This lady is not yet married to this guy but she her started living in the guy's parent house. she now lives and acts as a wife to the guy even when nothing has been done as relating to marriage rites.
Please, ladies in the house can you do this? I need your sincere contributions and advice.
Thanks

Never! dats so cheap. i guess the tot on the guy's mind is "why buy the cow if the milk is free".

Never been a supporter of cohabitation

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lol parents' house?

isobel:

Never! dats so cheap. i guess the tot on the guy's mind is "why buy the cow if the milk is free".

why buy the pig for just a little sausage?

We never hear this one before, we are just using it to scare the sayer

I could not tolerate my adult sons/daughters bringing a 'partner' to live in my house, call me old fashioned.
If they did want to have a prospective partner live with us for some reason, which would have to be good reason, ,I would want to know their parents and agree the arrangement, though they would have to be in separate rooms.

hope she is paying rent

Such a lady is only fooling herself.

Trial Marriage- that is what it is called. MuMu girl.

That's share stupidity on the ladies part, she's so cheap, if my sister tries that well thank God they are married, I would have killed her .

Not when there are still many rooms in my daddy's house.

@nana Hello! How're u doing? @topic many ladies do this,but i think is not right!

A lot of ladies do it nowadays. It's so lame to me. Why move your ar$e to the home of a man you are not yet married to and to make matters worse, his parents' house? Where will the bliss of marriage be after the wedding since it has been all outlived during the courtship. I mean, weekends are okay but permanently moving to the guys house is so retarded. Ladies who do it to me are insecure. Period!

na2day?:

hope she is paying rent

Meanwhile he is planning his wedding to the other girl on the side. Poor girl, may God be with her.

iice:

Yes!

ur keyboard is acting up again

Sadly its done all the time. I never will. I think its useless, why would I be trapped with a man living in his house, worse his parents house, him tieing me down calling me wifey and not put a ring on it. Heck no!

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Poster. . .
Tell me the Century we are in
and I'll give you my response.

Akinagirl:

Sadly its done all the time. I never will. I think its useless, why would I be trapped with a man living in his house, worse his parents house, him tieing me down calling me wifey and not put a ring on it. Heck no!

u can always buy ur own ring

mama-gee:

Poster. . .
Tell me the Century we are in
and I'll give you my response.

12th century, now what is ur response?

is dat desperation or wot abi is she trying 2 impress her imaginary inlaws or her imaginary husband.d day d guy sees a finer gal or he impregnates anoda gal nobody will teach her b4 she leaves d house.orisirisi wonders shall never end. no bride price,no introduction,notin i want 2 ask mr poster a question WHEN D GUY IN QUESTION IS Hot DOES HE HAVE SEX WITH HER FREQUENTLY?if d answer is yes.i pity d gal 10yrs from now.God helps her if she's pregnant dis one is know more cheap she's now selling 20 naira vagina .wen her expiry date comes she will feel like crying water wont come out of her eyes.dis r d kind of galz dat make dose stupid men generalise dat all naija babes are cheap.as 4 d guys parents dat r harboring her na wa 4 dem o.even if d guys father cannot talk cant d mother talk.even if she doesnt have any dota cant she use her motherly instinct 2 tell her dat her son is just using d gal 2 catch trips n doesnt have any plan 4 her (d guys parents have a voluntary house gal,free of charge)!!!! chai!!! d mother will just be relaxing while d gal is doing all d house chores wot a pity.d person dat cursed dat gal is wicked o

that's called realy Love without interest that's not for sale

for wetin?

iice:

No it's not

stop being modest, ur keyboard was acting up 4 real

[size=13pt]lol
am sure the babe will be doing some serious washing o
cater to the boy's family all round,cook,sweep
be kneeling up and down the compound to greet everybody, even the gateman
na wa o your friend go pick beans tire
shior   [/size]

iice:

My keyboard is fine jare.

ah! then ur medication has expired

It's not such a good idea but that's not to conclude it doesn't happen. Many factors can play out in this scheme. Some girls who are doing this are blinded, for instance, by thinking they've gone far too deep into the relationship to experience any breakup--this is a wrong assumption but it's always what some girls do.

Another feature is that instances have been witnessed where girls did this successfully and they got married eventually. Some parents can't help thinking that this is a modest way for a girl to prove her worth to the man to determine, and in furtherance, prove that she's going to be a worthy wife. With the kind of mentality some girls possess, this happens predominantly in a lot of places, Nigeria especially.

Truth is, co-habitation isn't a good idea, never have been. Some relationships crash at this point because only then the prospective mother-in-law starts to see faults and shortcomings of the girl in question; negative comments are made and a lot of misunderstanding ensue which truncates the relationship eventually.