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Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by woye77: 4:43pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
it happens - lady marries man, then first year no child, second, third and fourth year still no child - by the fifth year, the husband's family start piling pressure on him and before you can say Jack, they bring another woman into the home or marry another wife for him secretly - and they have a favourite proverb for this kind of thing in yorubaland "ori omo lo'n pe omo waye" (translation: the arrival of a baby is a spiritual trigger for other children) and thus wifey has to deal with a rival - so ladies, if your husband decides to marry a new wife owing to your inability to concieve - what would you do? |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by TedBundy1(m): 4:45pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
woye77: Interesting translation there. |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by whitelexi(m): 4:47pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
There are now alternatives. . . Adoption, or other methods of conception Women generally dont like polygamy |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by r231(m): 4:52pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
whitelexi: true |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by Madukaele(m): 5:08pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
ladies will surely run from the topic, trust me |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by THEAMAKA(f): 5:09pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
whitelexi: |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by madlady(f): 5:13pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
woye77: I would be ok with it, but I must live in my own house/flat and have full say over his vists to me / |
Re: Ladies, If U Were Barren, Would U Allow your Husband To Have Another Wife? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Feb 17, 2010 |
@poster i wonder if in that same spirit, a wife will be allowed to become polyandrist (multiple husband) if they find out that the husband is the infertile one/source of the problem? or will the family just squash it? |
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