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Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by tRoOE(f): 10:36pm On Feb 14, 2008
And does it look like i give a rattling ass who you are

Wait a minute, are you try to claim your father is one rich guy in Nigeria, OBj Son or Governor Son.


Or do you think everyone on Nland comes from a poor home, because you see to be bragging about your wealth here, open you eyes well well, we are all faceless on Nland so no give a shit!!!Okay

***Yawn next ***
No I don't live with my parent, I have my own place, and if you care to know I will be 22yrs in 3day. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy 22 baby feel good, am a grown baby grin grin grin

I will rather be a [b]“grown up baby “[/b]whose parent’s deposits money to her Acct every months, pays of all my bills rather than be one broke ass nigga like you


The only immature one here is you, because you keep wining how I insulted Nigerian man, like that matter. I know the truth hurt okay, so deal with it

Btw, this queen got better things to do, time means money, so holla
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 10:51pm On Feb 14, 2008
tRoOE:

And does it look like i give a rattling ass who you are

Wait a minute, are you try to claim your father is one rich guy in Nigeria, OBj Son or Governor Son.


Or do you think everyone on Nland comes from a poor home, because you see to be bragging about your wealth here, open you eyes well well, we are all faceless on Nland so no give a shit!!!Okay

***Yawn next ***
No I don't live with my parent, I have my own place, and if you care to know I will be 22yrs in 3day. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy 22 baby feel good, am a grown baby grin grin grin

I will rather be a “grown up baby “

whose parent’s deposits money to her Acct every months, pays of all my bills rather than be one broke ass nigga like you

The only immature one here is you, because you keep wining how I insulted Nigerian man, like that matter. I know the truth hurt okay, so deal with it

Btw, this queen got better things to do, time means money, so holla


Infact, I say welcome back! cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin  Whose father is poor on Nairaland for heaven's sake?  You say the truth as always.  I say knock em dead--take no hostages. cheesy
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 11:00pm On Feb 14, 2008
@ tRroOE,

Don't get yourself worked up over this pathetic lunatic.
The problem about faggotz like him is their lack of interpersonal skills.
Method of approach is so appaling they ended up being an irritant or a complete asshole.
Forget about him . . . . . . . Just consider him as a boil on the ass of humanity. cheesy grin

@ Dolt007,

I hope u have learnt a valuable lesson . . . . .
You can have a decent debate without trying to be a cyber-gangstar.
Blimey. . . the topic under scrutiny is meant for the intellectuals on the forum and not for full-blown plonkers like u.
Let us know the outcome of your pyscho-evaluation test this week. cheesy
You are due for one, ain't you?
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 11:11pm On Feb 14, 2008
JustGood:

You guys no dey think am say woman wey waka leave her family and friends for naija come travel go far away land na different kind woman? Me I sabi say any woman wey dey so bold as to leave her family and home behind to go and make money abroad has to be too wise for my liking.

Sometimes I no dey blame the girls for abroad for wey dey service guys. As them don go abroad alone, them must find man to warm them up for winter. Me i no fit marry them sha because many men don warm them up tire

See this one.  As usual---What of the guys? undecided Are they any better? You will find most of them in the "bullpen" over here with palm oil stained shirts and "penzoil" stained fingernails. Who wants to warm those ones up?


Islander:

Doyin, man you took a whole hour to come back? tongue tongue tongue, was just to hit the sack,


So it's true, eh? SOHO is your favourite hangout spot? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

I love going to SOHO too, unfortunately for you, but fortunately for me, SOHO( south of Houston st) is one of the high end neighbourhoods with great boutiques and lovely lofts in NYC, always lucky to glimpse a Hollywood goat there, tongue

So Doyin your SOHO nah My SOHO ooo. grin grin grin

@almond, weting? Yo garn, come baq nah, ah mis yo, bad bad cry cry cry cry

Islander, Islander, Islander.  Infact, we need to talk seriously.  I have some serious concerns.  I do not like what I see at all. sad  I know you are a grown girl but meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen!  In short, how could you? undecided

Those twins are in trouble!


Delta007:

This was meant to be an interesting topic but posts like this (amongst others) smacks of pure stupidity. Unfortunately, there are only a few intelligent comments on this thread.

@tro-ode,
How many Naija boys have u met in the UK and US that warrants the sweeping generalization? I'm not holding briefs for anyone but hanging around riff rats and wannabe "Fiddys" (which is not exclusive to only Nigerian boys based "abroad"wink with no ambition doesnt mean every Nigerian dude based abroad is like that. Anyone can make similar generalizing comments with regards the Nigerian ladies, but I know there are very ambitious ones (and I've met a few of them).

Assuming u are right, what about the Naija boys (yeah, young chaps) based abroad I meet (and hear about) on a daily, monthly or yearly that are constantly making headway with regards their professions, the surgeons, lawyers, engineers, accountants, etc; Are they from Mali? My advice to u is change your neighbourhood or your circle of friends (or riff rats) or perhaps u are just a riff rat like them guys (last time i heard, brids of a feather flock together).

As for my Etsako lady, na Uselu get u.

Na real riff rat! cheesy  

Hmmmmmmmmmm!

Thank you!  Please read the topic properly.  We are referring to both males and females. Since we do not date females, we do not know if they are marriage materials or not and do not care to know.  We can only speak on males. If you are not suspect to dating males, you will concentrate on females only.  So far, you can only tell us of what you heard--We are talking of what we see.  Please differentiate between 1st generation Nigerians who work hard and lay about born and bred Nigerians who suffer from culture shock and are dysfuntional for life.  As for the success rate you are writing about here, that is a small percentage compared to the whole.  

If you see most Nigerians that are successful--you betcha that they just came over--few of them still know their onions from their potatoes.  Even where successful, when they have stayed over 3-5 years abroad--they still have psychological problems.  Some posters here can attest to that--Will not mention names! cry


BTW surbordinate riff raffs are sub riff raffs and surbordinate ritt ratts are sub ritt ratts!
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 11:14pm On Feb 14, 2008


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Quote from: Islander on Yesterday at 09:05:13 PM
@Jackal ,
No mind Doyin, reliable sources told me he was seen hustling around SOHO Square looking for some "suckey suckey" from those Chinsese pros


        . . . .  .You are killing ma ribs, babes.

SOHO? You have just killed Doyin13.
That is his exact favourite spot in London . . . . always on the look out for cheap chinese whores that will fellate on him.

@ Almondjoy,

Why should i opt for a girl in Nigerian

I love "tombo bar" talk too, but hardly in the mood for that today at all.

You in particular should never dream of going to Nigeria or hooking up with anything "African" in it. Read ma initial posts on this thread and you will find the category in which you belong. Nigeria has enough problems and I really cannot tell from your activities here what real benefits you can give that country--nothing personal. Just ma opinion.

I think someone from that your "South London" as y'all call it will be best suited for you.

Off to work all and have a wonderful--whatever you are doing today---!!!! kiss
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 11:37pm On Feb 14, 2008
@ Almondjoy,

You are a Arrow for even having the gall to say i have nuthing to offer.

Blimey. . . . .I go to Nigeria almost twice a year. . . .
I can speak the 3 major languages there and please, i have not forgotten ma roots if that is what u mean.
Postulating theories like this is a bit folly and bang out of order. . . . . .
There are bad eggs everywhere u look . . . . .Nigerian girls are even worse as they tend to get carried away with material things.
Flash em pounds and they are in HEAT like a Berkshire pig.

I know Nigerian men who came into this country and fought tooth n nail to bring their spouses only for those girls to come into the UK with swollen bellies, impregnated by another man.
How do u explain that? How faithful are these Nigerian girls u are hollering about? Naija babes ma ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If only u know what UK guys do to Lagos girls every december u wouldn't be here spewing your undiluted applesauce.
There's no law that governs where one must choose his wife.

From what i have experienced in the last 18 months, i'd rather choose a chic here than go to Nigeria for a 2nd hand product.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Delta007(m): 11:38pm On Feb 14, 2008
@Almond,
My Estako model  grin, I'm talking about peeps I meet on a regular basis (and hear about also). And nope, they didnt just move here. In my line of profession and bizness, I get to travel quite abit and hook up with various professionals and I've come across several young Nigerians like myself (male and female) doing very well. Dont get me wrong, I've met a few dunderheads but that class is relatively small compared to the hardworking and successful pros i mingle with from time to time; maybe that's the class i tend to attract. . . just my observation.

Anyway, don't worry, when time reach, i dey go Agenegbode to carry my second wife wey fit pound yam. I don tire to eat yam flour  grin Hope say enough virgins still full ground for there.

BTW, them dey prepare special room for Uselu for u.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by tRoOE(f): 12:01am On Feb 15, 2008
almondjoy:

Infact, I say welcome back! cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin  Whose father is poor on Nairaland for heaven's sake?  You say the truth as always.  I say knock em dead--take no hostages. cheesy
Poor 4 where, are you paying attention to that danfo driver called delta soap

I can't denial the fact my parents still helps me finically na, am sure they own time will final get here when they start eating the fruit of their labors.

lol u are so silly

lmfao plz stop which one is "riff rat"



Chacal:

@ tRroOE,

Don't get yourself worked up over this pathetic lunatic.
The problem about faggotz like him is their lack of interpersonal skills.
Method of approach is so appaling they ended up being an irritant or a complete asshole.
Forget about him . . . . . . . Just consider him as a boil on the ass of humanity. cheesy grin

Thanks jare am actually done with him

The guy is just trying to show himself
Sometimes i wonder how people like him communicate among his co workers, he probably slice their throat for disagreeing with him
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by jgirl3: 1:04am On Feb 15, 2008
Na wa for NL. grin grin grin

All those claiming that London is "safe" kai! I don't even know which one is worse nowadays, South or North.

As for the topic, for some reason, guys believe that they go to naija to get a girl and she has more morals or cooks better. This is all rooted in the myth that all girls in UK/US are completely useless. I think it serves some of the guys right for picking a girl they hardly know instead of choosing one themselves within their immediate distance.

Anyhow, it's all their lives. I'd rather choose a guy from naija newayz tongue
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 1:51am On Feb 15, 2008
Chacal:

@ Almondjoy,

You are a Arrow for even having the gall to say i have nuthing to offer.

Blimey. . . . .I go to Nigeria almost twice a year. . . .
I can speak the 3 major languages there and please, i have not forgotten ma roots if that is what u mean.
Postulating theories like this is a bit folly and bang out of order. . . . . .
There are bad eggs everywhere u look . . . . .Nigerian girls are even worse as they tend to get carried away with material things.

Flash em pounds and they are in HEAT like a Berkshire pig.

I know Nigeria men who came into this country and fought tooth n nail to bring their spouses only for those girls to come into the UK with swollen bellies, impregnated by another man.

How do u explain that? How faithful are these Nigerian girls u are hollering about? Naija babes ma ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If only u know what UK guys do to Lagos girls every december u wouldn't be here spewing your undiluted applesauce.

There's no law that governs where one must choose his wife.

From what i have experienced in the last 18 months, i'd rather choose a chic here than go to Nigeria for a 2nd hand product.

Long Hiss!

This is becoming a long "The day of the Jackal"!

Agbero!--Like I said--I am not in the mood today for foul.  You left Nigeria when you were 9 if that is even correct--now you can speak 3 languages from "South London" judging from your vocab here.  Those languages are definitely not Nigerian or African languages.  So who are you deceiving?  Look I have 4 younger brothers and I am used to dealing with recalcitrant youths like you when they step out of line--so you better watch your agbero mouth or what ever you are typing with.  This is not "SOHOLAND" ok?

You asked me why you would would want to "opt" for a girl in Nigeria, I replied you and the next thing is that I am a "Arrow"!  That is the reason why you should not go to Nigeria to pick a girl.  You only need a Arrow like yourself so you can grow old together.  Infact I have a lot of cousins over there for you to "Arrow" with. cheesy  They are just like you too--visit Nigeria once in a blue moon, idle around and come back to continue their rubbish over there.  You are in the "recycling" category I say.

What is your business with going to Lagos every December to mess around and expect to get a saintly virgin when you choose to settle down later?  You think God is mad? cheesy  As many swollen pussies you have caused--that is how many will be given unto you ok?  You get what you deserve.  If you did not go there to mess up other people's daughters--how come only "swollen pussies" bastardized by vandalizing deeks end up as your friends' spouses?  Serves them right.  All those swollen pussies where only waiting for revenge so tell them to enjoy their just rewards---of "Free Mileage". kiss

Please, like I said stay over there and keep recycling yourselves--no one will miss you guys including your parents.  In as much as I have ma problems with Nigeria, there are still a few good unfortunate boys and girls caught up in the useless environment over there.  It was not of their own choice.  You one the other hand like the rest of your "Jam pe pe " type--can only destroy whatever hope they have left.  Stay over there in UK and keep smoking your lives away!  Keep spending your pounds.  Those same ladies are waiting to get their own "pounds of flesh"! cheesy Very[b] swollen [/b] for revenge if a may add--like sun-dried tomatoes ready to explode in y'all's faces! cheesy
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Arnold1(m): 2:00am On Feb 15, 2008
@topic

Because they want to have total control over the women. The women that have been in the US/UK for long
cannot be treated any how and the guys know it. So, they go home for a woman.

Little do such men know that, once the new lady from Naija learns the ropes, she becomes
"uncontrollable" and the guy is back to square one.

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Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 2:03am On Feb 15, 2008
tRoOE:

Poor 4 where, are you paying attention to that danfo driver called delta soap

I can't denial the fact my parents still helps me finically na, am sure they own time will final get here when they start eating the fruit of their labors.

lol u are so silly

lmfao plz stop which one is "riff rat"


Thanks jare am actually done with him

The guy is just trying to show himself
Sometimes i wonder how people like him communicate among his co workers, he probably slice their throat for disagreeing with him


he he he he he he he he! grin cheesy grin cheesy grin  Is it not that your delta "evil" force that typed riff rat here? grin
Look, I don't know why I keep running into agberos on this Nairaland--maybe like the saying goes, opposites attract. The last time a checked, that still remains a fact.  So tell these agberos to find their attraction somewhere else.  I am not interested at all!  Kai!---Thank God for ma sweet brothers a swear! cry Maybe they talk or write like me and the other agberos here but I doubt it serously. tongue
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 2:09am On Feb 15, 2008
Delta007:

@Almond,
My Estako model  grin, I'm talking about peeps I meet on a regular basis (and hear about also). And nope, they didnt just move here. In my line of profession and bizness, I get to travel quite abit and hook up with various professionals and I've come across several young Nigerians like myself (male and female) doing very well. Dont get me wrong, I've met a few dunderheads but that class is relatively small compared to the hardworking and successful pros i mingle with from time to time; maybe that's the class i tend to attract. . . just my observation.

Anyway, don't worry, when time reach, i dey go Agenegbode to carry my second wife wey fit pound yam. I don tire to eat yam flour  grin Hope say enough virgins still full ground for there.
BTW, them dey prepare special room for Uselu for u.

We go see who go first reach Uselu! cheesy  You are looking for a virgin from Agenegbode?  Please stay away from that area and stick with your "warri"  areaaaaaaaaaaaaa kind ok? Agenegbode people are well brought up ok?  Not this rubbish you people are doing here.  Agenegbode girls do not pound yam ok?  They make Baked Lasagnas! kiss

Your line of business?  You travel a lot?  That smells like an escort service.  You be love-vendor?  How won't you be successful? undecided  Infact, I will leave "tRoOE" to finish you off while I concentrate on master "swollen pussy" over there! kiss
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by tRoOE(f): 2:14am On Feb 15, 2008
almondjoy:

he he he he he he he he! grin cheesy grin cheesy grin  Is it not that your delta "evil" force that typed riff rat here? grin
Look, I don't know why I keep running into agberos on this Nairaland--maybe like the saying goes, opposites attract.  The last time a checked, that still remains a fact.  So tell these agberos to find their attraction somewhere else.  I am not interested at all!  Kai!---Thank God for ma brothers a swear! cry
"Delta evil" that name does fit him well sha cheesy cheesy cheesy. I bet the guy was trying to sound smart when he used that word "Riff rat"

Too much agberos on Nairaland these days, the more you space yourself away ffrom them, the more they get closer
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 2:28am On Feb 15, 2008
j-girl:

Na wa for Nairaland. grin grin grin

All those claiming that London is "safe" kai! I don't even know which one is worse nowadays, South or North.

As for the topic, for some reason, guys believe that they go to naija to get a girl and she has more morals or cooks better. This is all rooted in the myth that all girls in UK/US are completely useless. I think it serves some of the guys right for picking a girl they hardly know instead of choosing one themselves within their immediate distance.

Anyhow, it's all their lives. I'd rather choose a guy from naija newayz tongue

Let me tell you it took women from Nigeria to save 2 off my uncles in that una "London" from death ok?  Most of them left like this boy here called "chacal" and ended up in ditches in "SOHO". They were sent to school like "chacal's" parents did and ended up livin' some kind of "gypsy" life.  What happened to all the good "open" eye girls over there? Of course to borrow "chacal's" language all they got were "swollen pussies" made in UK there!

One's case was so bad, the whole village of "Orlu" had to smuggle him out of that London from one gutter there.  He played this their "banjo" all day with a bunch of dirty girls and slept in a ditch all night stoned like Jimmy Cliff. His beard did not look any better if a may add. cheesy  Thank you "Orlu" people oooooooooooooooh! My darling uncle now lives in "Golders Green" with his own house let me tell you.  A Nigerian woman set him straight after all the "wet pussies" over there could not save him.  They are still happily married with 6 kids.  The children now--that is a different matter for discussion on another day! cheesy

The other uncle of mine in the US was no better either--now followed some bini boys to start dealing in guns over here--begin teach im 2 younger sisters how to smoke "ganja".  Of course, "Orlu" people again to the rescue. Helped him jump bail--escaped to Mexico enroute to Naija for sanitization---A graduate!  Married wife for him and bundled him to that same una London to go and meet some of his siblings there for rehabilitation---Since "WE THE PEOPLE Vs------ are still looking for him.  Thanks to a Nigerian woman again. Na God save all of them ones. They are all married now--including my 2 last agaracha aunties--I still suspect them still dey smoke that thing I swear! cheesy

Infact, they had to lock those 2 of ma uncles in Okija for months to flog the demons out of them. grin  Then married--NIGERIAN wives for them by force to cook them better food--to bring them back to their senses.

Yes!  I am generalizing.  If your hands are clean--only clean people will land on your laps as spouses.  If you have been doing what some of you do best---then don't complain when God gives you your "just rewards" and some chaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaange!  My poor uncles would have been dead like most of you are going to end up dead if you are not careful! cheesy

I know when I have "words" with some of you illiterates here--you will remind me of my family history.  All well and good--I will remind you of your own too! grin  Who dey fear una? grin
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Delta007(m): 2:39am On Feb 15, 2008
@Almond,
Haha; "*Wo le gue?" Anyway, na only Agenegbode babes i dey escort grin. As for tru-ode, that na small pikin. She can keep yapping; I dont do underaged.


*Abeg teach me etsako.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Nobody: 2:44am On Feb 15, 2008
My sob story: My wife came on my behalf (living somewhere else now) to the US in November only for me to find out that she was 8 months pregnant, and the baby is not mine  . Last time i was in Naija was Spring 2005. She had a baby in January 2007.

One thing that have always baffled me is that i have been having a lot of my friends telling me to go home again and bring another wife. It supposed to be "better option". Just inching my way back into the dating procreation   scene. Why was i getting this type of advise? What happened to our ladies here? (overseas i mean)

Funny thing is that i was getting same type of suggestion/advise even from friends in the UK. Can someone shed a light on this or may be i am missing a point.




This is creepy.
I met a Nigerian at the airport while returning to the USA who had the exact same story(sort of) while we chatted.
But in his case the woman had come over and they had only lived together 2 months or so and planning for the wedding when she said she was pregnant and when they went for the ultrasound,she was already about 20 weeks along.
He sent her packing.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 5:56am On Feb 15, 2008
nwando:



This is creepy.
I met a Nigerian at the airport while returning to the USA who had the exact same story(sort of) while we chatted.
But in his case the woman had come over and they had only lived together 2 months or so and planning for the wedding when she said she was pregnant and when they went for the ultrasound,she was already about 20 weeks along.
He sent her packing.

Why should he send her packing? undecided  Ask the man how many women he had dangled dollars on their faces for cheap thrills.  Many of them he probably left pregnant on his numerous visits to Nigeria. cheesy  Now you betcha--he is only being visited by "Karma"!  As you know "our" God is a merciful God.  He never gives you what you do not deserve or what you cannot handle!  You reap what you sow. 

You should have asked the man how many girls he impregnated and abandoned on those "numerous red eye" flights to and from Nigeria. wink

Oh please! Who are we deceiving? undecided You got a good husband from here because you are a goooooooooooood girl. Others--men or women are not so lucky only because--they are reaping what they sowed. I am a gooooooooooooooooooooood girl so a got many goooooooooooooooooooooood mens! cool


So y'all better take note!  Heaven and hell is on this planet.  No amount of being born-again if you mess other peoples kids' lives, will save you. What makes you think you will go scott free? I say your reward is at hand--Here on this earth.  Just keep dangling your Pounds, Dollars, Liras, Francs, DutchiiiiiiiiMarks, Pesos, Cedis and Nairas! You and your sons and daughters will reap the benefits a say! kiss
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 6:10am On Feb 15, 2008
Delta007:

@Almond,
Haha; "*Wo le gue?" Anyway, na only Agenegbode babes i dey escort grin. As for tru-ode, that na small pikin. She can keep yapping; I don't do underaged.


*Abeg teach me etsako.

Never!--you will head to Sapele to meet your match! Only teach you etsako? Who tell you say a sabi speak am? cheesy Even ma oyinbo papa no fit speak am sef. cry  I would have recommended a true sister of mine on Nairaland--but you are not worthy and fight fit burst out in the process if you have been following the main events here lately.  I say over to you "tRoOE"! cheesy You do not do under-age?  Sorry--the only sugar son I am allowed to have on nairaland is "doyin13"!---and. . . . . . . no regrets arrrrrrrrrrraaaaaaaaaaaaallll! cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

tRoOE:

"Delta evil" that name does fit him well sha cheesy cheesy cheesy. I bet the guy was trying to sound smart when he used that word "Riff rat"

Too much agberos on Nairaland these days, the more you space yourself away ffrom them, the more they get closer


I say deal with him ma dear girl!  A real riff-rat abi rit raff !!!!  Where these agberos keep coming out from is what I cannot understand! cheesy
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 10:43am On Feb 15, 2008
almondjoy:

Long Hiss!

This is becoming a long "The day of the Jackal"!

Agbero!--Like I said--I am not in the mood today for foul.  You left Nigeria when you were 9 if that is even correct--now you can speak 3 languages from "South London" judging from your vocab here.  Those languages are definitely not Nigerian or African languages.  So who are you deceiving?  Look I have 4 younger brothers and I am used to dealing with recalcitrant youths like you when they step out of line--so you better watch your agbero mouth or what ever you are typing with.  This is not "SOHOLAND" ok?

You asked me why you would would want to "opt" for a girl in Nigeria and you say I am a "Arrow"!  That is the reason why you should not go to Nigeria to pick a girl.  You only need a Arrow like yourself so you can grow old together.  Infact I have a lot of cousins over there for you to "Arrow" with. cheesy  They are just like you too--visit Nigeria once in a blue moon, idle around and come back to continue their rubbish over there.  You are in the "recycling" category I say.

What is your business with going to Lagos every December to mess around and expect to get a saintly virgin when you choose to settle down later?  You think God is mad? cheesy  As many swollen pussies you have caused--that is how many will be given unto you ok?  You get what you deserve.  If you did not go there to mess up other people's daughters--how come only "swollen pussies" bastardized by vandalizing deeks end up as your friends' spouses?  Serves them right.  All those swollen pussies where only waiting for revenge so tell them to enjoy their just rewards---of "Free Mileage". kiss

Please, like I said stay over there and keep recycling yourselves--no one will miss you guys including your parents.  In as much as I have ma problems with Nigeria, there are still a few good unfortunate boys and girls caught up in the useless environment over there.  It was not of their own choice.  You one the other hand like the rest of your "Jam pe pe " type--can only whatever hope they have away.  Stay over there in UK and keep smoking your lives away!  Keep spending your pounds.  Those same ladies are waiting to get their own "pounds of flesh"! cheesy Very[b] swollen [/b] for revenge if a may add--like sun-dried tomatoes ready to explode in y'alls faces! cheesy

Another waste of bandwidth!!!!!!!!!!!
Lemme school your nappyhead to some basic facts of life. . . . Now, listen to me like u have never listened to anyone before on this forum!!!!

First all, there's no law that governs the things that happen in life. You reap what u sow is the biggest farce i know.
I know some good people that have encountered something they don't deserve and vice versa.
The fact that u have 2 uncles that derailed while they were in the UK/USA does not mean every other peops will DERAIL.
You can only speak for yourself. . . .  , don't speak for others.

Nwando mentioned the fact that girls in Nigeria are rarely faithful to their spouses and all u could say was Karma is a bitch.
My dear shrink, 2 wrongs don't make a right. Good men visit Nigeria to find a spouse. . . they hustled tooth and nail to bring their spouses abroad so they can raise a family and live happily ever after and within that short period of bringing em here, these girls get compromised by another man and u think that is right?
Are u trying to say all the men these things happened to deserved it? How sure are u that they were randy young men before they married?

For Bleep's Sake, there are good and bad people everywhere. You will find good men in the UK/USA just like u will find them in Nigeria.
The major reason UK/USA gals go to Nigeria to find men is their appaling SHAG HISTORY here. After messing up their lives by sleeping with everything in boxers, they become neighbourhood whores and no men is interested in em.  These gals go to Nigeria to lure poor,unsuspecting jobless boys into marriage.
How many Nigerian lads will turn down the offer of marrying a girl based in the UK/USA? ZILCH. These girls take advantage in leaps n bounds.
These boys see it as an opportunity to travel abroad so they r ready to do whatever to cross the atlantic. Once they get to the UK/USA and sniff the plot/scheme surrounding the girl in question, they go beserk. It happens all the time.

Finally, i don't stay in the South so don't liken me to your cousins or fuckever. I visit Nigeria TWICE a year and from what i have seen so far, i am not impressed. It is so difficult to find true love down there. These chics are all over you because u smell n reek of pounds. Everywhere u go, it's girls, girls and more girls. How do u choose from such scenario. You leave the country and another dude from USA visits and they offer themselves cheaply like they did the last guy. Is that your definition of morality? What works for A might not necessarily work for B.
In your deluded world, there's no happy marriage for Nigerians in the UK and USA. . . .  .What a load of prattle!!!!!!!
You cannot justify the actions of these lecherous chics because Nigerian men have been randy in the past.
2 WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by almondjoy(f): 3:51pm On Feb 15, 2008
Chacal:


Another waste of bandwidth!!!!!!!!!!!
Lemme school your nappyhead to some basic facts of life. . . . Now, listen to me like u have never listened to anyone before on this forum!!!!

First all, there's no law that governs the things that happen in life. [b]You reap what u sow is the biggest farce i know.[/b]I know some good people that have encountered something they don't deserve and vice versa.
The fact that u have 2 uncles that derailed while they were in the UK/USA does not mean every other peops will DERAIL.
You can only speak for yourself. . . .  , don't speak for others.

Nwando mentioned the fact that girls in Nigeria are rarely faithful to their spouses and all u could say was Karma is a bitch.
My dear shrink, 2 wrongs don't make a right. Good men visit Nigeria to find a spouse. . . they hustled tooth and nail to bring their spouses abroad so they can raise a family and live happily ever after and within that short period of bringing em here, these girls get compromised by another man and u think that is right?
Are u trying to say all the men these things happened to deserved it? How sure are u that they were randy young men before they married?

For Bleep's Sake, there are good and bad people everywhere. You will find good men in the UK/USA just like u will find them in Nigeria.

The major reason UK/USA gals go to Nigeria to find men is their appaling SHAG HISTORY here. After messing up their lives by sleeping with everything in boxers, they become neighbourhood whores and no men is interested in em. 

[b]These gals go to Nigeria to lure poor,unsuspecting jobless boys into marriage. [/b]


How many Nigerian lads will turn down the offer of marrying a girl based in the UK/USA? ZILCH. These girls take advantage in leaps n bounds.

These boys see it as an opportunity to travel abroad so they r ready to do whatever to cross the atlantic. Once they get to the UK/USA and sniff the plot/scheme surrounding the girl in question, they go beserk. It happens all the time.

Finally, i don't stay in the South so don't liken me to your cousins or fuckever. I visit Nigeria TWICE a year and from what i have seen so far, i am not impressed. It is so difficult to find true love down there. These chics are all over you because u smell n reek of pounds. Everywhere u go, it's girls, girls and more girls. How do u choose from such scenario. You leave the country and another dude from USA visits and they offer themselves cheaply like they did the last guy. Is that your definition of morality? What works for A might not necessarily work for B.

In your deluded world, there's no happy marriage for Nigerians in the UK and USA. . . .  .What a load of prattle!!!!!!!
You cannot justify the actions of these lecherous chics because Nigerian men have been randy in the past.
2 WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kai!  I thought a was the only one that wrote volumes on Nairaland?

Hmmmmmmmmmmm! undecided

Well, thanks for the attention I got from you to really "pour" out your mind. cheesy  My head may be nappy--but your turn will come and your nappiness will be for a different reason.

I repeat, if you want to get a spouse--do not attempt to snag one that has lived abroad for more than 5 years maximum.  And for Christ's sake make sure you do series of HIV and STD panels on them if you are to try at all.

Thinking of darling Father Abraham!!!!

Thank you for you clean version of "Push It"!!!

I am glad you can generalize about the "gals in Nigeria" and their cheapness.  Let us know when you find true love in "South London" ok? We will be there to grace the occasion! kiss  My cousins with squeaky clean "shag" histories in London pubs are waiting gingerly with open arms.  Infact they can outdrink and outsmoke any guy in town. cool  Some are even more beaurrriful than body builders with moustaches to die for!  The voices---rich Baritone---Barry white would be so jealous.  Just don't think of getting in fights with them without having a back up plan ma dear. cheesy Feel free to drop them a line at E-Harmony.  What do you say?

Two wrongs do not make a right of course but they make EVEN!  I prefer even to right!

It was a sheer pleasure!  See you around.

Father Abraham will be so proud of me! cool

Bye thread---I am done here!
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Ify007(f): 4:34pm On Feb 15, 2008
Almondjoy,

You really are something else. I always enjoy your entries / posts.

Well, guys really should check themselves. Not all Nigeria-based girls are desperadoes. I have a friend who turned down a guy from the USA after he had done the 1st stage of the traditional marriage rites. She felt he was too proud as he felt he was doing her a favour as they'd be relocating to the US together. She's getting married soon to a man here with us in Nigeria.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 4:35pm On Feb 15, 2008
Interesting!!!!!!!!!

Whether u have got cousins that look like Van Damme or Bolo Yeung is not an issue here.
Your cousins might be rich, buff with good voice but that counts for nuthing if what comes out of their mouthz is crap.
This is not even an issue i should be discussing with you.

All i want to tell your nappyhead is. . . . .stop misinforming the public with your tales by moonlight.
If u really think Nigerian men are more settled than UK/USA based ones then u are making a syntax error.
Nigerian men will do anything to fly to USA/UK.
Blimey. . . . I have seen Nigerian men based in Lagos getting married to 600 lbs Akata women just because they want a green card.
You really think they are doing it for love? Love ma ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Once they get to USA after 3 weeks. . . .they start misbehaving. Who wants to marry a chimp? grin grin grin

I don't know where u get this 5 years maximum theory from. . . . Faraday's laws or Newton's law?
HIV test and reh reh reh. . . . I am having a laugh.
You are talking as if the gals in Nigeria are more decent.  How many of em have slept with animals for the $$$?
How many of em even have a personal GP/GYN that does proper medical examination for em?
How many Nigerian girls do the papsmear test that girls do regularly here to take care of themselves?
You are living in the past. . . . Same Nigerian girls that wear the same set of 2nd hand YABA undies for a decade without changing em? grin grin
Hell . . . .You are taking a piss.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by omoge(f): 4:42pm On Feb 15, 2008
Chacal:


[b]How many Nigerian girls do the papsmear test that girls do regularly here to take care of themselves?
You are living in the past. . . . Same Nigerian girls that wear the same set of 2nd hand YABA undies for a decade without changing em? grin grin[/b]Hell . . . .You are taking a piss.

Don't say that please. Na condition make crayfish nyansh bend for many of them.
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by 4Play(m): 4:51pm On Feb 15, 2008
No be the same Naija with HIV prevalence rate of 4.4%? Abeg,who is doing all the phocking. . . . .since Naija based girls are "holier" than their Western counterparts

Make we continue pretending grin
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 4:56pm On Feb 15, 2008
omoge:

Don't say that please. Na condition make crayfish nyansh bend for many of them.

Thank u very much.
At the end of the day. . . . Its a fact staring at us in our faces.

I will not stand anyone coming here to put the good people of USA/UK down because of a theorem he/she conjured in his/her dream.
There are good/bad people everywhere u look.

@ 4play,

Majority of em don't even believe in HIV schitzo.
Those lascivious creatures don't even ask for condoms before sex. . . . . anything goes as long as u can match their fees.
A trip to Galleria or Palms($20) is their Da Vinci code. . . . . cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Nobody: 5:04pm On Feb 15, 2008
You people can chant till the cows come home,most Nigerian men in the USA and UK still go home to marry.
Even the Nigerian girls,go home to be married.
That is just a statement of fact
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by 4Play(m): 5:06pm On Feb 15, 2008
@Chacal

Never mind asking for condoms,haven't you met those who insist you don't use condom? You will be shocked by these women. . . .let them keep pretending.

The only thing about Western chics is that they are more likely to seek a divorce and take custody of your kids.Beyond that,all this nonsense about folks back home being righteous upholders of morality is a huge joke. grin
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by 4Play(m): 5:09pm On Feb 15, 2008
nwando:

You people can chant till the cows come home,most Nigerian men in the USA and UK still go home to marry.
Even the Nigerian girls,go home to be married.
That is just a statement of fact

That is neither here nor there.The issue is not whether they do it but the value in it.Like I said,the key thing about Naija bred women is that they are less likely to divorce and take your kids.Beyond that,as far as morality is concerned,let's not paint a false picture of life back home
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Chacal: 5:19pm On Feb 15, 2008
@ 4play,

I have seen enough.
Siblings fighting over a UK dude. . . .Group of friends shagging a UK/US dude in a groupie. Its fuckery down there.
Like u said, the only reason why men prefer Naija based women is the issue of divorce, kids and properties. . . .
Besides that. . . . whats the point?
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by Dreloaded(f): 5:26pm On Feb 15, 2008
4 Play:

Never mind asking for condoms,haven't you met those who insist you don't use condom? You will be shocked by these women. . . .let them keep pretending.

This sincerely confuses me. Is it that they have a death wish abi wetin?
Re: Why Do Singles In the U.S/U.K Still Prefers To Go And Marry From Naija by 4Play(m): 5:43pm On Feb 15, 2008
D-reloaded:

This sincerely confuses me. Is it that they have a death wish abi wetin?

Maybe na sign of committment dem dey test,when all I wanted was some booty,damn these women to hell! sad grin

According to them sha,using CDs made them feel less "closeness." Imagine that in this day and age! sad

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