Hello Everyone

Want to hear everyone's view bout this issue.... Going straight to the point

There's this friend of mine more like house mates that always visit her boyfriend, they don't stay in one place... More like a distance relationship. The girl is still schooling while her boyfriend is working.

While we all know schools are on strike now,the girl decided to visit her boyfriend for the main time before going back to her parent's place. The third day of her visit to her boyfriend's place.... Robbers came to rob in their compound At night tho. They gain access to the guy's apartment with the help of God-know-who. In short, the robbers raped the girl and didn't take any dime from the guy. More like they came to empty their sperm sack. The girl was bruised and hurt, her boyfriend took her to the hospital to take care of her. She was still in agony tho

The fifth day,her boyfriend woke her up when she was sleeping to tell her that he's no more interested in the relationship not when all those useless guys have slept with her in front of him ... He told her, he would like her to leave the following morning and they shouldn't meet again... Heartbroken, the girl left the following morning and came back to school.. She narrated her ordeal to us and wouldn't stop crying. She's Physically and emotionally hurt


My question is this... Is it the girl's fault she visited her boyfriend or is it her fault robbers came to visit. Some people are meant to live in the jungle...

What will you advise the girl to do?


Your opinions romancelanders

Though it might sound heartless. The guy has made a very painful but logical decision.

They are not meant to be together forever. If not the rape incident, something else would have caused the separation. Gaskia! But people take risk oo! A girl, on her way to her parents' house, stops over for lust misquoted as love. If she dies in the boy's house, it will be a shame to her family and a big trouble for the boy.

U are lying, bu continue

need to hear d guys side of the story. maybe she dey moan so hard when the robbers where doing their thing with her.

The guy may have his reasons, but he didn't handle the case well. He doesn't love the girl that much obviously.

It's quite painful..... and its a pity the ladies are always on the loosing side when things like this happen.


The gal is pretty innocent..... but as a man I always know what it means to ve somebody Bleep your gal friend, especially in ur very presence.....this us a serious emotional challenge.

Now the final decision varies from person to person. Like me for instance, I can send my gal friend packing on cheating issues but not this very one....she didn't cheat obviously. she was raped.


we guys shd be more tolerant in issues like this. Its a pity God has made woman the way she is.... vulnerable!

D guy f**k up sha. My type ll use style to drop by reducing communication and not being romantic that's if i wan leave her b dat o

CircleOfWilis:
U are lying, bu continue

Really.. Thanks

sunkanmihassan1:
Though it might sound heartless. The guy has made a very painful but logical decision.

How's it logical dear?

immortalcrown:
They are not meant to be together forever. If not the rape incident, something else would have caused the separation. Gaskia! But people take risk oo! A girl, on her way to her parents' house, stops over for lust misquoted as love. If she dies in the boy's house, it will be a shame to her family and a big trouble for the boy.

Lol,sure... it's risky but does that mean he should break up with her just like that??

is ur aim to make us unnecessarily emotional ehn

alatbaba1:
need to hear d guys side of the story. maybe she dey moan so hard when the robbers where doing their thing with her.

Lol... That isn't pleasure but pain so how could she moan

Each to their own....

makydebbie:
The guy may have his reasons, but he didn't handle the case well. He doesn't love the girl that much obviously.

Exactly my point... He doesn't love her

Kennyprince:
It's quite painful..... and its a pity the ladies are always on the loosing side when things like this happen.


The gal is pretty innocent..... but as a man I always know what it means to ve somebody Bleep your gal friend, especially in ur very presence.....this us a serious emotional challenge.

Now the final decision varies from person to person. Like me for instance, I can send my gal friend packing on cheating issues but not this very one....she didn't cheat obviously. she was raped.


we guys shd be more tolerant in issues like this. Its a pity God has made woman the way she is.... vulnerable!

You really see it from my own point of view


Thanks

ImmaculateQueen:



Exactly my point... He doesn't love her

She should move on, it's well.

That guy collaborated with those robbers for her to be raped.

this is very unfair....am sure the guy never loved her

smardray:
is ur aim to make us unnecessarily emotional ehn

Lol... That's not my aim dear

makydebbie:
She should move on, it's well.

Thanks sis

ImmaculateQueen:


Thanks sis

Uwc dear.

ImDharay:

Your story though, in case it's genuine then
am'a say the guy is kinda dumb & heartless.

I've got things to do than fabricate a story.. It's okay if you don't believe tho just tryna hear everyone's opinion

we all are blaming the guy, do we know if the girl has any beef with anybody dat decided to punish her. she might have been rude to a cultist who decided to have his pound of flesh or be set up by a jealous friend.
The guy shouldn't have broken up wit her like dat, he should at least given her time to recover. All i see is lust dan love in dat relationship
Another tin to note, why wasn't d guy robbed, y was d girl d only victim, hw did dey just get quick entrance to his apartment. Ask ur friend if she can remember the expression on his face wen dey came him, wen she was being rape after bring raped.

Rorachy:
That guy collaborated with those robbers for her to be raped.

Lol... That could be possible too who knows

mofeoluwadassah:
this is very unfair....am sure the guy never loved her

Of course...

ImmaculateQueen:



Lol... That could be possible too who knows

Always think outside the box. Why wasn't he robbed?

Rorachy:
Always think outside the box. Why wasn't he robbed?

Was actually thinking bout that too


Well, Karma is an old friend

My advice is still pending till when you tell me, you're the one that got raped.

ImmaculateQueen:


Was actually thinking bout that too


Well, Karma is an old friend

A girl did same to her boyfriend, they robbed him and later he found out she sent them.

This is why I don't trust no one.

CircleOfWilis:
U are lying, bu continue

you be mumu ...but wetin concern me.?