I was dating this guy,who continiously gave me the signal that he was not interested in settling down.He told me he doesn't see himself getting married in the next three years.Alas a year later he sent me his wedding invitattion,he broke up with me over the phone.I had to move on.Now 2years later he is asking me to add him as a friend on face book.I have decided to shut him out of my life and that includes not adding him as a friend.What do you think?

if i were in ur shoes i will add him in my face book. He is still ur friend even though u are no longer dating each other. i know u are seriously angry $ upset with him but put all those behind u. God will surely give u ur own husband and ur choice in Jesus name. please, put these into consideration. just forget what happened and move on okay

ki ni big deal
ma exs from forever till 2moro r there on ma friends list even as ma top friend

no big deal about that, unless you'll feel guilty every time you read their post and status

join 9jawear on facebook

Add him and be his second wife. I mean online wif. . . Oh hell what i'm i saying

I've gotten over him but the problem is when i add him on face book he will be able able to access info about me and sometimes his own info will appear on my page whether i like it or not,really to be frank i don't want to have any updates about him or his activities,all this  i can't avoid if i add him.

No big deal dear. Just add him. Whats da point? U still gonna come across him whether u like it or not.

if you want to maintained friendship with him why not

He is an ex for a reason.

Add him if it'll make him better

No mind the yeye girl, she is still in love with him otherwise she wouldn't be asking this yeye question. If a woman wants nothing to do with you, she wouldn't even waste her time thinking about anything that pertains to you not to talk of coming to a public forum. I can bet $100 that this girl doesn't have gut not to add him as a friend. SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIM!

Ebonyeyes:

He is an ex for a reason.

U. . . stop dulling me now

Sweet T:

No mind the yeye girl, she is still in love with him otherwise she wouldn't be asking this yeye question. If a woman wants nothing to do with you, she wouldn't even waste her time thinking about anything that pertains to you not to talk of coming to a public forum. I can bet $100 that this girl doesn't have gut not to add him as a friend. SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIM!

Thank you u read my mind.This was exactly what i wanted to ask her if she was still in love or not.She loes the guy and hurt at the same time cos of the way the guy left her.I dont blame her though.

@ poster if u know if will hurt u to see his posters on FB,dnt add him cos this will bring more pains since the way u guys parted broke ur heart.He wants to know somethings abt you that is y he is insisting

[size=16pt]@poster,
the fact that he didnt want to marry u then doesnt mean that u guys cant be friends.na by force 2 marry?whether 2 add him on ur facebook friend list or not is purely ur headache.yeye thread[/size]

kokonets:


U. . . stop dulling me now

Im not honestly, I told you I would be going away that time

larv in the air

chrisagabs:

I've gotten over him but the problem is when i add him on face book he will be able able to access info about me and sometimes his own info will appear on my page whether i like it or not,really to be frank i don't want to have any updates about him or his activities,all this i can't avoid if i add him.

@ Poster, you can add him on Facebook and control the information and access he has to your FB profile. There are profiles/settings you can create for certain category of friends and share limited details with them.

If you still have any other reason for not adding him, I guess I may have to agree with other replies on this thread that maybe you still have feelings for him.

dnt add him that shld send him a message! he shldnt jst b able to wiggle his way back into your life. He shld earn ur friendship

@ d big rod n sweet T if u don't have anything tangible to say you should have just shut your trap.I didn't ask for your opinions,i needed sane people to talk to.

his not over u if u too are not u can add him,simple maths

tnx 9jii jst got d ryt answer

you don't have to add him, its not compulsory, move on

chrisagabs:
I was dating this guy,who continiously gave me the signal that he was not interested in settling down.He told me he doesn't see himself getting married in the next three years.Alas a year later he sent me his wedding invitattion,he broke up with me over the phone.I had to move on.Now 2years later he is asking me to add him as a friend on face book.I have decided to shut him out of my life and that includes not adding him as a friend.What do you think?

ok

Two years and you have moved on.

Please just keep moving on. Dont be carried away. Also dont fall a victim of being used the second time. Its past and so should it be

chrisagabs:
I was dating this guy,who continiously gave me the signal that he was not interested in settling down.He told me he doesn't see himself getting married in the next three years.Alas a year later he sent me his wedding invitattion,he broke up with me over the phone.I had to move on.Now 2years later he is asking me to add him as a friend on face book.I have decided to shut him out of my life and that includes not adding him as a friend.What do you think?

Block his line from calling you too.