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Masturbation: Sex For One! by Giftedheart(m): 9:38am On Aug 08, 2017 |
Mere mention of the word ‘masturbation’ could be
irritating. In some settings, masturbation is
considered an evil act. Apparently, not many
would want to talk about it either because of their
religious backgrounds, morality or it is simply
considered absurd.
In this part of the world, masturbation is a taboo to
discuss but nevertheless remains quite a common
and almost natural activity among men and women
and even children.
By definition, masturbation means touching one’s
own body, including sex organs, for sexual
pleasure. It has raised a lot of controversy in
religious circles.
Many individuals wonder if the Bible talks about
masturbation.
However, while religion does not give thumbs up or
thumbs down to it, a study by the Gossard Big M
Survey shows that 92 percent of women regularly
take time out to masturbate, a huge jump from the
findings of previous studies (74 per cent in 1979
and 62 per cent in 1953). While men and women
who masturbate live with guilt, shame and fear
associated with it, many have also described it as
self-abuse.
But the other side to it is that, scientifically,
studies have shown that masturbating more can
dramatically increase individuals’ health and cut
the risk of infections.
To Miss Bola Oshodi (not real name), who confessed
that she started masturbating at the age of 18, it
has helped her in so many ways.
“I was not influenced by anyone; it started as a
result of my menstrual cramps. Each time I do
that, it helps to relieve my pains”, she stated.
“While I was growing up, I tried to avoid keeping
boyfriends. I masturbated just to satisfy my urge
for sex. Now that I am married, I do it sometimes.
But I can tell you it literally replaced my emotion for
males then. Each time I do that, I usually feel like
I’m having sex. At the end, I feel good.
“I think, there are so many positive effects of
masturbating — and it’s fun. It can help you stay in
touch with yourself and your sexuality, and is also
an extremely satisfying way to pass the time. I also
do that each time I am stressed.”
Bola’s case is one of the many benefits of
masturbation, according to medical experts.
According to a study published in European
Urology, aside masturbation being a great stress
reliever, it has distinct health benefits.
Benefits for men
The study, which linked masturbation and frequent
ejaculation, also found that men who ejaculate
regularly have reduced risk of prostate cancer. In
the study, which tracked 30,000 men for almost 20
years, scientists found that men in their 20s, who
ejaculated at least 21 times a month, were 19 per
cent less likely to develop prostate cancer than
those who did seven times a month or less.
The study – published in European Urology-also
found that masturbating a lot when younger
decreases health problems in later life.
Masturbation is important to medical practice
– Dr. Adebayo
In an interview with Sunday Vanguard, a
consultant obstetric gynaecologist, Dr Samuel
Adebayo,, who stated that there are many ways to
look at the issue of masturbation, said apart from
the benefit of sexual pleasure, it helps people
suffering from premature ejaculation to get better.
“We have been able to see that people with
premature ejaculation tend to get better with
masturbation”, Adebayo said.
According to him, masturbation also helps in
infertility treatment and also in sperm collection for
other medical use.
The Medical Director, Dayspring Hospital, Lagos
explained that there are two indications for
masturbation in medical practice.
“One of the major indications is that it is a
procedure to collect male sperm in the case of
infertility. We believe that collecting a sample
through masturbation is far better than through
sexual intercourse where, most of the times, that of
the female would have gotten contaminated with
bacteria in the vagina. But if it is by masturbation,
you are sure that you will be able to estimate the
quantity of the semen and you can accurately
estimate the volume, which is one of the
parameters we always use when we are estimating
the quality of a man’s sperm in relation to
infertility. Then if you culture any growth or
bacteria, you are sure it is directly from the semen
not that it may came from the vagina”.
He further stated that masturbation is also used to
collect sperm for some gynaecological procedures
in Intro-fertilisation, IVF, IUI, among others.
On if there is any health implication, Adebayo said
he could not say if there are health implications but
that masturbation has helped people get better.
However, another research also confirmed that
masturbation is an important and wonderful way of
knowing oneself physically and emotionally.
Benefits for women
Generally speaking, women often think their sexual
desires are less important than their partners.
Because of cultural taboos, many women feel that
the urge or desire to masturbate is somehow
wrong, or the idea of it makes them feel guilty or
ashamed.
Experts say there is enormous potential for healing,
growth and well-being through exploring your
sexuality, expressing it, and experiencing it with
joy.
According to them, women who masturbate
experience a wide range of health benefits. They
say female masturbation helps prevent cervical
infections and relieves urinary tract infections.
Studies are showing that female masturbation can
provide protection against cervical infections
because, when women masturbate, the orgasm
“tents” opens the cervix.
Many women with urinary tract infections (UTI)
report the desire to masturbate when they feel a
UTI coming on, and, for a good reason,
masturbating helps relieve pain, lubricates the
vagina, and flushes old, “unfriendly” bacteria from
the cervix.
Again, studies have shown that masturbation is
associated with improved cardiovascular health and
lower risk of type-2 diabetes.
In a number of studies, women who experienced
more orgasms, and overall greater frequency and
satisfaction with sex — with a partner or not —
were shown to have greater resistance to coronary
heart disease (CHD) and type-2 diabetes.
Masturbation can help prevent insomnia naturally
through hormonal and tension release. Many
women masturbate to wind down at night or to
help them fall asleep, but they might not know that
there’s a hormonal reason why that works.
Masturbation makes the body tick and
function – Sex therapist
A sex therapist, and Chief Executive Officer, Zee
Virtual Media Ltd, Mr. Uche Edochie, the case
against masturbation is one that has raged on for
ages, especially within religious and political
circles.
Edochie, who spoke to Sunday Vanguard,
explained that it is no coincidence as well that
these are the two circles where people are often
pressured to deny the obvious for fear of a backlash
from their constituents.
According to him, everybody masturbates.
“Humans need masturbation for the very reasons
they need sex, food and sleep. Masturbation, like
sex, is part of what makes our bodies tick and
function. There is a raging and insatiable sexual
hunger that humans and animals are born with and
masturbation helps feed that hunger. Human
beings are sexual beings and sexual beings need
sex to function and thrive amongst other things.
That is okay. Sex is part of our constitution and we
shouldn’t be unnerved by it. I get that we are
embarrassed by the crude and animalistic nature of
sexual intercourse but that is not enough grounds
to deny the obvious. The human need for food is
one that goes without saying and the same goes for
our need for medicine when we are ill, sleep when
we are tired etc.”
He queried why people should question the need
for sex when all harbour sexual desire.
“Such denial is childish, dangerous and makes no
sense. Masturbation is simple the very act of
pleasuring yourself to meet your sexual needs
when the opportunity for actual sex with another
human being is absent. Society largely underrates
the importance of sex and it is alarming.
“We take the life we have for granted when we
question our need for sexual gratification. Our
daughters, sisters, wives and mothers are able to
go out and come home relatively unharmed, thanks
to a masturbating populace. Rape, sexual
molestation, child sexual abuse, incest and
domestic violence are all consequences of sexual
deprivation and if you thought the stats are bad
now, imagine how horrible it would be if we never
had the opportunity to relieve ourselves sexually.
Edochie argued that if masturbation is taken for
granted, sexual violence will become an epidemic
in the society.
“Sexual violence will be an epidemic of
stratospheric proportions. We have all witnessed
how the uncountable incidents of child sexual
molestation has ravaged the Catholic Church and
robed it of all credibility, empathy and common
sense.
“As a catholic, it has left me stunned beyond words.
This is what happens when priests are denied the
opportunity to have sexual relationships and marry.
They turn on helpless children for sexual succour.
Priests are people too and they need sex like
everyone else.”
The sex therapist posited that sex is important for
mental health, emotional well-being and social
security, adding that there is no need to demonize
masturbation. “Celebrate it. Our world is safer
because of it,” he added.
Experts say Dopamine, the “feel-good” hormone,
rises during the anticipation of a sexual climax.
After the orgasm, the calming hormones oxytocin
and endorphins are released, allowing you to feel a
warm afterglow that helps you sleep.
Orgasm increases pelvic floor strength. There are so
many advantages to having a healthy pelvic floor.
In the “plateau” stage of orgasm, the pelvic floor
gets a real workout. The clitoris surges with
increased blood pressure. Muscle tone, heart rate,
and respiration all increase. The uterus “lifts” off
the pelvic floor, increasing pelvic muscle tension
and strengthening the entire region, as well as your
sexual satisfaction.
Psychological and emotional benefits of
female masturbation
It is said that fatigue is the main reason for
women’s decrease in, or loss of, libido, and it’s a
legitimate one.
According to medical experts, tired body should
focus on resting and taking care of itself. The
second most common reason for women’s
decreased interest in sex is dissatisfaction with
their appearance.
Masturbation also has the potential to heal the
memory of past negative sexual experiences and
replace them with positive ones.
Masturbation can help you feel more confident and
connected because it improves your mood.
Masturbation helps relieve depressed feelings. As
you become aroused, the hormone levels of mood-
boosting dopamine and epinephrine soar in your
body. Many studies show that women who report
personal satisfaction with their sex lives live a
better quality of life overall.
For couples
Masturbation also relieves stress. According to a
sex therapist, Lonnie Barbach, avoiding sex due to
stress can create body imbalances.
Masturbation also strengthens your relationship
with yourself. When you know and love yourself on
deeply emotional and physical levels, you gain
confidence and let yourself grow through self-
awareness. Masturbation also strengthens sexual
relationship with your partner because many
couples have different sexual drives and needs;
masturbation is one way to meet the personal
needs not met by a partner. Still, it can be shared
with a partner. Watching a partner masturbate can
teach us what methods our partners use and enjoy.
It can also open up communication between
partners who might assume that the old routine is
okay when it could use a refresher.
The other side of masturbation
However, certain masturbating habits can wreak
havoc on sex life. Studies have also identified
negative effect of masturbation as its inability to
help in terms of infertility. The frequent ejaculation
of the fluid, semen reduces the quality of the
sperm as it gets watery.
Experts say frequent masturbation can irritate the
skin of the penis and constant masturbation with
the penis pressed down against the sheets can
injure the urethra such a way that urine leaves the
penis, not in a stream, but in a hard-to-control
spray. This they say can cause severe urethral
trauma. Men who masturbate may often fail to
satisfy their wives during sex. As you keep
masturbating, your desire for your partner
decreases and this is one of such situations that
can spell doom for your relationship.
Experts have warned that men who frequently
stimulate themselves sexually in ways different
from what their partner does can develop retarded
ejaculation, a sexual dysfunction where you find it
difficult to climax during sex with a partner. |
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