i feel a man shud be the one to provide condoms before sex and any decent lady wud wait for a guy to bring it out so if a lady has a condom in her bag, i think a man should raise eyebrows or what do you think?

woye77:

i feel a man shud be the one to provide condoms before intimacy and any decent lady wud wait for a guy to bring it out so if a lady has a condom in her bag, i think a man should raise eyebrows or what do you think?

Of course he should.

Yes it is

I don't think there is anything bad in it, if it's the guy it's right, if it's the guy it's wrong, I won't see her as a slut if she brings out condom from her bag, I'll just say she's been careful .

I don't see the big deal really, as long as the condom is for me.  

@ Poster

You be yesterday man, ladies carryin condoms means she is not ready to risk her life catchin any deadly disease. Yes smart girls should ALWAYS CARRY A CONDOM. Some men like to pretend say, dey forget to carry one because they want to share their STD! Na only bush man go shock to see woman dey carry condom. All these men with their ego sef don tire me! Abeg make una excuse me while I go on my tea break!

It doesnt really look nice.
But it does not mean that the girl is a slut.
She is just been too careful and protective.
Its even adviceable while traveling.

If she is my love, she has no right to bring such thing out on less she package it as a gift is acceptable.
But for a mutual friend may be we are in the room one thing let to another and she brought out
condom before asking if i have one i will take her as a big slut.

obiksam:

If she is my love, she has no right to bring such thing out on less she package it as a gift is acceptable.
But for a mutual friend may be we are in the room one thing let to another and she brought out
condom before asking if i have one i will take her as a big slut.

  You would call your gf a slut for buying a condom for you to use on her?

sista-jay:

@ Poster

You be yesterday man, ladies carryin condoms means she is not ready to risk her life catchin any deadly disease. Yes smart girls should ALWAYS CARRY A CONDOM. Some men like to pretend say, dey forget to carry one because they want to share their STD! Na only bush man go shock to see woman dey carry condom. All these men with their ego sef don tire me! Abeg make una excuse me while I go on my tea break! 

Where is self denial if she must carry condom ready to bang the next guy?

kini big deal?

@ Al

Can this be a topic for ROMANCE ??

I am confused

If a man can carry it around in his wallet, whatz wrong with d ladies carry it in their bag? Anywayz itz just safety measures.

Come here all of you,who said there i nothing wrong in that,as a matter of fact everything is wrong in that oooo,why would she carry a condo,that simply means she is either a slut or expecting and unexpected sex with any man that plays around.haba neighbour,it is morally wrong for a woman to go round about with condoms.
If she is taking a precautionary measure why not tell the guy to get one before they gt home or refuse the guy sex with condom,i have ran into girls that practically refused me ex because i had no condon,the only consolation is to give me a Mouth Action and i respect such girls,not withstanding the emotional pressure.

@Poster, you always have hypothetical question

you should be happy she carries condom.

atleast you know she wont bring 'HIV' come meet you for house.

Some people just need to leave the 6th century alone

Hmmmmmm

What about the men who carry condoms in their pockets?

mama-gee:

What about the men who carry condoms in their pockets?

Coz the men should be the one to provide the condom, not the women.

Its not dat is bad 4 a lady 2 carry condoms at least to protect herself frm STDs but d fact remains dat any lady dat does dat means she bleeps more one guy and ready 2 Bleep any dick at d slightest opportunity!

a woman should always be prepared to protect herself from std's. i am finding it odd that people feel her having a condom makes her a slut and not the fact she is sleeping with someone she isnt dating and possibly just met (basicaly the deffinition of slut)

And why would you be poking about in your girlfriend's bag in the first instance?