Eaglebabe:

Ring to me is just like anything.So ring or no ring he can still do what he wants to do.Ladies be wise.

Shanice111:

Okay many thanks people you have all been so so kind. Yesterday I gave him an ultimatum either me or the girl. He deleted her pictures immediately. While I was rejoicing that I finally had my man back guess who called his ex? This time he told her that he was with his wife and that he would appreciate if she stopped calling as it was straining our relationship. This morning I woke up to find an engagement ring under my pillow with my man unclothed on his knees lol he said I value you above all exes please marry me and join me in this journey called life. I cried was happpy but said I would think about it. I took the ring though but dint wear it but as soon as I get off work 2day am going to him to say yes. I have prayed and I do love him I was not even able to get a side gig cos am devoted to this man! Okay leemme finish work and go home!Thanks peoples best wishes in your relationships!

Shanice111:

Okay many thanks people you have all been so so kind. Yesterday I gave him an ultimatum either me or the girl. He deleted her pictures immediately. While I was rejoicing that I finally had my man back guess who called his ex? This time he told her that he was with his wife and that he would appreciate if she stopped calling as it was straining our relationship. This morning I woke up to find an engagement ring under my pillow with my man unclothed on his knees lol he said I value you above all exes please marry me and join me in this journey called life. I cried was happpy but said I would think about it. I took the ring though but dint wear it but as soon as I get off work 2day am going to him to say yes. I have prayed and I do love him I was not even able to get a side gig cos am devoted to this man! Okay leemme finish work and go home!Thanks peoples best wishes in your relationships!

Busy_body:

^^^Aaarrgh, jenny, why you come pour sand for garri na I was just starting to be overcome with this warm fuzzy feeling and was about taking leave of my senses, with my head starting to float in the clouds and beginning to believe in true love THEN YOU COME AND SPOIL IT WITH YOUR KILLJOY POST ABOVE, AARRGH, YOU ARE A SPOILSPORT, LOL.

Shanice111:

People I have done what my mum asked me not to do. I went to seek out this woman. If I am going to wear his ring I need to know for sure, if I knew I wont have posted on nairaland or asked all my girl friends for advice. I saw the lady at an eatery today I arranged this with my man's friend ( who she is still in contact with). I told my man to come pick me from work that my car was faulty. On our way home, I told him we should stop off to get food, well we ended up in the same eatery his friend and his ex was in. She died a million times when she saw us the look on her face was priceless! My man was confused, I went to his friend and said hello and asked to be introduced 2 his friend ( d ex). His friend played along, we all sat together. I enjoyed the way they wanted 2 jump out of their skins. Anyways I spared him the misery as I made excuses that we had 2 leave, poor soul he looked lost. I told him everything in the car, he kept saying he deserves it he has been cruel to me by keeping her for so long and he wants me in his life. After 4years relationship I finally know they broke up because she cheated and he had difficulties letting go as he really loved her. He said I changed all that bla bla bla anyways somehow now more than ever I feel free. Ah I feel free, make I talk am again I feel free, ah. My man shaking, begging me not to leave him am the one he wants after all the stress, nights of checking his messages haba abeg I feel free. We fixed introduction for end of the month but am not sleeping in his house for a while!!! I don wear my ring o jare I dey marry this man he's my soul mate, I dont know what 2mrw brings but like my mum says I will finally bury all insecurities and pray 4 d best! Na wah who said trusting some1 was easy?

alakee:

My dear im currently in a similar situation its just that he hates his ex. with passion.
however,he feels insecure that i mght turn out to be like his ex'es.what am confused of now is,if he loves me as much as he claims and he's immediate ex. wrong deeds has nothing to do with his behavours sometimes,how come he avoids talking about marriage and to make matters worse i dont know a single soul in his family & we've been together for almost two years .i have thought of secretly seeing sm1 else,but its against everything i stand for as a woman & above all am a christian.i dont encourage u to cheat or start seeing sm1 else even if u wont be intimate with him.dont do it.
someone pls advise,should i leave him?

OBLONG:


Why can't people be mature and leave matters with their ex'es in a friendly matter. EX doesn't have to equal enemy.

I would be wary of a guy who has BEEF with ALL of his ex's means that nigga is crazy psycho.

fifi09:

Like I said before… We all know the saying "Actions Speak Louder Then Words" and in a mans world this is so true.

Ladies, you don't want a man to "settle" for you; your partner should see you as his first choice or something is wrong.

na2day?:

no mind her, spoil sport but i honestly had the same feeling

@ OP

i wish u the best

good luck

Busy_body:

^^^Aaarrgh, jenny, why you come pour sand for garri na I was just starting to be overcome with this warm fuzzy feeling and was about taking leave of my senses, with my head starting to float in the clouds and beginning to believe in true love THEN YOU COME AND SPOIL IT WITH YOUR KILLJOY POST ABOVE, AARRGH, YOU ARE A SPOILSPORT, LOL.