jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change. i'm a pretty lady and i always getting attention from guys yet i remained faithful to him despite the distance. all of sudden he cut contact with me and i decided not to bother to ask him why becos i had had enough myself. ex started calling me again though i didnt answer his calls. a month later i saw pictures of his wedding online, the girl he married is someone i had found out that he was cheating on me with in the past , though he denied it back then. she was even pregnant on their wedding day, i was shocked when i saw the pictures and cried my heart out. after his marriage i found some information about this man which i never knew before , he is a niger-delta militant with 2 babymammas who he beats at the silighest provocation. this is someone that told me he deals in oil and gas o. now this same man has started calling me and begging me to forgive him for the way he treated me while we were together and that i should mention anytin that i want and he will do for me, whether monetarily or not. i told him to go to hell with his pleading and money, however my friends are advising me to whatever he offers me and leave him. what should u i do?

jenny2007: Hi guys,
Don't know how to go about advicing my friend that recently broke up with her guy about a month ago but now misses him and wants him back.
They are both in a distance relationship -she's in lag and he's in bayelsa. She use to complain to me a lot that he does not give her as much attention as she would want, like not enough calls but text frequently, they only see each other once a month. He always puts work first before her. So many times her visits to him has been cut short because one or two things came up at work. Ironically, she says that he gives her more attention when he's out of the country on a trip. He calls her single day to check on her when he travels out on a trip abroad but the story changes when he's back to work and in nigeria. Meanwhile, the guy gets upset whenever my girl does not call him to check on him. My friend said that he didn't call on vals day too despite the distance until she called him. She said she got so upset and threathened him through a text that she will leave him if he does not change. They both haven't spoken to each other at all till today, as in he he didn't reply and she hasn't called him. This girl is one of my close friEnds and I don't feel happy seeing her so sad. The guy has been nice to her but just that he does not make enough effort in the relationship. My girl is faithful to him here in lag even though she's very pretty. I have told her to call him and they should have a heart to heary talk. I dun know if I gave her a good advice. Your thoughts pls?

Khalessi: Btw am guessing that you're the "friend" huh?

Khalessi: Btw am guessing that you're the "friend" huh?

jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change. i'm a pretty lady and i always getting attention from guys yet i remained faithful to him despite the distance. all of sudden he cut contact with me and i decided not to bother to ask him why becos i had had enough myself. ex started calling me again though i didnt answer his calls. a month later i saw pictures of his wedding online, the girl he married is someone i had found out that he was cheating on me with in the past , though he denied it back then. she was even pregnant on their wedding day, i was shocked when i saw the pictures and cried my heart out. after his marriage i found some information about this man which i never knew before , he is a niger-delta militant with 2 babymammas who he beats at the silighest provocation. this is someone that told me he deals in oil and gas o. now this same man has started calling me and begging me to forgive him for the way he treated me while we were together and that i should mention anytin that i want and he will do for me, whether monetarily or not. i told him to go to hell with his pleading and money, however my friends are advising me to whatever he offers me and leave him. what should u i do?

jenny2007: I was with him for almost three years on and off. we were in different cities during the duration of the relationship but with regular visits. this man mistreated me, i was never happy with him, in fact its the worst relationship i have ever had. theres nothing that he didnt do to me except physically assaulting me, still i stayed with him praying everyday that he will change. i'm a pretty lady and i always getting attention from guys yet i remained faithful to him despite the distance. all of sudden he cut contact with me and i decided not to bother to ask him why becos i had had enough myself. ex started calling me again though i didnt answer his calls. a month later i saw pictures of his wedding online, the girl he married is someone i had found out that he was cheating on me with in the past , though he denied it back then. she was even pregnant on their wedding day, i was shocked when i saw the pictures and cried my heart out. after his marriage i found some information about this man which i never knew before , he is a niger-delta militant with 2 babymammas who he beats at the silighest provocation. this is someone that told me he deals in oil and gas o. now this same man has started calling me and begging me to forgive him for the way he treated me while we were together and that i should mention anytin that i want and he will do for me, whether monetarily or not. i told him to go to hell with his pleading and money, however my friends are advising me to whatever he offers me and leave him. what should u i do?

2sExy1: What a life... ! Why wouldn't you stay in such relationship when you are seeing money.

So fvcked up a country... You would have been rottening in jail by now.

Why won't you stay in such a a relationship and hoping things will change for better when your eyes were on money?

See as una dey jump on anything well packaged even though they are rottened inside.

You were dating thief without knowing... Why would you know?

Just move the fvck on!

oshyno: Women and money. Tell me another thing abeg.

U stayed tru to him - why won't u when ur soo fixated on his money as in d Bayelsa big boy em be.

Thaz why it puts me off wen u chiks say "even with d way I luv him n doesn't cheat on him bla bla bla , he still did dis to me "

When all u think of is d cool sweet life ur gono live wen u marry him why won't u remain faithful to such a player.

Cry me river Jordan abeg.

Houseofglam7: Compensate you with Wetin?
Your own rifle?
What possibly can he give you?

chidyhels: Atleast you are out of the relationship now, cut all communication. Collecting anything from him won't change anything. But as a sharp babe you can open another office on his head.

Exponental: Forgive him. Imagine u married him and u realized he had 2 baby mamas n u get beaten up too. I will say congrats dat he left u. On d otherhand, open a new bank acct, send it to him. Tell him to drop anything of his choice. If he respects ur decision not to have anything in common, spend d money after say...6months, but if he wants something, refund him.

Talon05:
Glam7

jenny2007:



Point of correction, i wasnt with him becos of money and in the three years that i dated him he only gave me money 3 times. i have my own business and have always been independent. he actually didnt like me working to earn my own money becos hes one of the men that a woman's place is just in the bedroom abd kitchen.

Houseofglam7:
Lol.
I see you in 3D.

Talon05:
Actually 2D. Its diamond_dre.