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Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Denimadz(m): 10:21pm On Aug 23, 2017
With the trend of slay queens and pepper Dem gang babes, young men who understand the ethics of hardwork cannot go nd pay for an Ill trained girl who cannot face the realities of being a mother or his wife.
Most times girls don't see from this point of view but seriously girls need to understand the meaning of humility and current reality. Life becomes more tough when u lie to yourself. Take it or leave it, you in Africa particularly Nigeria will never be Beyonce nor Kim Kardashian. We are Africans nd we have common rational values like being sane at least to make people accept us so we have a sense of belonging.
Pretending to be Kim Kardashian or Beyonce will on no account bring a genuine hubby who truly appreciates you. This is because the challenges of a developing nation like Nigeria will soon overwhelm the Nigeria Beyonce, be smart, go jeje.
Learn to have respect for the people that love you, care and cater for you, marriage is not an escape route of life. No one is ready to shoulder responsibility all their life, they ll soon get tired, be a helper and not another load on load.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Dillusionist(m): 10:23pm On Aug 23, 2017
the same way it is hard to find a husby material these days..

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 23, 2017
With all the hush puppy gang boys out there, nothing spoil.

That's why they introduced baby mama association of Nigeria.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 23, 2017
Oga leave all these epistle and go and look for money.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by greatnaija01: 10:25pm On Aug 23, 2017
FAMILIES are failing daily in making the society better by allowing their kids to be mentored by SLAY QUEENS and FAST-WEALTH DUDES....

HOMES are now Hostels where tenants share the same surnames.... its sad.

Every issue in the society began from HOME.... even boko haram.... even Baddo gang or robbers... Its all a proof of FAILED PARENTING.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 10:26pm On Aug 23, 2017
Dillusionist:
the same way it is hard to find a husby material these days..

How many yards? You Berra start paying attention to suitors you've friend zoned & quit complaining about husband material.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:29pm On Aug 23, 2017
You don't need to be married. Humanity is evolving past marriage. Just get a surrogate and have your children but make sure to select the best of the gene pool.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Evablizin(f): 10:31pm On Aug 23, 2017
sad

Op both good wife and good husband is not easy to find beside what you sow in your marriage that's what you will reap,nothing good comes easy

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 10:37pm On Aug 23, 2017
truthsayer009:
Oga leave all these epistle and go and look for money.

That's why it's hard to find true love nowadays, what ya'all think about is MONEY and after that you seek a woman abi?

Of course you would find a woman but when the money stops coming, she would be gone like the wind.

tensazangetsu20:
You don't need to be married. Humanity is evolving past marriage. Just get a surrogate and have your children but make sure to select the best of the gene pool.

See wetin this one dey talk, NL romance section na dead on arrival.

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Divay22(f): 10:39pm On Aug 23, 2017
Are you a husband material undecided
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Learnstuffs: 10:43pm On Aug 23, 2017
Reason why I see marriage as a trap. The only time a guy gets genuine love is when he is rich. If not dey ur lane or face the relationship never ending drama

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by BlackDBagba: 10:54pm On Aug 23, 2017
Ok
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Dillusionist(m): 10:57pm On Aug 23, 2017
truthsayer009:


How many yards? You Berra start paying attention to suitors you've friend zoned & quit complaining about husband material.
what do you know about marriage..you small rat

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 23, 2017
Dillusionist:

what do you know about marriage..you small rat

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 12:15am On Aug 24, 2017
Its hard because y'all don't appreciate good things.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by liab: 12:18am On Aug 24, 2017
Rorachy:
Its hard because y'all don't appreciate good things.
auty abg wetin be d gud thing
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 12:19am On Aug 24, 2017
liab:
auty abg wetin be d gud thing
Well, in most circumstances, you guys are the architect of your own problem.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Gerrard59(m): 12:22am On Aug 24, 2017
All these slay queen accusations on NL has to reduce, it's becoming unnecessarily too much and vague. Any small thing, slay queen this, pepper-dem gang that. Humdrum I say.
One can slay and be sound in all ramifications.

From my observations, individuals get to marry persons like them. You'll meet your type, it's biology. Like attract like. There are good people and bad people, they will meet and marry (if need be). It's nature. Survival of the fittest.

You need to change your clique of females and study the female psychology.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by liab: 12:23am On Aug 24, 2017
Rorachy:
Well, in most circumstances, you guys are the architect of your own problem.
abeg like wat and wat ojare?
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 12:25am On Aug 24, 2017
Gerrard59:
All these slay queen accusations on NL has to reduce, it's becoming unnecessarily too much and vague. Any small thing, slay queen this, pepper-dem gang that. Humdrum I say.
One can slay and be sound in all ramifications.

From my observations, individuals get to marry persons like them. You'll meet your type, it's biology. Like attract like. There are good people and bad people, they will meet and marry (if need be). It's nature. Survival of the fittest.

You need to change your clique of females and study the female psychology.
Exactly.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Gerrard59(m): 12:28am On Aug 24, 2017
Learnstuffs:
Reason why I see marriage as a trap. The only time a guy gets genuine love is when he is rich. If not dey ur lane or face the relationship never ending drama

One thing I have observed on NL is the lack of understanding of the female psychology by most males.

Understand this: Females aka women marry up (economic and age wise) not down. You don't have to be so so rich, just be capable of providing. That's all. Moreover, no one likes someone who is not capable. undecided

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Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 4:16am On Aug 24, 2017
Dillusionist:

what do you know about marriage..you small rat

You mean rats that ate the furnitures in Buhari's office yeah ?
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Dillusionist(m): 4:20am On Aug 24, 2017
truthsayer009:

You mean rats that ate the furnitures in Buhari's office yeah ?
this one never reach to go Aso rock. ..na gutter rat
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Youngpo413: 4:42am On Aug 24, 2017
fuckerstard:
With all the hush puppy gang boys out there, nothing spoil.

That's why they introduced baby mama association of Nigeria.
that's exactly what fits them perfectly and they deserves it.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by BabaRamota1980: 4:43am On Aug 24, 2017
Dillusionist:
the same way it is hard to find a husby material these days..

Where have you been looking?
I didnt know you were looking for husband
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Nobody: 4:45am On Aug 24, 2017
Dillusionist:

this one never reach to go Aso rock. ..na gutter rat
Of course it should be the local ones in your family house in owerri.
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Youngpo413: 4:47am On Aug 24, 2017
Who wife epp?
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Stevengerd(m): 6:12am On Aug 24, 2017
truthsayer009:

Of course it should be the local ones in your family house in owerri.
Eazzzzzy! when i saw her dp, i wasnt disappointed. awon omo shinana!!
Re: Why It's Hard To Find A Wife This Days by Dillusionist(m): 6:41am On Aug 24, 2017
truthsayer009:

Of course it should be the local ones in your family house in owerri.
wow don't think like every other family is like yours that keep varieties of rats like the op

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