You don't have a girlfriend.

When did the demands start? At the beginning of the relationship or when you noticed she doesn't love you much anymore?

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Oga, OP, you're not her boyfriend. You're her office. And the purpose of office na to dey pay. I'm sure she's giving it up for some dude somewhere. Pele.

pocohantas:
You don't have a girlfriend.

When did the demands start? At the beginning of the relationship or when you noticed she doesn't love you much anymore?

Ever since we started dating

The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment.

Sorry bro

CaeserVelli:
Oga, OP, you're not her boyfriend. You're her office. And the purpose of office na to dey pay. I'm sure she's giving it up for some dude somewhere. Pele.

You may b right. but i just hope it's not the case

theboss01:
Ever since we started dating

Alright then...you're just her own Npower.

Please don't ignore that attitude, don't ever ignore such an attitude. You'll face lots of challenges in marriage, intentionally adding a fair weather wife to it...isn't in your best interest.

pocohantas:


Alright then...you're just her own Npower.

Please don't ignore that attitude, don't ever ignore such an attitude. You'll face lots of challenges in marriage, intentionally adding a fair weather wife to it...isn't in your best interest.

ok thanks

Hmm, u dont need any1 to advise u but urself, she doesn't need moni but love is a line that babe that like money uses, if u dont give her she wouldn't pick ur call or cum over, wat if u get married to her then u dont give her moni she asked for?wen u want to fire she tells you no show or she doesn't cook for u, over worse starts having an affair,Dis is why divorce is sky rocketing....Advice yourself, you can also love again

DEPUTY BOYFRIEND . . . Endure Bro: na so dem do me until my eyes opened

Mr you are just wasting your time, the person she love is somewhere else and not you

theboss01:
I have a girlfriend, I am very serious with her. I know she once loved me but right now i don't know if she still does (at least she says she does). I think of marrying her...but her character is a threat to me. She told me that she isn't looking for a man who would give her plenty money but love. Ever since we started dating she keeps asking for one thing or the other even the most minor and irrelevant things. The problem is she ignores me so much when i don't have anything to give her...but when i do i become her true sweetheart for that moment. The truth is I have come to love this girl so much that I'm even willing to ignore these attitudes. She tells me no sex till marriage. For all i know she's not a virgin...before we started. Could she be seeing other guys as well? Am i just wasting my time with her? Is there something I should know? please i need proper advises. Thanks

collins1895:
Hmm, u dont need any1 to advise u but urself, she doesn't need moni but love is a line that babe that like money uses, if u dont give her she wouldn't pick ur call or cum over, wat if u get married to her then u dont give her moni she asked for?wen u want to fire she tells you no show or she doesn't cook for u, over worse starts having an affair,Dis is why divorce is sky rocketing....Advice yourself, you can also love again

You're probably right. thanks

Your girlfriend is an enemy of state

my guy, shey you love her? Then marry her. If you send me IV, I may come for your wedding but pls dont come here and cry when she gives birth and the baby's head looks like her uncle, the tommy like your landlord, eyes like your bestfrd and legs like your gateman.

yarimo:
Mr you are just wasting your time, the person she love is somewhere else and not you

Can this be true? She came for me in the first place. Now I'm so in love with her. It'd hurt me so much if i get to know she isn't faithful

DarkMagic:
U become her sweetheart once u give in to her demands and she says no sex even wen she ain't virgin
She officially has u around her fingers
Ma guy...u r her ATM

That got me thinking too

if you are in a relationship and you don't have money to spend, you are in a non profit organization. that is Nigeria today.




on the contrary, since you love her so much, why abandon her cos she loves money? what is the guarantee the next lady will not be like that?

this days women don't marry for love only, the weight of the pocket matters too. be a rich guy, marry her for procreation and forget love. Romeo and Juliet are both dead. cure the cause of the disease, and not the sickness

How can you be asking such question? And you say you want to get married... Nawa oh! I no know say men like this still dey this world oh!
This kind of shii always gets me mad.

U are not her boyfriend. U are a client.

May the power of love not cloud our thinking! !!Any amen?

bennymark:
if you are in a relationship and you don't have money to spend, you are in a non profit organization. that is Nigeria today.




on the contrary, since you love her so much, why abandon her cos she loves money? what is the guarantee the next lady will not be like that?

this days women don't marry for love only, the weight of the pocket matters too. be a rich guy, marry her for procreation and forget love. Romeo and Juliet are both dead. cure the cause of the disease, and not the sickness

I don't even think of abandoning her. I still love her. I'm not sad with the fact that she asks me for money but with her reaction when i don't have to give at that point in time. Remember she said she isn't looking for a guy to spoil her with money but real love.

Buharison:
Your girlfriend is an enemy of state

lol

short and simple

meanwhile benita27 what do you have to say

theboss01:
I don't even think of abandoning her. I still love her. I'm not sad with the fact that she asks me for money but with her reaction when i don't have to give at that point in time. Remember she said she isn't looking for a guy to spoil her with money but real love.

'she said'

what women say is usually different or opposite from what they want.

lack of money makes some people depressed, probably why she is sad when you can't provide

if you are not giving up on her, find psychological methods of changing her, your words will mean nothing. also try to pan her into facing reality. she will become serious and stop seeing you as an ATM when she understands you are not just out for fun.

MAKE SURE SHE DOES NOT THINK YOU ARE DESPERATE. OBSERVE YOUR FINE BOY AND GIVE HER ATTITUDE WHEN NECESSARY

My girlfriend can ask money for Africa I don tire
Even I don run commot make one girl no drain me

thepussyhunter:


lol

short and simple

meanwhile beni.ta27 what do you have to say

He should use his head. What kind of fuckery is this?.

Benita27:
He should use his head. What kind of fuckery is this?.

lol

but he's in love plus he aiint sure if the lady is just using him

thepussyhunter:


lol

but he's in love plus he aiint sure if the lady is just using him

Obviously she's using him. The op knows she's but needs someone to also tell him that.