Recently single. I met a guy at the train station today we chatted till I got to my destination, he was good looking and the conversation was great. He wants to meet tonight his flight to Nigeria is tomorrow? Will I look too desperate if I said yes? What will you do?

Hmmm meet as in for a date, drink or wat??

[size=13pt]he asked to see you
i dont[b] see [/b] anything desperate in you saying yes
its just to[b] see [/b] you for chrissake's
if you really like him then[b] see [/b] him  [/size]

ada-uche:

Recently single. I met a guy at the train station today we chatted till I got to my destination, he was good looking and the conversation was great. He wants to meet tonight his flight to Nigeria is tomorrow? Will I look too desperate if I said yes? What will you do?

If that was me. I will arrange to meet him after he comes back from Nigeria, if I like him.

He is now saying he wants to surpise me, some part of me feels as if we've know each other for a while cos we got on so well. Then am thinking his a complete stranger what am i doing?

The whole talk mekes me even sense something desperate.

He lives in Nigeria but come here on holidays! Its getting late, Confused dot com

i don tire sef!

ada-uche:

He is now saying he wants to surpise me, some part of me feels as if we've know each other for a while cos we got on so well. Then am thinking his a complete stranger what am i doing?

Please dont go to see this man. Surprise u u've known him for less than an hour

wetin dey am? if u dig this guy, then go visit him

Amigoz thanks i took ur advice. Am still here! He said he is not letting me go. (now am scared, where do nigerian guys get their lyrics) Its terrible.

I told him to change his flight if its that serious he said he will see, haha!

Dont go.he wants to kidnap you

He probably has a wife and 5 kids at home and just wants a side piece in the UK whenever he visits

Ebonyeyes:

He probably has a wife and 5 kids at home and just wants a side piece in the UK whenever he visits

We all know, but is saying eveything really necessary?

Freiburger:




We all know, but is saying eveything really necessary?

Just had to put it out there for her to make a decision OP he is married im sure you can squeeze this info out of him .

Ebonyeyes:

Just had to put it out there for her to make a decision OP he is married im sure you can squeeze this info out of him .

But u don't draw conclusions without proves just coz u had some bad experiences in the past dosen't implies someone else is going to do the same. hope u undetsand.

Freiburger:




But u don't draw conclusions without proves just coz u had some bad experiences in the past dosen't implies someone else is going to do the same. hope u undetsand.

WTF are you on about? Im trying to help a sister and no I dont have any personal experience with trifling men but my friends have had and its disgusting what these married/engaged men get up to when the leave Nigeria.

Poster open your eyes, did you look at his wedding ring finger? was there a wedding ring band dent there? What am I saying some men even cheat with their wedding rings on.

life is about taking risks, wats the harm in just hookin up 4 a drink, he hasnt said he wants to marry u or meet ur parents
people need to chill the fkcu out, its nt every day u meet people u flow wiv