Within the amount of time I have spent on this forum, I have discovered that a lot of guys here are always quick to condemn and castigate the opposite sex at every opportunity they get, irrespective of the subject. I have also noticed how gender biased most guys are when airing their views on gender related topics. This in my opinion is quite appalling and it's a marker of incipient misogyny.

This has led me to the conclusion that majority of the men here are either pained losers who have been at the wrong end of relationships and at the wrong end of life in general, or they are men with low self-esteem who don't have the qualities to date real women, so they settle for less or can't even settle for any because no one would settle for them, so they come online to vent their frustrations and bash women at every chance they get.

My advice to mature ladies on this forum who know what they are worth is to pay no attention to these kind of guys. They aren't worth your time. Most of them are just immature dudes with low self-esteem who can't even talk to you in real life. Their views don't in anyway represent the views of real, mature, intelligent men who have been with real women.

See ehn. If Nairaland men were the standard for judging men ehn, I would hate men totally. But then again, I cannot judge many based on a few e-diots.

The hatred and bashing of women is real here. I blame poverty and a sick mentality.
thanks op

My friend sharrappp....
Only the men are bias, while the women are saints abi?
Rubbish....

if ure ugly and i see i go bash no vex, i no sabi look dirty comot face

Op don't mind Nairalanders, most of them use every opportunity to catch fun some might not be mysogynists,it's their idea of sharing their mind,not knowing they are really hurting some ladies feelings

Its WAR everywhere Ooooooo. Have you checked out the politics section, pride in tribe. Hmmmm..............religion section na fanatics full am!!!

Op you just join NL yesterday?! Choi.............let me say no more.

HannahHitler:
See ehn. If Nairaland men were the standard for judging men ehn, I would hate men totally. But then again, I cannot judge many based on a few e-diots.

The hatred and bashing of women is real here. I blame poverty and a sick mentality.
thanks op

How does poverty translate to women bashing?

From experience I have seen that broke guys are more caring and loving than the well to do guys. You know why?

what the lack in finance and spending, the make it up in loving and sexual prowess

Most of them are heartbroken guys that turned misogynists overnight online. I don't care what they think or feel..

One thing u must know is dat, any guy who abuses women so much here is actually crushin on her but wants to hide it

Is this how you want to be the ladies man? guy, wake up....

DouglasH92:
Within the amount of time I have spent on this forum, I have discovered that a lot of guys here are always quick to condemn and castigate the opposite sex at every opportunity they get, irrespective of the subject. I have also noticed how gender biased most guys are when airing their views on gender related topics. This in my opinion is quite appalling and it's a marker of incipient misogyny.

This has made me come to the conclusion that majority of the men here are either pained losers who have been at the wrong end of relationships and at the wrong end of life in general, or they are men with low self-esteem who don't have the qualities to date real women, so they settle for less or can't even settle for any because no one would settle for them, so they come online to vent their frustrations and bash women at every chance they get.

My advice to mature ladies on this forum who know what they are worth is to pay no attention to these kind of guys. They aren't worth your time. Most of them are just immature dudes with low self-esteem who can't even talk to you in real life. Their views doesn't in anyway represent the views of real, mature, intelligent men who have been with real women.

I love and RESPECT WOMEN coz i only have just 3 women in my entire life.......I CHERISH THEM with every fiber of my being. You assertions OP, is not completely true

DouglasH92:
Within the amount of time I have spent on this forum, I have discovered that a lot of guys here are always quick to condemn and castigate the opposite sex at every opportunity they get, irrespective of the subject. I have also noticed how gender biased most guys are when airing their views on gender related topics. This in my opinion is quite appalling and it's a marker of incipient misogyny.

This has made me come to the conclusion that majority of the men here are either pained losers who have been at the wrong end of relationships and at the wrong end of life in general, or they are men with low self-esteem who don't have the qualities to date real women, so they settle for less or can't even settle for any because no one would settle for them, so they come online to vent their frustrations and bash women at every chance they get.

My advice to mature ladies on this forum who know what they are worth is to pay no attention to these kind of guys. They aren't worth your time. Most of them are just immature dudes with low self-esteem who can't even talk to you in real life. Their views doesn't in anyway represent the views of real, mature, intelligent men who have been with real women.

Your points are valid but the channel of passing it across is not good enough. You don't scold your fellow guys in front of the ladies . You should have been more subtly with your message. I share your view too but I don't take it seriously as most guys here are undergraduates so what do you expect? Take note in case of next time.

DouglasH92:
Within the amount of time I have spent on this forum, I have discovered that a lot of guys here are always quick to condemn and castigate the opposite sex at every opportunity they get, irrespective of the subject. I have also noticed how gender biased most guys are when airing their views on gender related topics. This in my opinion is quite appalling and it's a marker of incipient misogyny.

This has made me come to the conclusion that majority of the men here are either pained losers who have been at the wrong end of relationships and at the wrong end of life in general, or they are men with low self-esteem who don't have the qualities to date real women, so they settle for less or can't even settle for any because no one would settle for them, so they come online to vent their frustrations and bash women at every chance they get.

My advice to mature ladies on this forum who know what they are worth is to pay no attention to these kind of guys. They aren't worth your time. Most of them are just immature dudes with low self-esteem who can't even talk to you in real life. Their views doesn't in anyway represent the views of real, mature, intelligent men who have been with real women.

Oga, u just joined nairaland??
Is it that u are not Nigerian??
That's the naija way oof having fun oooo..its attack every where,other sections on nairaland is all the same...
Politics: there's really no gender there..
its either APC vs PDP / pro-Buhari vs anti-Buhari ..or the Igbos that want their country vs the Yoruba and arewa hoping to manage this shiitt called naija
In crime section: It's fun all the way..but still looks like war...Igbo vs afonja...drug trafficking against ritual killings...they all know crime isn't tribe compliant...buts it's just their way of fun attacking each other
And the list goes on...all na fun ooooo...its like u are taking nairaland serious and personal...or u just trying to asss lick so that babes will like you....cos babes too speak ill of guys...no harm intended..its just fun
Anyways brace yourself...guys are coming for u, even the ladies u asslicking are coming for you..cos it's fun for them too...makes them popular cos ladies speak Ill of guys too calling dem broke and wateva..

If you take things here too serious den u must be a MUMU

Fabulocity:
Most of them are hungry, broke and live poverty stricken lives so this is the only avenue where they can come on to pour out their anger and frustrations. I've learnt to pity them instead of feeling anger at their stupidity. I believe everyone deserves to be happy, even though they go through the wrong means of achieving happiness.

This one is not a wifey material

You will never find man on nairaland

Who was looking for man on Nairaland before.

Jacksparr0w1207:
This one is not a wifey material

You will never find man on nairaland

This one dey find ladies attention

anyways you right sha but then tell me a social media platform where bashing and e-diss aiint rampant

its everywhere bruv and most if not all do it for fun.........

and if you take everything on social media serious, it only means you're a M0R0N

Mr. Man, go out there and approach ladies for dates. Stop fooling yourself on this forum pretending to be a good boy.

Fabulocity:
Who was looking for man on Nairaland before.

attitude. wifey material dont cuss

Jacksparr0w1207:
attitude. wifey material dont cuss

SirJeffry:
Mr. Man, go out there and approach ladies for dates. Stop fooling yourself on this forum pretending to be a good boy.

baba dey find hookups

Girls are wicked so they deserve no mercy

DouglasH92:
Within the amount of time I have spent on this forum, I have discovered that a lot of guys here are always quick to condemn and castigate the opposite sex at every opportunity they get, irrespective of the subject. I have also noticed how gender biased most guys are when airing their views on gender related topics. This in my opinion is quite appalling and it's a marker of incipient misogyny.

This has made me come to the conclusion that majority of the men here are either pained losers who have been at the wrong end of relationships and at the wrong end of life in general, or they are men with low self-esteem who don't have the qualities to date real women, so they settle for less or can't even settle for any because no one would settle for them, so they come online to vent their frustrations and bash women at every chance they get.

My advice to mature ladies on this forum who know what they are worth is to pay no attention to these kind of guys. They aren't worth your time. Most of them are just immature dudes with low self-esteem who can't even talk to you in real life. Their views doesn't in anyway represent the views of real, mature, intelligent men who have been with real women.

I like your style. The smelo yaff started sending u PMs. If you have to scout for relevance, can't you look for blocked drainages in your area to unblock? Woman wrappers everywhere

Fabulocity:

why you up this late?

I slept all evening

Jacksparr0w1207:
why you up this late?

DouglasH92:


Mr Graduate, so they didn't teach you proper written English in University? There should be a 'd' after entitle and it's "I am or I'm sorry," not "am sorry."

DouglasH92:


I never claimed to know it all. No one can know everything. But one thing I am certain of knowing is how to approach women and talk to them, something you seem to lack sufficient knowledge of. You don't just approach a random lady on Nairaland, say hello and comment on her looks immediately and directly, without any subtlety or wit, and then expect the conversation to move forward. The only thing that she would think of about you is that you are a perv who only interested in how she looks.

And by the way, I was just on the phone with my dad. He is hail and hearty.

Behold our new 'osomo gbomomi' and grammar king. Prof dey spell 'hale' as 'hail'.

Screenshot below shows the guy dey look for one of these ugly girls to straf

@ comments sha
anyway

lefulefu:
@ comments sha
anyway

Red cross or road safety go seize this machine wey u dey use fry pop corn one day and una eyes go clear ehn

Dont bash him na