Should i send him a card telling him i like him? I would send it anonymously but maybe add my cell ph number. Really out of my comfort zone to do it but i really want to know if he feels the same, then we can move on either way. I have had positive vibes from him and then weird reactions to my presence as well, but i just am not sure. I really need to know and i have decided life is too short to wait and wonder for ever.

Rosie_101:

Should i send him a card telling him i like him? I would send it anonymously but maybe add my cell ph number. Really out of my comfort zone to do it but i really want to know if he feels the same, then we can move on either way. I have had positive vibes from him and then weird reactions to my presence as well, but i just am not sure. I really need to know and i have decided life is too short to wait and wonder for ever.

Then act. . .

If it feels good, do it.

Lol, rejection is the thing that stops me. But i will give it some more thought.

Use other means to let him know you like him.

But avoid recorded media pls. _{anything you write or say you could be used against in the court of blackmail}

I don't think anything i would write in a card would have anything useful as black mail! But i know what you mean, u do have to be careful if you write anything down.

[size=13pt]aww i like ladies that know wat they want and go for it
i dunno if a card is the best way to make your intentions known but watever you do be wise and careful
i wish you luck and love  [/size]

A card? Come on. You can do better than that.

Don't do it. . . . wait for him to make a move. If he dosen't then just let him go. Trust me, you make a move on a man, even if he gave you green light, and you've lost that chance with him!

Ujujoan:

Don't do it. . . . wait for him to make a move. If he dosen't then just let him go. Trust me, you make a move on a man, even if he gave you green light, and you've lost that chance with him!

Wrong answer. I am happily married (5yrs plus) to one who made a move and was very stylish about it.  She knew I liked her but I did not make a move because there were things I was unsure of.

There are very smooth ways in which a lady can communicate. Abi you no be women again?

Ujujoan:

Don't do it. . . . wait for him to make a move. If he dosen't then just let him go. Trust me, you make a move on a man, even if he gave you green light, and you've lost that chance with him!

[size=13pt]thats not true my best friend made a move on a boy and guess wat they ve been together for three years now i know,wat works for smith may not work for jones but you can never know until you try and its not like she is going to say : boy i like you so much be my val" she is just going to give him a clue and if he is into her too they ll click. ain't nothing complicated in that .[/size]

ruskiee:

A card? Come on. You can do better than that.

[size=13pt]suggestions !!! she needs suggestions not spanks[/size]

kokoye:

Wrong answer. I am happily married (5yrs plus) to one who made a move and was very stylish about it. She knew I liked her but I did not make a move because there were things I was unsure of.

There are very smooth ways in which a lady can communicate. Abi you no be women again?

Oh, maybe there's something wrong with me then . . .

I made the move on a guy for the very first time in my life sometime ago. With all the green light he was flashing my way and all, I still got 'dumped' . . .

Oh and before you say I didn't so it right, I can tell you that I'm 'gifted' in that feild!

Ujujoan:

Oh, maybe there's something wrong with me then . . .

I made the move on a guy for the very first time in my life sometime ago. With all the green light he was flashing my way and all, I still got 'dumped' . . .

Oh and before you say I didn't so it right, I can tell you that I'm 'gifted' in that feild!

Wrong guy then.

Did not deserve you anyway. _{you - who knows how to calm your man down . .in some other thread}

kokoye:

Wrong guy then.

Did not deserve you anyway. _{you - who knows how to calm your man down . .in some other thread}

lol

Anyway, I tried to tell myself that but it just doesnt ring true. He's a wonderful and decent guy and I truly did see us together for a long time. I've always beleived I ruined it when I made that move!

[quote][/quote]Should i send him a card telling him i like him? I would send it anonymously but maybe add my cell ph number.
Are u serious?How old re u, really?

Ujujoan:


lol

Anyway, I tried to tell myself that but it just doesnt ring true. He's a wonderful and decent guy and I truly did see us together for a long time. I've always beleived I ruined it when I made that move!

Much respect.

You are a honest person.

True. maybe some guys freak out when theyre not yet ready and feel rushed or pressured.

In my case, I had just finished grad school and was ready . .just needed a little push from someone I also wanted and believed in me since I was jobless at the time.

So, is this guy still available?

Ujujoan:

Oh, maybe there's something wrong with me then . . .

I made the move on a guy for the very first time in my life sometime ago. With all the green light he was flashing my way and all, I still got 'dumped' . . .

Oh and before you say I didn't so it right, I can tell you that I'm 'gifted' in that feild!

Nothing wrong with men and from your post it's easy to assume that you are not that gifted after all if he eventually rejected you.
My 2 kobo.

kokoye:

Much respect.

You are a honest person.

True. maybe some guys freak out when theyre not yet ready and feel rushed or pressured.

In my case, I had just finished grad school and was ready . .just needed a little push from someone I also wanted and believed in me since I was jobless at the time.

So, is this guy still available?

Well, I guess people and circumstances are different! I hate lying to myself, which is what I'll be doing if I called him a jerk, but I still wish he handled things a little bit differently.

I wouldn't know if he's still available dou, dude had me singing Brandy's 'Have you ever . . ' for 24 hours of my days back then, I had to delete him from my life.

But if he's with someone now, I hope she makes him happy, he deserves it!

Nothing wrong with men and from your post it's easy to assume that you are not that gifted after all if he eventually rejected you.
My 2 kobo.  

Read my post again honey, I said maybe there was something wrong with 'me' . .  and trust me, I AM gifted!  

Take style do am my sister, no go mess up ya self o.

Ujujoan:

Read my post again honey, I said maybe there was something wrong with 'me' . .  and trust me, I AM gifted!  

hmmm. . .maybe I missed something but erm, erm. . .can you try that your "gift" here and let me see how truly gifted you are? 

Rosie_101:

Should i send him a card telling him i like him? I would send it anonymously but maybe add my cell ph number.  Really out of my comfort zone to do it but i really want to know if he feels the same, then we can move on either way. I have had  positive vibes from him and then weird reactions to my presence as well,  but i just am not sure. I really need to know and i have decided life is too short to wait and wonder for ever.

If u don't try,how r u supposed to know if he has feelings for u also?Forget bout comfort n go 4 wot u want!

Ujujoan:

Well, I guess people and circumstances are different! I hate lying to myself, which is what I'll be doing if I called him a jerk, but I still wish he handled things a little bit differently.

I wouldn't know if he's still available dou, dude had me singing Brandy's 'Have you ever . . ' for 24 hours of my days back then, I had to delete him from my life.

But if he's with someone now, I hope she makes him happy, he deserves it!

True, there are ways to go about saying no to a woman. Hell hath no fury!!  

I can proudly point at two married ladies that I hooked up with their men - these ladies made passes at me. The only thing is the guys never knew anything about us.  I also have a friend I slept with, hooked up with another friend and they are surely married - husband doctor wife nurse in this america!

We are better friends now and they all were at my wedding.

FBS:

hmmm. . .maybe I missed something but erm, erm. . .can you try that your "gift" here and let me see how truly gifted you are?

Sorry, got my hand a bit too full right about now!

kokoye:

True, there are ways to go about saying no to a woman. Hell hath no fury!!

I can proudly point at two married ladies that I hooked up with their men - these ladies made passes at me. The only thing is the guys never knew anything about us. I also have a friend I slept with, hooked up with another friend and they are surely married - husband doctor wife nurse in this america!

We are better friends now and they all were at my wedding.

Lol

You are one hell of a guy ain't you?

Anyway, you 'Americans' keep having fun. It's almost 10 pm here and waaaaay past my bedtime! Night!

I'm still at work but getting ready to leave - taking my son to a Sesame Street Live with Elmo event . . . he's really looking forward to it.

Have a nice wkd.

Well i dont think i will send a card now, i saw him earlier at an event, when i arrived i was the only one there waiting for others and he was in his car, he got out of his car almost immediately and said hi to me and walked past me and stood a bit of distance past me, we made a bit of small talk, then he went into a building and i went for a wander for a few mins. When i came back, i sat down and after about 5 mins he also came out and sat away from me on something else, more small talk, on and off for about 10 mins. Nothing concrete to say YES he really does like me, it was his perfect oppotunity to talk to me and show it as no one was around, but it was actually just very awkward and small talk, so i don't think he feels the same way about me. When he got out of the car i was like wow that was fast but then it all kind of went flat cos nothing but small talk went on and he kept a bit of distance. He would have to be the hardest guy ever to work out!

Ujujoan:

Sorry, got my hand a bit too full right about now!      

I see you are not gifted after all? na so so mouth you get.      

Ladies shud understand that they also have the absolute rigth to go for the man they luv. Also tink that being dumped has nothing to do with who made the move;cus either way,there can still be heartbreak. Do trust me when i say that there are guys who just wouldn't see it until u make them. And its has nothing to do with ego or pride.