i totally agree with you on this one. "he should even pretend he is not hurt with her words of wanting to leave with another person, maybe she not meant to be for him"

either she goes or waits is her choice why are you trying to force it ;

Jaqenhghar:

This one no be fear of any unknown. Her mind is made up. She had that guy all along forget it. This is the 21st century. who still forces girls to get married to who they dont like?

Your message and that of mine is the same bro. He has been advice to move on.

Halo22:
I have dated this lady for over a year now. We had promised ourselves that nothing would break us apart and had put all plans down towards marriage. Though she is domineering and stubborn to some extent, but am sure i can handle her excesses. Low and behold, as we were chatting yesterday, she was telling me that she had issues with the parents concerning marriage. Reason was that a man came for her hand in marriage and she declined the proposal. Now she is yielding to her family pressure., you know women nah. Am confused whether to tell her to reject or accept the man. The truth is that I still have two more years to get very ready for marriage. Please what is your advice?

tomorrow na ,wen u don over ready,she wld den look like a bag of garri n u leave her n go for a hotter chick.my guy its better ds way so u dnt owe anyone marriage till u ready

For me i cant say u shld leave her or force or i dnt knw bro dis real Life nt hollywood or Nollywood or Bollywood oooo (WAT WILL BE WILL BE) if she goin to b urs will b. Dnt strees ur brain Female yapa for Outside oooo If u die cus of 1 feamle millions of Females will Piss on ur grave ooo n she will leave on. Think twice

Be careful, Op
NLers are not good with relationship advice ooooooo
Hmmmmm

JONNYSPUTE:
Lol,u dey give them ur blessings as their father or chief boyfriend?.

LANDLORD/CARETAKER

Let her marry the other guy except you are prepared to marry her either now or in the future!