Yesterday was quite an eye opener for me. I was hanging out with some friends all married men and I was the only guy there who had no val. They all had chicks hanging on to their sleeves and their wives were at home. Now these are young pretty girls who should be running things with a dude like me not those balding guys. Of course after they have been used and dumped you can be sure that I will never go near any of them again, then they will start to complain that they cant find husbands. It's so annoying!

@poster:more kudos to ur elbow bro. they are after the money of course but very few of them love the guys,i mean very few. the funny tin is dat after been dumped by these guys they come knocking at our door(singles) for marriage and relationship. only God will help us in naija!!!

Yesterday was quite an eye opener for me. I was hanging out with some friends all married men and I was the only guy there who had no val. They all had chicks hanging on to their sleeves and their wives were at home. Now these are young pretty girls who should be running things with a dude like me not those balding guys. Of course after they have been used and dumped you can be sure that I will never go near any of them again, then they will start to complain that they cant find husbands. It's so annoying!

Sorry bud. welcome to the brave new world!

You've not seen anything yet.

Its the new way of things.you should learn to go with the flow.what i find really baffling is that these girls get  their fingers burned and then turn around and start playing the victim!a girl is dating a married guy.she knows he's married .knows there's absolutely no chance he's gonna live his wife 4 her.then she hangs in there yr in yr out.until the guy finally moves on.then she'd tell you how evil men are.how she gave the best to that r/ship and got dumped.ask her if the dude ever promised marriage or anything of the like and she would say , well, it was implied or (this one kills me!)she loved him!then she'd now blame YOU for her own mistakes.

It was quite annoying o. See me here dey battle konji then some people cup runneth over!

It was quite annoying o. See me here dey battle konji then some people cup runneth over!

Ben-10:

You've not seen anything yet.

Its like you have been there or you are a married guy who chases small chicks?

Dimka 76:

It was quite annoying o. See me here dey battle konji then some people cup runneth over!

lol
Even if you don't want them, they will find other means of getting you.

Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

na this country led them to that habbit

Dimka 76:

It was quite annoying o. See me here dey battle konji then some people cup runneth over!

LOL,

Don't you av a girl? if yes then go get a girl marry her and let all this konji thing stop in your life

neily:

Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

Abi o.

life is all about negotiation. someone is offering something in exchange for another. the married men dish out the dough while the girls massage not only their ego but provide a happy ending. i must confess though that some given a diffent setting would wish to be with each other but like i say, there is a way it ouhgt to be and a way that it is. this is just the way that it is.

neily:

Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

now that is funny but it is still wrong on both parties

very simple because single boys don't love

I used to find guys that were in their mid 30s and sometimes married, so attractive
but i would never go after one, but hmmmm, some of them are hott!!
i can't pinpoint what it is though.

very simple because single boys don't love

Na married men alone dey love abi?

neily:

Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

that's exactly why u gals get into trouble. nothing good comes easy!!!!!!

because married men are able to provide them with the comfort and financial security that most single guys cant, like a poster above said: nobody likes suffering, i am a guy but i can undesrstand why they do it even though it is not fair to the married women left at home, i guess thats life, its not always fair, good things happen to bad people and viceversa, just live with it!!!

g1:

because married men are able to provide them with the comfort and financial security that most single guys cant, like a poster above said: nobody likes suffering, i am a guy but i can undesrstand why they do it even though it is not fair to the married women left at home, i guess thats life, its not always fair, good things happen to bad people and viceversa, just live with it!!!

yeah they will live with it,when they get married to us young guys ang they are no longer as succulent as before we will go after the younger ones.its quite simple,but the sad part is that they will start complaining that we guys are cheats,cant take our eyes off anything on skirt etc they've forgotten what the wives of these men go through at home. but as we all know what u sow u will reap!!!!!

Its the messed up system we should blame, if these young girls had jobs and the young men had jobs, they will not resort to dating married men and yahooism/kidnapping/armed robbery. Nigeria is slowly self-destructing before our very eyes.

Ebonyeyes:

Its the messed up system we should blame, if these young girls had jobs and the young men had jobs, they will not resort to dating married men and yahooism/kidnapping/armed robbery. Nigeria is slowly self-destructing before our very eyes.

BUT we Nigerians are the system sister,lets learn to live with the system

lgboks:

BUT we Nigerians are the system sister,lets learn to live with the system

No thieving politicians and the I-will-eat as-much-money-as-I-can-before-I-leave-office mentality that is the system. Nigeria has resources enough to feed 3 countries for years to come but the country is suffering. God help us.

we can't keep blaming the country for personal choices. the decision to date a married man or not is a personal choice. it would appear that despite the taboo around dating a married man, these girls defy the norm to do so. methinks it's beyond the economic situation. it must be some emotional or psychological pleasure they derive from it.

@ Topic
It's their evil nature they want to see their fellow girls being cheated on.

I think they are still gonna regret of that their evil act.

Ebonyeyes:

No thieving politicians and the I-will-eat as-much-money-as-I-can-before-I-leave-office mentality that is the system. Nigeria has resources enough to feed 3 countries for years to come but the country is suffering. God help us.

we are the politicians cos they were once were we are.

iceblue:

we can't keep blaming the country for personal choices. the decision to date a married man or not is a personal choice. it would appear that despite the taboo around dating a married man, these girls defy the norm to do so. methinks it's beyond the economic situation. it must be some emotional or psychological pleasure they derive from it.

couldn't be put right.

Freiburger:

@ Topic
It's their evil nature they want to see their fellow girls being cheated on.

why dont u add jealousy to the list.

sofeco:

I think they are still gonna regret of that their evil act.

sure they will. BUT i pity the innocent ones.

sofeco:

I think they are still gonna regret of that their evil act.

of course they will.

Why do married men chase after single girls. . . That's a better question, after all they are the ones with the obligations.

why do the ladies agree to go out with them? if u ask me maybe their wives went out with older men wen they where young. they are facing the repercussion.

What do we say about married ladies that go about chasing single guys. its a two way thing.

neily:

Married men are ready to give money. While young guys are stingy. Nobody wan suffer. Even you.

This is not always true.
I have seen single ladies with high paying jobs(especially bankers) date married colleagues shamelessly on the one hand. The annoying thing is they are mostly of marriageable age , praying by fire for God to give them their own husband on the other hand.