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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by jaszplus12(m): 10:14am On Aug 29, 2017 |
millionboi:ok but don't you think that as a man that will hinder your chances of dating a lady? would you as a lady feel kinky visiting a guy who's chatting you up in HIS PARENTS HOME? even if he's earning? I'd like a answer... |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by dayus12(f): 10:35am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: Yeah....Having steady or lil source of income is very important, even if you are staying with them....Some parents are very understanding and supportive... 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 10:59am On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:I love your comment. Very realistic and exactly what I was thinking. I wonder where these parents want the youths to go to after NYSC. After all, they are part of the reason why some youths are at home with this there "go to school and get a job mentality". They should be able to more than anyone else understand the situation of the labor market now and not unnecessarily pressurize their wards. The youths on the other hand should also make moves and don't just sit at home. Find something to do, anything: teaching, volunteer work and internships and gain your respect. In fact, just find anything that'll make you leave your parents house in the morning. On that note, I'll say part of these mentality comes from that African mind set where we take care of our kids so that they'll take care of us in the future. That mentality. Their savings, pension and other investments should be used to cater for them in their old age. As for me, I'll take care of my kids until I know they are strong enough to be independent. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 11:02am On Aug 29, 2017 |
jaszplus12:So your own motivation for leaving your parents house na woman. Na wa oh! 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 11:02am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Ugosample:I'm telling you, Her comment made a whole lota sense. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by idris4eva(m): 11:06am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Pop was 4month back and up till now ntn but the fear of waking up in a Monday morning and not having anywhere to go always saddened my heart One mrn I checked myself, I love betting and am like why not start making money out of these instead of betting up and down I search for information on how to become an agent of a big betting company and soon I will be one there agent and yes am staying in my mum house no big deal in as much as you are making move they will support you. thanks Don't leave your parents house if you don't have any meaningful place to go, you are their responsibility till you started fending for yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 11:07am On Aug 29, 2017 |
sircrabo:Sensible comment from you a nigga! 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by jaszplus12(m): 11:14am On Aug 29, 2017 |
efilimu:see how you jus spoil my gist! so, woman be my motivation? sorry! obviously you missed the point, no need trying to reason it out! cheers man. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by efilimu(m): 11:16am On Aug 29, 2017 |
jaszplus12:No vex! |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by NarnieSnyper(m): 11:21am On Aug 29, 2017 |
neheholmes: Where did you find shelter then? because i don't think you can afford rent with such salary na. I hope you dont mind my asking because, right now now, i am about to graduate and i haven't been home in a long time because i have been thinking of places to "explore" outside my comfort zone as well. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by jaszplus12(m): 11:24am On Aug 29, 2017 |
efilimu:cool bro...I no vex personally I jus love guys that are determined to be independent early...that's my motivation... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by ninodaniel(m): 11:26am On Aug 29, 2017 |
go out there and play bet9ja or baba ijebu aka lotto!!! thank me later |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by ninodaniel(m): 11:29am On Aug 29, 2017 |
Noblepreneur:a Savage u are |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 11:32am On Aug 29, 2017 |
May God bless you for a realistic and truthful comment. edwife: |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by castro316: 11:58am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: Guy. Even if you were to run away from home, will you stay under the bridge? Stop being incredible. Obviously you will stay somewhere where you will be at least ok and start from there. Eg squating in your friends place, a relative house, a friends name it. You will be amazed how your brain works. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by kikies(m): 11:58am On Aug 29, 2017 |
hoover420: my guy u just read my mind, one should not return to his/her fathers house, biko where should the person go what works for you myt not just work for others.........the OP has said the right thing, you can be home n still be very useful to them, best thing be proactive even in doing house chores, dont let your parents tell u what to do before u do them, identify a task n just do it.........ur being at home wont be in vain afterall.........when you get a job, let them miss you doing all the chores. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 12:23pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:If it were possible, I would have given you a thousand likes. I don't believe any sane parent would drive his ward out of the house over job issues. Such things only happen to those youths who graduate in their late 20s or 30s. Two months before I finished my service year, they were already begging me to come back and register for MSc. Currently, I'm into freelancing (fiverr) and digital self-publishing (kindle and createspace). Youths should try and be useful to themselves. There are opportunities everywhere. And also, when your parents are begging you to go to school, go while you're still young. Have you ever seen a parent mounting pressure on his 21 or 22 year old graduate child to go find a job? Youths please make hay while the sun shines. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by larrypourl(m): 12:37pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife: God bless you. They'll leave home and later be introduced into illegal deals. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by johncallidon(m): 3:04pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
kikies:I Love Yhur points.... I feel satisfied right now. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by johncallidon(m): 3:12pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:thank Yhu sOO much...
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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by IamProdigy: 3:37pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
Well this is a very crucial matter and very crucial for male folks....less for females Now the fact is this...the transition ain't easy at all....but that does mean you should stay put forever....many factors come into play.. Age, maturity, type of parents, how responsible you are....etc For me, I think there is now cause for running away from home immediately after service, especially when ure very uncertain and lack funds.. If they ain't troubling u, pls stay! The bane of contention is why u stay, what are you doing.... Make sure ure involved in something giving you cash....this period is a time for saving and contributing a bit to the house, e.g buying fuel, buying some groceries.... With this time you can gain ample amount to launch out, it also buys you time to plan and unplan....don't just wallow in laziness BE PROACTIVE.... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by IamProdigy: 3:40pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by amrichy(m): 4:04pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
an important factor u guys seem to not put into consideration as regads leavin or not leavin home after d yut service is d ISSUE OF AGE. While we shouldn't expect graduates in d age range of 20-23 to be in a hurry to leav d hous, it's quite understandable if som1 (male or female, graduate or no graduate, working or not) who is OLDER THAN 26 is uncomfortable living with his/her parents/guardian. so when u put age factor into the equation, it wil be easier to judge whether or not it's reasonabu 4 u to leave ur parents house to start livin elsewhere (regardles of ur academic or employment status) 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by bennytrips27(m): 4:59pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
edwife:I love you.youre so realistic. |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by Nobody: 6:06pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
IamProdigy:PM me bro |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by FunnyDude(m): 6:17pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
Just start from somewhere, but starting somewhere doesn’t mean u should not have great plans for yourself. Seek spiritual help about your life. Even in philosophy, there is what we called "Metaphysics". My advice to youths especially the male folks is this, make sure u try to be self-reliant and independent without your parents. Have a plan of exits from your parents house immediately after you complete your service year so as to have the burning desire in you to succeed. You won't love competing with your siblings in pot, you will love having your ownprivacy. Trust me, you won't be in your comfort zone where you have access to free food, electricity, not paying any bills and be able to strive hard to someone that has bills to pay. THINK, THINK & THINK to avoid embarrassment from your little siblings. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by neheholmes(m): 10:36pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
NarnieSnyper:I stayed with a friend,and we both go out to hustle,and guys if your been @ home isn't idle then its nt a big deal! |
Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by IamProdigy: 4:10pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
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Re: 5 Ways To Deal With Parental Pressure After NYSC by emendoi(m): 4:31pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
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