My girl have been giving me a cold attitude of late.it takes her time to reply my chats,she doesn't reply me like she use to instead she replies with monosyllables (OK,no,yes,aiit) this is someone I'm taking very good care of financially and all,i call her more than 5 times a say just to keep in touch,yet she's acting this way.
I'm actually very good looking and tall too in case if you re thinking I'm short and ugly.

Am I boring her? or do you think I'm over doing things

Why will you even be calling a girl five times a day? Isn't that too much? Calling a girl five times a day shows a level of desperation on your part and also low self esteem. Has it ever occured to you that you might actually be choking your girl with the excessive and frequent calls? Catch and release my friend. Learn to let go a little. Let her miss you a little cos that's the only way she can appreciate you. My one cent.

themayor4542:
Why will you even be calling a girl five times a day? Isn't that too much? Calling a girl five times a day shows a level of desperation on your part and also low self esteem. Has it ever occured to you that you might actually be choking your girl with the excessive and frequent calls? Catch and release my friend. Learn to let go a little. Let her miss you a little cos that's the only way she can appreciate you. My one cent.

thanks bro

Yeah space is very good. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Yes, you truly have to allow some spacing atleast to feel your absence which may leads to a very much feelings from her.

Bros, why should you call your babe 5 times in a day? Are you jobless?

Busy and productive men do such moderately.

Moreover, you're not boring, but I think you've overdone something's that the girl in question is feeling too important.

Its called FAMILIARITY, and complacency.

Bone her for a while and let her worry about you the way you worry about her.

I think your action is too predictable to her,be more spontaneous and less concerned with her nd watch her steps.If shes into you,she will holla you that you have "change", then you give her excuse,untill you are convince.If she didnt care with your indifference,then something maybe wrong...

gazal05:
Yes, you truly have to allow some spacing atleast to feel your absence which may leads to a very much feelings from her.

I'll thanks

PatriotTemidayo:
Bros, why should you call your babe 5 times in a day? Are you jobless?

Busy and productive men do such moderately.

Moreover, you're not boring, but I think you've overdone something's that the girl in question is feeling too important.

Its called FAMILIARITY, and complacency.

Bone her for a while and let her worry about you the way you worry about her.

I'm not jobless ....I'm actually not the calling type,initially I only call her twice (morning and night) until she started complaining I don't use to call or chat her d way other guys call their gfs that's y I changed tactics yet she's not satisfied.

walepackage:
I think your action is too predictable to her,be more spontaneous and less concerned with her nd watch her steps.If shes into you,she will holla you that you have "change", then you give her excuse,untill you are convince.If she didnt care with your indifference,then something maybe wrong...

I'll try and do that

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

When you get replies like

Ok
K
Naso
Lol

Passy089:



I'm not jobless ....I'm actually not the calling type,initially I only call her twice (morning and night) until she started complaining I don't use to call or chat her d way other guys call their gfs that's y I changed tactics yet she's not satisfied.

Never give a woman what she asked for, give her what is good for her and the relationship.

PatriotTemidayo:

Never give a woman what she asked for, give her what is good for her and the relationship.

Women are just complicated beings

Passy089:



Women are just complicated beings

That's why the control button should be with you, and not them.
Woman reactive, a little deceit from elsewhere, she'll be moved.

Never rely on a woman who is not independent minded. Every fool can sweep her off her feet with lies and "goodies".

I love my principled and independent Ladies.

I think your relationship deserves space. Every relationship does.

Five times in a day? Calling her once everyday is even too much. Girls respect and yearn for guys who keep their space. Eventually, there might be complaints but she will stick with you if she's really into you.

Too much attention kills the vibe.

I only call my girl once a day. Any other calling is she calling me. I can send a romantic text at night though but that's it

PatriotTemidayo:

Never give a woman what she asked for, give her what is good for her and the relationship.

I just shouted "Woow" on seeing this... You don turn badoo for female matter.

Hope the same is applicable to guys ?

op I think they say it all. E.g if na you a girl dey call like that you no go take her for granted.?

SlimHan:
I just shouted "Woow" on seeing this... You don turn badoo for female matter.

Hope the same is applicable to guys ?

Come closer,

Come find out in person.