polygamous and think their prick is a public toilet brush, then women are polygamous also and their pvssies are public toilets. So if men cheat, women must also.