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Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by isidiwent: 8:03am On Jul 26, 2017
Many men as hypocrites get so hurt when the lady they love sincerely and out of love, tells them she had had wild sex in the past, group sex, abortion, had sex at odd places & had some sexual fun & hot styles..... While the men too might have experienced such, rocked life & so on, but get restless when a lady opens up her bad past

Since you are in love, you have an assignment to cherish her, repair her & pamper her no matter her previous escapades & enjoyments. I know it may be a task, but God wants us to love genuinely no matter the past of the person.

The only problem is if the past is still living inside the present of the lady. You know some ladies will tell you " it is my past, I have changed", but I tell you, the weight of fornication is still inside them ooh & they can't stand just one penis even in marriage.......

But to the genuinely changed ladies, a good husband is coming your way.

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Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Kondomatic(m): 8:09am On Jul 26, 2017
The number one problem you guys have is this, when a guy says he doesn't like what you like, you call him hypocrite. Why?

There are things I will never take, I am never gonna marry a lady that has done abortion.

I am never gonna marry a single mom.

Yes, it is your past and we all have pasts but not everyone's past is dirty and I didn't stain yours so allow me to what I think is best for me. OK?

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Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by xedyl(m): 8:13am On Jul 26, 2017
Best not to detail ur past to him.
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Nobody: 8:15am On Jul 26, 2017
isidiwent:
Many men as hypocrites get so hurt when the lady they love sincerely and out of love, tells them she had had wild sex in the past, group sex, abortion, had sex at odd places & had some sexual fun & hot styles..... While the men too might have experienced such, rocked life & so on, but get restless when a lady opens up her bad past

Since you are in love, you have an assignment to cherish her, repair her & pamper her no matter her previous escapades & enjoyments. I know it may be a task, but God wants us to love genuinely no matter the past of the person.

The only problem is if the past is still living inside the present of the lady. You know some ladies will tell you " it is my past, I have changed", but I tell you, the weight of fornication is still inside them ooh & they can't stand just one penis even in marriage.......

But to the genuinely changed ladies, a good husband is coming your way.

If u have been dreaming of buying a particular 2017 S63 AMG Mercedes-Benz coupe....the seller now said...well..
the shaft is bad
The water pump isn't all that new
The gear is about 50%
The radiator is always wet
The head light is weak and fallen
The engine has been ringed a couple of times...

Will u still buy??
grin

Anyways, ladies..i know sometimes it's good to be truthful and plain...but when it comes to past escapades...the only thing u should be telling him are the permanent details that could affect the relationship..like if u don't have a womb, or u have some life threatening disease......
... If u did abortion: forget that thing....so far they ddnt remove ur womb...enough ladies have conceiving challenges even virgins...
don't automatically feel the abortion will cause child bearing problems..

...you are a retired Olosho: [/b]babe..dont ever make the mistake....our love no dey reach that level oooo...unless there is evidence on the internet like mayb u are one of those girls that do porn...mayb u can consider telling him otherwise, bone story..all ladies have one time or another exchange sex for cash or kind..directly or indirectly...all na hustle..u don change

[b]....ur body count....
: some guys don't mind, some guys do..me I don't care though..cos what will pain me is if tell me u had sex only twice..we now marry...u are now doing snake in the Eagle style...then I will feel something bad has been hidden from me...
If ur body count is high like 10 and above..abeg to be on the safe side..just say 3...

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Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by falconey(m): 8:17am On Jul 26, 2017
The buyer needs to know the product is intact before transaction.
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Alariwo2: 8:25am On Jul 26, 2017
It's just common sense.. you can't expect someone with a bad past (has tasted different sizes and sweetness of banana) to stay faithful to one banana in marriage..

It's like mission impossible for them, so there is no truly changed person (male or female). Why we have so many infidelity cases around with domestic violence.
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by isidiwent: 9:02am On Jul 26, 2017
"My past!!!!" Is your past still not in your present?
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Nobody: 9:14am On Jul 26, 2017
Since you are in love, you have an assignment to cherish her, repair her & pamper her no matter her previous escapades & enjoyments

What are you repairing?

Worn out and damaged tissues grin

You know woramin wink
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by isidiwent: 9:26am On Jul 26, 2017
But don't you think she will respect you if you repair her
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Nobody: 9:27am On Jul 26, 2017
isidiwent:
But don't you think she will respect you if you repair her

I hope you're not talking to me?
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Nobody: 10:03am On Jul 26, 2017
When true love is involved, your partner won't care about what you did in the past.
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by isidiwent: 10:11am On Jul 26, 2017
Not just true love alone, true trust!!!!!.... The way people have sex recklessly today, true love cannot be the end point, but true trust...,Trust & investigate #Obasanjo
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by CastingCrowns(f): 10:30am On Jul 26, 2017
1StopRudeness:


If u have been dreaming of buying a particular 2017 S63 AMG Mercedes-Benz coupe....the seller now said...well..
the shaft is bad
The water pump isn't all that new
The gear is about 50%
The radiator is always wet
The head light is weak and fallen
The engine has been ringed a couple of times...

Will u still buy??
grin

Anyways, ladies..i know sometimes it's good to be truthful and plain...but when it comes to past escapades...the only thing u should be telling him are the permanent details that could affect the relationship..like if u don't have a womb, or u have some life threatening disease......
... If u did abortion: forget that thing....so far they ddnt remove ur womb...enough ladies have conceiving challenges even virgins...
don't automatically feel the abortion will cause child bearing problems..

...you are a retired Olosho: [/b]babe..dont ever make the mistake....our love no dey reach that level oooo...unless there is evidence on the internet like mayb u are one of those girls that do porn...mayb u can consider telling him otherwise, bone story..all ladies have one time or another exchange sex for cash or kind..directly or indirectly...all na hustle..u don change

[b]....ur body count....
: some guys don't mind, some guys do..me I don't care though..cos what will pain me is if tell me u had sex only twice..we now marry...u are now doing snake in the Eagle style...then I will feel something bad has been hidden from me...
If ur body count is high like 10 and above..abeg to be on the safe side..just say 3...
u ve said it all....only tell him the stuff he needs to know..be wise dont be fooled into thinking sharing every dirty detail of ur past will make him love u more....u arent being dishonest..u are jist being wise
Re: Why Does It Pain Guys The Most (about Bad Past)??? by Soren4(m): 11:01am On Jul 26, 2017
isidiwent:
Many men as hypocrites get so hurt when the lady they love sincerely and out of love, tells them she had had wild sex in the past, group sex, abortion, had sex at odd places & had some sexual fun & hot styles..... While the men too might have experienced such, rocked life & so on, but get restless when a lady opens up her bad past

Since you are in love, you have an assignment to cherish her, repair her & pamper her no matter her previous escapades & enjoyments. I know it may be a task, but God wants us to love genuinely no matter the past of the person.

The only problem is if the past is still living inside the present of the lady. You know some ladies will tell you " it is my past, I have changed", but I tell you, the weight of fornication is still inside them ooh & they can't stand just one penis even in marriage.......

But to the genuinely changed ladies, a good husband is coming your way.

Please let hear word
We should love no matter the mistakes that have happened in the past? Can you eat a meat that they have bite before??
If it is we men that want you women to be understanding with us .. You will say we want to take advantage ......

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