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Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: You can't attain the level of understanding without the factors i mentioned...it's not possicant...i didn't say for you to have wisdom...i meant the level of understanding of issues you have with due respect... |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Nobody: 7:04pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Lool @ cold glass of double 3 and fried snail laced with diced pepper and onions, did i not say it? |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 7:06pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: I am focused on the issue. I only chose this question in order to bring home clearly to you the incorrectness and implications of your argument. |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:06pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
supersystemsng:say what? |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:07pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
supersystemsng:ok |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: nuffin...Lol..i'm surprised you no the feeling from drinking cold beer... |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:08pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
IamaNigerianGuy:L.I.E.S |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:09pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
supersystemsng:what feeling? |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Nobody: 7:10pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: That feeling only those who take it recognize that feels like pure ecstasy... |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 7:12pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: ? You are not the first to make this fallacious argument that education is unimportant and I only hear it from Nigerians. I am ready to debunk it. What exactly are the 'lies' you refer to ? |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:24pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
IamaNigerianGuy:that education is the key to success Kwam1 was already successful before he went back to school Davido,9ice,dbanj dropped out of school to pursue their music career and they succeeded.so you telling me education is the key to success or the foundation of not being poor =lies Need I say More |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:26pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
supersystemsng:The way it went down my throat Its more heavenly than being high It took my soul to cloud 9. The feeling is second to good sex on an early Sunday morning at 4am |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Nobody: 7:27pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Na wa.. 1 Like |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:28pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
supersystemsng: |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 7:35pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: You may be successful without education but you can also get rich by playing Baba-Ijebu. I don't think the later is a commendable strategy. Let's make another comparison: there are at least 30,000 bank managers in all the banks in Nigeria. They are all fairly successful and mostly stable. They all have education in common. There are not up to 400 successful musicians in Nigeria. Would you advice one young person to base all his hopes on a musical career ? Much less a whole generation ? Are we really discussing this? Figuring this out on your own should be trivial |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by dangotesmummy: 7:41pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
IamaNigerianGuy:let me pick you by your own words.you said you may be successful without education and another time you said education is the key to sucess Are you seeing your loopholes And yes we're discussing it And by the way sunny Ade is another successful musician who's not a graduate |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by ezewealth(m): 7:42pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
[quote author=DarkRebel69 post=60005926] Men who castigate single women who do not draw the reins on their sexuality and yet get into marriage with a virgin while expecting her to be as sexually dexterous as a Cherokee d'ass would be, are like HRs who want to employ a 22-year old with 35 years of working experience. Outrightly ridiculous. Virginity? Pfft! It's only shallow and simple-minded individuals who would use something as triffling as the state of a woman's hymen as an index of her personality. Why do you think such metric only has firm rooting in African soil? Africans are leagues behind the rest of the world, so it shouldn't come as surprise that while countries in enlightened continents are making scientific in-roads and inventing cutting-edge technology, Nigerians are in a little corner of the world, squeaking like a family of rats and debating effusively over the tensile strength of a woman's hymen. Talk about grand misplacement of priorities. Take for instance these two women: I.) Woman A was born with a very low libido and maintaining her virginity until marriage would require little effort from her II.) Woman B's libido on the other hand is on over-drive and it would require more effort and self-discipline on her part if she intends to keep her hymen in pristine form. If Woman B, in two or three instances of blind lust, has sex with two different men, would we then say that makes woman A the better of the two? I can't predict the future, but I can predict what my future self would want, and that is: a woman who can stimulate me mentally in many-sided ways, a woman who is of quiet and studious habits, who is beautiful and generous in those areas of the female anatomy that my lustful eyes have always found most appealing; a woman who can offer me adequate emotional buffer in those trying times when my wits and nerves fail me; a woman who is caring, loving, and who is a repository of worldly knowledge, and on whose wisdom I can rely on to serve as salutary and edifying influence on my kids. Virginity does not make a woman have all those qualities I've listed out, and since I'm not one to rank exterior trivialities over inner qualities, I unapologetically say: "To hell with virginity". [/quo U don scatter my head with English guy |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by armyofone(m): 7:56pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
After my mom got done with her preaching of why i should stay away from boys, I found comfort in Mill and Boons and other books...dreaming of my prince charming. But staying away from awon Boyz got its advantages. 1 Like |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by Onegai(f): 9:29pm On Sep 01, 2017 |
armyofone: Those books are funny, loved the titles: "The Greek Billionaire's Secret Baby". I kept looking for sexy Nigerian Prince Charmings. Do you know how HARD that was?! I truly don't get how girls fantasize about bedmatics with them. It was verrryyy easy to stay away from guys till I was older. |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by EfemenaXY: 12:36am On Sep 02, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Lol! I'm too lazy to type epistles. Most times I just 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by bukatyne(f): 6:03pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: You wicked o! I agree with you esp. the transactional part sha. |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by bukatyne(f): 6:06pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
Mindfulness: Lol @ restrict and oppress boys too Sex is beyond physical and the fewer the partners the better. Sex at 30s first time ain't bad you know... |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by bukatyne(f): 6:09pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
cococandy: As per Christianity, till marriage. Will they actually wait? I can only pray. |
Re: The Girl Child And Sex! Mistakes African Mothers Make. by cococandy(f): 1:42am On Sep 04, 2017 |
supersystemsng:Explain 'the wisdom of a man' 3 Likes |
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