How to Destroy Your Wife
Do you want to destroy your wife? Let me give you
some good tips




•- Compare her body to other women, whether they be
on the screen, in advertising, on billboards or in your
neighborhood. Your wife is not an airbrushed actress
or model. She is a real life woman whose body likely
carries the real life realities of age, stress,
exhaustion, child birth, breastfeeding and hormone
fluctuation. Don't add to her insecurities.


•-Leaving her alone in the marriage: One of the
quickest ways to destroy your marriage is to leave
your wife alone. Spend long hours at work, followed
by a beer afterward with the guys. When you get
home, don't engage her or your children. Lose
yourself in baseball or computer poker. On the
weekends, complain about the messy house, then
leave to run errands. Don't come back for several
hours. The most miserable thing for a wife is when
you isolate her by emotionally leaving the
relationship. Yes, she has friends, and a job. Yes, she
spends a lot of time running the kids around. It's not
the same. Her desire is to spend time with you, the
man she loves. To be left alone by her husband
causes deep heartache for women. For most women,
their largest fears boil down to isolation and
deprivation. When she feels abandoned by you, she
attacks with hurtful and disrespectful behavior. Her
ability to verbally hurt you is her strongest weapon,
and she uses it out of fear, trying to get your
attention.


•-Let her know how useless she is to you. You do this
forgetting that the toughest but often neglected job
on earth is motherhood and raising godly children.
Thank her for bring just a housewife because if you
keep using those nasty words on her, a time will
come that she would rise to show you that she has all
it takes to be better than those women you admire
out there. When this happens, that lovely woman
becomes a beast.


•-Never say, "I'm sorry.": All marriages have conflict.
The refusal to apologize is a quick way to destroy
yours. While conflict is not a pleasant thing, growth
and closeness can increase as conflict is resolved. For
your wife, an apology means she has moved forward,
through the conflict and is now seeking peace. Many
husbands see apologizing as a sure sign of weakness.
They think, "If I apologize, she won't respect me." On
the contrary, if you humbly apologize and ask her
forgiveness, your wife will be putty in your hands.
Your small act of contrition soothes her spirit, a
healing balm over her heart. Real men shed tears
and women get broken when they see tears in the
eyes of the man they love.


•-Dont ever tell her those sweet words and don't
remind her that she is the most beautiful creature on
earth. Women thrive on words, no matter her age,
she yearns for those sweet words. Don't let another
assist you in that job.


•-Don't bother knowing, relating with, and liking your
in-laws.
A good number of women are selfish, not because
they naturally are, but because they found
themselves with husbands who care less how her
own people feed. A husband who doesn't know that
he should have his wife's parents on monthly
allowance. A husband who thinks and talks his own
family alone. A husband who makes he feel that
visiting her own family is a waste of time. A husband
who doesn't remember to call her parents and
siblings. Christmas is coming, that same husband
won't even bother sending a bag of rice to his in-laws
and knowing the joy of a mother is to eat from her
children.


•-Ehee; never stop reminding her that she must be
submissive. When you do this, you are only telling
her how much of a failure you are. Men who sing the
submission song are often those who have lost
control of their homes. It's either you are with the
wrong woman or that you haven't given her the head
she has to submit to. When you are truly the head-
provide food, clothe, make her a friend, and give her
shelter, you will naturally become the head in the
home. Wives are called to be submissive and the
word of God is not debatable (it's unconditional), but
they find it easier submitting to a man who submits
to God and nature. Also don't forget that the verse
before the popular Ephesians 22 admonishes us,
husband and wife, to submit to one another.


•-Make it difficult for her to be vulnerable with you. A
long time ago, I read a quote that said, "Everyone
you meet is afraid of something, loves something
and has lost something." So true. Are you a safe
landing spot for her? Can she be real with you?
She needs to be able to be messy and unglued with
you -- and to know it's not going to freak you out or
shut you down. She's a woman. Messy and unglued
is how we roll.


•-Choose your family over her. Oh. My. Goodness. So
many wives already feel threatened or frustrated by
the role your mother (and possibly your entire
family) play in your life. You made a decision to leave
your family and cleave to your wife. Do you still
need to honor your parents? Absolutely. But when
"honoring" means never setting clear boundaries
with your family, something is askew. I guarantee
your wife will want to get the heck out of Dodge
whenever they are around. That's not a good feeling.


•-Don't consult her on life-impacting decisions. When
we choose marriage, we are choosing to be partners
with another person. Your wife is your partner in life.
She has a voice. And while I don't think she should be
able to override what you genuinely believe are
godly, prayer-drenched and Holy Spirit tested
decisions, I do think you need to listen to her. She is
likely intuitive in ways you have not considered. And
she wants to feel secure in her home and her
relationship with you.


•-This is serious; just use religion to subdue her. You
know you like women with jewelries and makeup but
because you want to save money, you took her to a
church where all women do is tie velvet on their hair
while men wear their designer suits. Are you sure she
is happy being their? Be sure that is what she wants.


•-Stop dating her in marriage. She still wants those
night outs, weekends in hotels, and holidays. She
wants time alone with you.


•-Show no interest in her career. Doing this makes you
just another man in her life. What positive changes
have taken place in her life and career since she met
you?


I'm not one of those who believe in that " I love my own Redbeauty
wife the day I married her emotionally and I love her now". I am
sure you want to be a husband who builds her
womanhood rather than destroy it, right? She needs
that kind of husband. She needs you to help her be
the woman God is calling her to be.


Please am not legally married ooo I just mean emotionally inlove with someone

Worth reading... But not applicable to slay queens

Skyfornia:
Worth reading... But not applicable to slay queens

oh really thanks anyway

some are good some are bullshiii. One of the b.s, put in laws on monthly allowance hahahahahahahahahahahaa you dont say?
Wth
you can help out or send them money sometimes, not on monthly basis. Are they your workers? It can only be possible if your wife is their only child and source.

But if your wife is a "wife", a ride or die chick then by all means make her happy.