Hi ladies, is really being a long time since our discussion on some of the fears, insecurities and unanswered questions we face in our love lives. Today’s article is on the fear of losing him. Thus

“I can’t say no, I can’t afford to lose him”[/i]

Yes, most times, we ladies go into a relationship for all the wrong reasons. Especially when the guy in question supports us financially.
I perfectly understand the feeling of being broke as a lady without a job, who probably just left the university and is searching for green pastures. In such cases to attach so much importance to our relationship, clinging so much to him emotionally, physically and otherwise almost to a fault.

We find it very difficult to say no or object to his opinions or request, we try to please him at all cost even to the detriment of ourselves and our happiness, simply because we have filled our minds with all the impossibilities involved if we dare try to say no to him.

In the quest for love in the wrong relationships, we become slaves to the men who have taken advantage of our situation and who thinks we can’t afford to live or survive without them because they provide us with all that we need.

HERE IS A CLARION CALL TO ALL LADIES IN THE WORLD TODAY!!!
[i]
Ladies! Why settle for less? You can always get better!!

The world might seem to be crumbling around us if we decide to stop being the fool without a sense of purpose. The fear of losing him might be so overwhelming and unimaginable.
The fear of what live would be without him and without money to survive with is unthinkable, hence we continue to cling on to him and hoping that things would get better even when it is obviously not getting any better.

The truth is:

Being in a good relationship where one is loved and cherished gives a great feeling. But instead of managing a bad one, being single is strictly advised.
Sometimes, being single is what you need so as to discover your true self, to discover your inner beauty, to rediscover your self-worth, to do something useful with your live, to learn to be responsible, independent and dependable, to meditate and learn from your past experiences and mistakes and to get better, above all, learn to make the right choices and not settle for less.


Learn to say no today[/b] in that relationship of yours if the relationship does more harm than good to your life. Choose your happiness first, restore the respect you’ve lost and watch as things would turn around for good in your love life.

This is my candid opinion, what’s your take on this?

Thanks for the time spent on reading this piece.

Visit www.femalescholarsfoundation..com for more interesting articles on how to become the desire of your dream man every Mondays and Fridays and be glad you did.

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Are u lecturing them or teaching them?

Hmmm

Lalas247:
Hmmm

Good u are here... U better say YES to me else.....

gentlemanism1:


Good u are here... U better say YES to me else.....

Don't derail this thread oh

Lalas247:

Don't derail this thread oh

Oh! Sorry. Meet me in d other room then

Lalas247:
Don't derail this thread oh

If you don't say YES to him, something go happen here!

Homeboiy:
Are u lecturing them or teaching them?

Was wondering the same thing as well. It did come across as a bit condescending

Paulpaulpaul:


If you don't say YES to him, something go happen here!

Na gun be dat abi na plantain I go kuku chop am

gentlemanism1:


Oh! Sorry. Meet me in d other room then

Where is that

Hi ladies, is really being a long time since our discussion on some of the fears, insecurities and unanswered questions we face in our love lives. Today’s article is on the fear of losing him. Thus

“I can’t say no, I can’t afford to lose him”[/i]

Yes, most times, we ladies go into a relationship for all the wrong reasons. Especially when the guy in question supports us financially.
I perfectly understand the feeling of being broke as a lady without a job, who probably just left the university and is searching for green pastures. In such cases to attach so much importance to our relationship, clinging so much to him emotionally, physically and otherwise almost to a fault.

We find it very difficult to say no or object to his opinions or request, we try to please him at all cost even to the detriment of ourselves and our happiness, simply because we have filled our minds with all the impossibilities involved if we dare try to say no to him.

In the quest for love in the wrong relationships, we become slaves to the men who have taken advantage of our situation and who thinks we can’t afford to live or survive without them because they provide us with all that we need.

HERE IS A CLARION CALL TO ALL LADIES IN THE WORLD TODAY!!!
[i]
Ladies! Why settle for less? You can always get better!!

The world might seem to be crumbling around us if we decide to stop being the fool without a sense of purpose. The fear of losing him might be so overwhelming and unimaginable.
The fear of what live would be without him and without money to survive with is unthinkable, hence we continue to cling on to him and hoping that things would get better even when it is obviously not getting any better.

The truth is:

Being in a good relationship where one is loved and cherished gives a great feeling. But instead of managing a bad one, being single is strictly advised.
Sometimes, being single is what you need so as to discover your true self, to discover your inner beauty, to rediscover your self-worth, to do something useful with your live, to learn to be responsible, independent and dependable, to meditate and learn from your past experiences and mistakes and to get better, above all, learn to make the right choices and not settle for less.


Learn to say no today[/b] in that relationship of yours if the relationship does more harm than good to your life. Choose your happiness first, restore the respect you’ve lost and watch as things would turn around for good in your love life.

This is my candid opinion, what’s your take on this?

Thanks for the time spent on reading this piece.

Visit www.femalescholarsfoundation..com for more interesting articles on how to become the desire of your dream man every Mondays and Fridays and be glad you did.

[b]Kindly share your opinions below