1. Constant visit to the guy house or living couple's life out of wedlock.
This one of the shameful act by some ladies. Moving in with a man you never get married too, all in the name of love or paying him visit regularly will not make him miss, appreciate or cherish you. Always limit it.

2. Sex in every meeting (constant/rampant sex).
Frequent sex making is not too good has must guys will surely get tired of you on time.
Have seen guys saying once they had sex with some ladies they get tired of them. Even if you can't abstain, make it once a while. Sex is not a food.

3. To much of household chores every time (e.g washing, cooking, ironing and etc).
Never turn yourself to housemaid in the name of love. I never say helping your man is bad but let it has a limit. So that your value won't depreciate.

4. Money issue (to much of money demands)
Don't be a burden to him. He's not your father, till you both married that he has a full responsibility of you. Demanding/requesting from him is not bad but make it slightly

5. Rally round him must time when his friends are with him.
Men likes privacy must time and at times will like been around friends, families or colleagues to discuss some issues related to life. Always give him chance once his with them. Not you folding round him like a little baby that follows his/her mum up an down

6. Buying of gifts must time and you not receiving.
Buying of gifts is a sign of love and appreciation. But both parties deserves this.
Don't let it be you only giving without receiving.


7. Be the one doing the calling must time.
The guys should be the one doing this except if the condition warrant. If you always being the one calling and him did not, it means you're missing the way.

8. Too much clubbing by you both.
Am not saying clubbing is not good but never make it an hobby.
You both should always try attends others important things together like seminars, talk shows or religion programmes that can build your relationship.

9. Hiding courtship ( not introducing you to his parents or siblings)
Make sure you know the family of whom you're dating in order to know where you belong. It helps you to know the guy relationship with his family and even the family's attitude towards you.

10. Lack of trust
Without trust the relationship will collapse.







Source: Nedfed opinion