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What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by bammiey(m): 10:39am On Jul 23, 2017
Men are not encouraged to be weak and vulnerable.

Men are human beings. As human beings we feel lost, afraid, insecure, weak at times. But because we are taught to deny these weaker part of ourselves it leads to a whole laundry list of problems in men because if we can't empathize with ourselves how are we going to empathize and establish meaningful relationships with others?

We learn to kill our softness and humanity.

As young boys we are taught by our families and society to be "strong." This false strength is an idealized masculine image of invulnerability with shades of heroism and violence mixed in
Even in relationship more often than not the male counterpart tends to be the sacrificing and showing affection towards the female folks knowing fully wel, it might sometimes lead to harassment, approval and the likes.
So whats ur take NAI[color=#770077][/color]RALANDERS
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by falconey(m): 10:41am On Jul 23, 2017
Wait let me ask a professor......

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Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 23, 2017
angry


Controlling an erection in public
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by hertz9te(m): 10:44am On Jul 23, 2017
discovering your purpose,otherwise you are just another pussy
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Nobody: 10:46am On Jul 23, 2017
Yeah
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by dingbang(m): 10:46am On Jul 23, 2017
Pretending you can do ok by yourself...
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Nobody: 10:48am On Jul 23, 2017
Showing normal human emotion doesn't make you weak
If you don't show emotion and fail to pass the test of life. It only means you are pretending

Human. Strength in our heart

To be strong means to be able to go through some of the thoughest things in life and overcoming them.
Don't you see footballers that cry after a match does that mean they weak or won't come back again

Those that become successful and remain successful are strong

Even some ladies are strong
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Nobody: 11:17am On Jul 23, 2017
Wasting your precious semen on a woman who's as barren as a desert.
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by MissRaine69(f): 11:28am On Jul 23, 2017
dingbang:
Pretending you can do ok by yourself...
That's a very poignant and intelligent response
I admire that.
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by pryme(m): 11:41am On Jul 23, 2017
Having a big say in family related matters when you would rather liked to be left alone.
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by halims008(m): 11:43am On Jul 23, 2017
The struggle to meet the demands of the people under your care and the need to be relevant in the society.
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Mirandah(f): 11:45am On Jul 23, 2017
Break free from gender norms Brah. when you do, You'd be really free.

Mental freedom is true freedom.
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by dingbang(m): 12:01pm On Jul 23, 2017
MissRaine69:

That's a very poignant and intelligent response
I admire that.
cool
Re: What Is The Hardest Thing Of Being A Man. by Goodlyhrt(m): 1:39pm On Jul 23, 2017
being broke

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