Ezemann:
A bird at hand is worth two in the bush

Dlordsamurai:
op first of all, there is nothing in life that we are meant to be. you and your old friend are done for good. how can you move on when you wont let go of the past. in this time of life, there is no time to check time, if i offend a lady and she gets angry and i tried to reconcile but she still avoid me then my brother i will move on with my life. IT is true that we dont know the value of something untill we loss it but it is also true that we dont know what we have been missing, until it arrives. "op give the new lady a chance and write the name of the old lady on a paper, take a match box and lit it with fire saying that as i burn your name with this paper, i am burning all the memories i have of you. OP DO THIS AND THANK ME LATER.

IgboYorubaHausa:


Thank you so much! I knew I could forget her if I try, but I can't bring myself to try.

Dlordsamurai:
BRO stop hurting yourself over a lady, bro this world is too too sweet to waste your time over a lady. Bro i will advice you to give this new lady your time, go on a date with her, take her to the beach, swim with her, dance with her, laught with her, help her in cooking, play video games with her and love her. the other lady is history.

Prognose:
"we had a misunderstanding that lead to me saying things I'm not supposed to say to her."


What are the things you told her?

You know there are some things you will say, words that will hurt, especially if she gave you some information during her most vulnerable moment and you now used it to insult her.... She won't forgive u ever. Women can be like that o. Even if you eventually get married she might still hold it against u.

If you have pleaded with her before to forgive but she's still behaving pissed off then u should tell her point blank that you are moving on. Give her an official break-up and move on. Don't start another relationship without expressly letting her know you have ended this one. It's very important so that if she's just sulking or doing shakara, she will know she has overdone it and needs to stop the airs. But if after u say you're moving on and she still persists in remaining annoyed, guy, move on oh. She won't forgive u later. Even if you beg and beg she might end up accepting u back out of pity. And that can end badly if eventually you two get married.

IgboYorubaHausa:


I'm truly hurting myself, thanks so much. The burning paper issue though, seems like voodoo stuff

IgboYorubaHausa:


I acted premature with things I said, but I'd rather not elaborate as she is on Nairaland too

Dlordsamurai:
IT works and its not voodoo, just believe.