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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Nobody: 6:38am On Jul 22, 2017
EgunMogaji:


Discipline is not shutting down and deactivating.

Discipline is having access to the phone there but still not touching it unless necessary.
wise elder of nairaland, I twale for you sir

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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Nobody: 6:39am On Jul 22, 2017
Lalas247:
Sis look at yourself and ask what can I do ....
has he come back from work and he finds you naked grin with strawberries n cream *wink*

If that doesn't work my dear he is not interested oooooo
Trust me someone keeping him company , more exciting , intriguing and not boring on the other line
Think***

Wat an experienced lala
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by mr1759: 6:39am On Jul 22, 2017
I pray God occupy him with a more serious things like viable personal business he will Change
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by perry00: 6:39am On Jul 22, 2017
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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by ugofab: 6:41am On Jul 22, 2017
it's simple. you are the boss of his heart.just seize the phone and get intimate with Him.My girl does it too. She'd take my phone and whine about me not giving her necessary attention and before you know it I'd be the one begging and trying to make her happy and we might prolly get down to the real thing.Warning!if your husband is bad -tempered I no send you work ooo b4 u end up with a black eye!
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Youngzedd(m): 6:41am On Jul 22, 2017
DaniDani:
@OP, it seems like I am your husband. This is just my problem and my babe is seriously complaining about it. Sometimes she will take the phone from me and toss it aside. Being a matured man I am, I will laugh over it and romance starts because she thinks I am giving the phone more attention than her. Just use play and romance to stop it, that's all.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by obataokenwa(m): 6:42am On Jul 22, 2017
Coolturbo:


Why till September, thats like5weeks from now. i can bet you,you will shift it again to December
I won't.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Lalas247(f): 6:42am On Jul 22, 2017
gentlemanism1:


Wat an experienced lala
Oga wetin na ... u put GPs for my yansh abi wetin happen cheesy
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Pylony(m): 6:43am On Jul 22, 2017
It's now a habit hard to stop, which is clearly an addiction which in the 21st century most of us are guilty of, no denying it.
Thats why you're a Woman, a man's helper. In such a whirl hole he has fund himself be that romantic Wife, dress in a romantic way perform a sexy lap dance for instance, just for his eyes alone, use your bedroom voice to ignite his heat level up.

I tell you even if he's a piece of log he'll give you attention and toast his phone away. Then give him a night to remember you by, abegi stop complaining when you'v got all what it take to turn a man into a semi Konji zombie. grin grin

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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Teacher1776(m): 6:44am On Jul 22, 2017
glo4chuks:
We have been married 4 - 5 years with so many ups n down but by the God's grace we are gaining balance now. But my husband just got a habit of always pressing his phone, while eating, talking evening wake up at midnight just to operate phone.

This habit has limited communication, sex, in fact anything at all couples can do. He goes to office in the morning, comes back by 6 or 7 :oo but all he will do for the rest of the day is phone.

l have talked to him several times about it but no change, I don't want to suspect anything but am getting tired of this union pls advice a sister tnx.

i think am addicted to phone pressing too.
However what I know is that communication is the most important medium for resolving most family problems. However the timing and manner of approach matters a lot. Be realistic. Be confident. Be in a matter of fact mode. Show him clear evidence of how the relationship is deteriorating. Avoid nagging or unnecessarily complaining.
Secondly u may need to look inward. You too are probably changing. Have u been making extra demands from him of late? Do you still make yourself look attractive for him? Think of what aspect of your life you need to modify in order to drag your husband from that new world he has created for himself. He is probably using the phone as an escape route from the current harsh realities. And u need wisdom to pull him back to face the reality.
Be more loving. He is definitely not having an affair. That am sure of.
Be prayerful too. A family that prays together, stays together.

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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Housing(m): 6:46am On Jul 22, 2017
Try to know what he is doing with his always. Don't fight him about introduced a fine soap opera to him that you know that he will like. My wife too use to complain before but she was the one that push me into it. By alienating me in the past. Until I found new companion in my phone. Now I have introduced her to all my favourite sites and we have movies that the family use to watch together. Make sure you always stick around him even while he is browsing try to put your head on his leg. He will get the message and give you the necessary attention. You might have alienated him in the past without knowing by giving all your attention to your child/children. Bring interesting discussion about your office, business challenges and other comic events or happenings in your neighborhood or business locations. Family issues like finance, holiday, house project, business opportunities and matters concerning your children.

Make sure you are his best friend and confidant.

May GOD guide you right.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by lelvin(m): 6:46am On Jul 22, 2017
While he is on the phone, go inside snap the kpekus and send to him or a picture of you in a see-through gown. You know what to do after that....
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by dingbang(m): 6:49am On Jul 22, 2017
His phone is more interesting than his wife
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by richhy84: 6:49am On Jul 22, 2017
Madam just be patient my wife complain too if he is a sport lover , political news, economic news nairaland .you too read ahead and interact with him. Or tune in to his favourite TV channel or radio station. This is what I did, my wife read and take care of the children after work. She prepares the food early then when am back from work I join her to watch her best movies for 1hour to satisfy her and discuss with her about the movie or what she was reading then I concentrate on my phone. by 11pm I go to bed

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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by repogirl(f): 6:50am On Jul 22, 2017
OP, having been married for a few years older than yours, and also gone through similar phases like this, I'll advice you to do find something productive to do while he is on his phone, so you don't get bored.

For me, I found Nairaland which occupies me in my free time to be bothered that my husband is on the phone. After we have both perused our phones taya, we find mutual topics to discuss and argue about, lol.

You can find out what he likes to read about/talk with his friends about and get yourself into it also. It would give you two something to connect about. You will see after sometime, he will drop the phone and gist with you.

Worked for me.

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Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Pylony(m): 6:50am On Jul 22, 2017
Lalas247:
Sis look at yourself and ask what can I do ....
has he come back from work and he finds you naked grin with strawberries n cream *wink*

If that doesn't work my dear he is not interested oooooo
Trust me someone keeping him company , more exciting , intriguing and not boring on the other line
Think***
Chaii this one weak me down below grin
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by stella265(f): 6:51am On Jul 22, 2017
lol, yeye dey smell
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by MrBONE2(m): 6:52am On Jul 22, 2017
obataokenwa:
Your husband is not alone. I'm more addicted than him. I don't think there's a solution other than get a non browsing phone. Deep down I know I'm addicted to phone but planning to shut down and deactivate all by September first. Discipline
grin
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Nobody: 6:52am On Jul 22, 2017
Lalas247:

Oga wetin na ... u put GPs for my yansh abi wetin happen cheesy

How i go put GPs wey i never see ur yansh before? Wait make i see am first na
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Lalas247(f): 6:53am On Jul 22, 2017
Pylony:
Chaii this one weak me down below grin
I dey teh you grin

When he come back nothing to look at ... no excitement you can't blame the guy .. his phone giving him all the juice he needs
Make she dey there dey ask us question

I repeat no husband will refuse a good Kitty ... na disrespect be dat na say phone carry first over the geh matter cheesy
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Josh44s(m): 6:53am On Jul 22, 2017
People wey nor even get bf go still open mouth they talk opata. Mtchewwww!
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Lalas247(f): 6:53am On Jul 22, 2017
gentlemanism1:


How i go put GPs wey i never see ur yansh before? Wait make i see am first na
Haha yeye guy .. morning
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Viking007(m): 6:54am On Jul 22, 2017
MrMoney007:
You never see something

If he's on our betting crew, our Sweet and humble August is around the corner. From phone to TVgrin

Don't quote me, betting is fun for me, it's not for the little change.

Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Chykes403: 6:58am On Jul 22, 2017
Destined2win:
Bring up interesting issues he like. Play with him.

Dats true. It seems the babe is not a gist kind of person or she talks too much and the husband is a qiuet type
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by transient123(m): 6:58am On Jul 22, 2017
babythug:
It's a common scenario in many homes. I suggest you find other things to occupy your own time too at least for a while.

The attention you're paying to the matter will likely make your man more fixated on using the phone.

As harsh as it sounds keep communication basic for now! Just ignore him he will come round eventually!

That could be counterproductive if you look at it intrinsically. As a married man and from experience, when both parties get engrossed in whatever thing they do, then, intimacy suffers, closeness and the I don't care syndrome set in and they will both live like men in the house.

Please madam, engage him in talk when he is most vulnerable to listen, if he isn't the selfish type, he will come back to his senses. You could cry at times and assume, the "I am not happy with this' posture, by His grace normalcy shall return.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Pylony(m): 7:01am On Jul 22, 2017
Lalas247:

I dey teh you grin

When he come back nothing to look at ... no excitement you can't blame the guy .. his phone giving him all the juice he needs
Make she dey there dey ask us question

I repeat no husband will refuse a good Kitty ... na disrespect be dat na say phone carry first over the geh matter cheesy

Funny you, but its true every lady have what it take to keep her man to her self but just a few know how to use it grin. Believe me, just the sexy bed room voice turn many men to your spell, even if a Lady have PhD, still Just a few know the secret around a Man's heart wink. When to approach him when he's angry and in good times.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by rOsy247(f): 7:01am On Jul 22, 2017
harbjar:
but like seriously, how can a man that has testosterone running in his blood allow phone come between him and SEX.. as in SEX ooo... we men dont play with food and SEX.. seems he is finding more pleasure with his phone than you... u ve gat work to do oo.. use all he tricks, all the cunning methods and assets Go has bestowed on u as a woman and win your husband back.... noway will a phone be snatching ya husband from you... and pls dont be tired of the marriage, when its like nt he is maltreating u or beating u.. just try and make this thing work... GOD HELP U

Gbam!! I have a friend whose husband does same thing. When asked, he said he's even still in the marriage cos of his children.



Op do not listen to those saying you should also be addicted to your phone, u might make things worse. Not all men are mature enough to understand. Don't be fussy too. Use your womanly powers.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Johnsown1(m): 7:02am On Jul 22, 2017
glo4chuks:
We have been married 4 - 5 years with so many ups n down but by the God's grace we are gaining balance now. But my husband just got a habit of always pressing his phone, while eating, talking evening wake up at midnight just to operate phone.

This habit has limited communication, sex, in fact anything at all couples can do. He goes to office in the morning, comes back by 6 or 7 :oo but all he will do for the rest of the day is phone.

l have talked to him several times about it but no change, I don't want to suspect anything but am getting tired of this union pls advice a sister tnx.

Try initiating the romance, if not get a phone that browse then stay online morethan him. Read news more, download games if u know how to use one, whenever he comes back and went tp his phone as usual, brief him about the news on line; sports and Nigeria news especially. So with time he must come around.
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Chykes403: 7:04am On Jul 22, 2017
Its so unfortunate my dear. Maybe you need to check wat he is actually pressing on his phone before you conclude.

Or beta still spice up a gist so dat u guys can talk and in the course of doing dat, ask him mildy, wat he is always pressing in his phone
Re: How Can I Stop My Husband's Phone Addiction? by Lalas247(f): 7:05am On Jul 22, 2017
Pylony:

Funny you, but its true every lady have what it take to keep her man to her self but just a few know how to use it grin. Believe me, just the sexy bed room voice turn many men to your spell, even if a Lady have PhD, still Just a few know the secret around a Man's heart wink. When to approach him when he's angry and in good times.

You have sense dear cheesy
I have been saying this they wont hear word ... with that PhD she probably say she too tired to sex
You will still see another complain

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