i have two girl friends,one i love so much and we have been dating for all most 4 years,we have been breaking up and reconciling,she said we should stop having sex but now she is back and wants us to marry,my family knows and like her but she is always quick to challenge me and confront me any time she finds out any thing and she has also been there for me but my problem is that she might always fight and confront me in future if there is any problem,she is ibo Abia state.
The second we have just dated for few months but she is so nice,quit and very caring,she is all a man will want from a woman,i meet and fell in love with her when i broke up with my first girl friend but the problem is that she has a child for another man and the child is with her parents,i fill the child will be a distraction to us and might bring problems in the future,she is from Edo state,.so can some body advice me on what to do.

Only you can make that call believe me.

@ poster - I dont think someone may speak for your heart. Only you can make that choice of yours. You know what you want for yourself. Why not follow your heart,

Mind you there is no perfect human being. You yourself cant be perfect. There is no 100% human being. Your 1st gurl I think is just blunt. And it is not a bad trait. It is good to be open and say ones mind.

Choose wisely, and I pray God will help you,

The devil u know is better than the angel u don't know. Your first girlfriend is real and open to you. This new one might just be pretending. SHINE YOUR EYES!

[size=13pt]you cant possibly love the two of 'em the same way
search your heart of hearts there is one of them that you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with
go for her regardless of time or situation
-all the best[/size]

look into your heart you will find the answer

go back to your first love she has been there for you all the while and you need to tolerate her. Leave that after one for a divorcee. You deserve a brand new

totorimi:

go back to your first love she has been there for you all the while and you need to tolerate her. Leave that after one for a divorcee. You deserve a brand new

[size=13pt]guy are you for real ??
at this time nd age someone still think like this
hmm you really have a long way to go cave-man [/size]

you knw this other gal 4 some months & she's an angel? if a gal u've dated for 4 yrs is nt blunt with you then there is a problem. jst b wise sha.

Go for the first one man.

Take it to the Lord in prayer though the 1st one looks more like it.

THANKS EVERY ONE, I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR ADVICE,THANKS A MILLION.
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@ OP: My brother, you're about to make a decision that could affect the rest of your life, do you think asking for advice from virtual acquaintances who know neither you nor the women in question is the wisest of actions?

I think it challenge in a relationship is good and not in marriage and as a man u should have the controll over your family i think u should go with the second for she is the best.

O boy it seems like your infatuated by this new girl, soon the novelty will wear out, soon she will become old and you will start noticing her bad sides.

So if i was you i will think very carefully

i beliv u hv d answer u need, i also go for the first.