makydebbie:
What's my business?

I'll need you to give me a special treat na. Cmon be nice for once

TGoddess:
Stop feeling important,you're irrelevant as far as this thread is concerned.

OK TGoddess. Actually I am important. Tell your friend to prepare for my reception when I visit Ghana next week

FortifiedCity:
I'll need you to give me a special treat na. Cmon be nice for once

I won't be around.

makydebbie:
Then on monday, I'll be leaving Tuesday.
When you're coming, bring half of the grown price for "marking the territory".

Alright then... you no ready to take wife

makydebbie:
I won't be around.

OK then enjoy your night. Dreamy about me too

IamRaizo:
You'll regret what advise u take here...trust me!

Meaning

Even if we give you the best advise here, you'll still do whatever you want to do..
The guy is just emotional blackmailing you, leave him..
Forget the cry, he'll cry and eventually stop....
It's not wickedness, but you want the best for him.

Horlohlah:
Alright then... you no ready to take wife

I ready oo. Babe dey hustle.

FortifiedCity:
OK then enjoy your night. Dreamy about me too

Goodnight too.

He will eventually get tired and move on


A well deserving lady will love him

You think his weakness is actually a weakness? Nah it ain't to a girl DAT wud av been seriously dealt with by guys ur 32 year old friend will b a chief corner stone to her

makydebbie:
I ready oo. Babe dey hustle.

Goodnight too.

Lol. You want to collect money from all of us,run to Ghana and we'll now be fighting over who will be with him. You try...winsh

There is always a two side to every story
You have already presented yourself as the victim here

But Aunty, You 're the one messing with the guys head and as a guy it hurts me right now

You saw a guy with low self esteem that was crushing on you

Because you lost your boyfriend you decided to use him to forget,
They guy get luck self that you had sex with him

Instead of you to let him go when you re over your past relationship you still kept him around poor dude continued developing feelings for you

Now you want to leave him but he is scared, with alot of things going through his mind like how will he get another babe again talk more of one that will love him like you did (which he believed you once did lol smh)

Alot I want to say right now


My advice
You better break up with him now, stating clearly why you 're breaking up with him,(don't be too blunt but say the truth) unless he will keep blaming himself which will do his self esteem no good

its going to help him man up in the future

I just the pity his next babe or should I say wife cause 32 year no be here

Divay22:

Meaning

Even if we give you the best advise here, you'll still do whatever you want to do..
The guy is just emotional blackmailing you, leave him..
Forget the cry, he'll cry and eventually stop....
It's not wickedness, but you want the best for him.

so that's you on your dp....

IamRaizo:
so that's you on your dp....

No.. It's my twin sister

makydebbie:
Okay then. I'm sorry.

Its OK..

Horlohlah:
Lol. You want to collect money from all of us,run to Ghana and we'll now be fighting over who will be with him. You try...winsh

The highest bidder takes the prize.

Divay22:

No.. It's my twin sister

iffa hear...that's you joor... Cute sha

IamRaizo:
iffa hear...that's you joor... Cute sha

Thanks

zaramgrand:

Right now I have graduated also, my friendship with this guy is a bit complicated, we are dating and at the same time not dating.

.He acts like a child Wen it comes to everyday issues, people also cheat him alot and use him but I took it upon myself to always stand for him and see that no one mistreats him.... I have told him countless number of times that I can't marry him but he will always kneel down and beg me which I end up staying with him again, not bcs of his weakness but bcs all this while I never developed any feelings for him.... also I've always wanted a man who will be in control, a man who will correct and scode me Wen I do something wrong not a man that I will be controlling and scoding.. recently about a year ago I met a guy, we've been friends and he's much interested in me. I have feelings for him maybe bcs he possess Wat I want from a man.... Just some months back my old friend lost his job and I took it upon myself to see that he's fine till he gets another job. I give him money every two days for upkeep, I do all these just so he doesn't end up doing anything illicit bcs he's easily dragged about by friends.... At the same time I'm begging him to move on and find another girl, but he's traumatized and I'm feeling bad about the whole issue... I .

So, we still have a lady in Nigeria with this ideology?


Food don come oooo

Cc
Lefulefu

makydebbie:
The highest bidder takes the prize.

We are too much for that,pls.

I don't even understand the story. Had to read the comments to get the gist

Horlohlah:
We are too much for that,pls.

Oya come with goodie goodie on monday.

zaramgrand:


Did I include in the post that he was taking care of me Wen he had a job?
I'm so independent for your information.
So next time read and understand before u comment.
I hope u saw were I said I've been telling him right from the on set that I can't marry him??
And for the sex, I was the one who initiated it bcs that very night I had to drink lots of alcohol and that got me

u are independent, now tell me wu wnts to marry a broke nigga? d truth needd 2 be told dat without money love won't grow. u would av grown feelings if hez such a lucky dude 2 be controlling millions by now. besides, u didn't see some oda guyz wen he was still taking care of u and stop decieving urself saying u went 2 him @ first becos u wantd 2 4get about ur ex, dat's a lie. no one z saying dat u should marry him, all i'm saying z dat u should make d decision urself and be wise with it, cos no one here will b held respnsible wen some oda tinz u aint expecting surface in d new relat.

please be very careful of some advice you take here, the people in this forum once ruined my relationship,am Just looking at them with their comments , in short am not even happy with them anymore.

sweetkech:
please be very careful of some advice you take here, the people in this forum once ruined my relationship,am Just looking at them with their comments , in short am not even happy with them anymore.

Loolz....talki cheat my Bro... most ppl here no sabi anything about relationship now. just ordinary love adviser

tosyne2much:
So, we still have a lady in Nigeria with this ideology?


Food don come oooo

Cc
Lefulefu

as in she be wife material?

lefulefu:

as in she be wife material?

The babe try make I no lie you and why I rush call you make you no dull the package

tosyne2much:
The babe try make I no lie you and why I rush call you make you no dull the package

ok apart from character is she attractive? I dey ask cos i check her dp i no see anything dere

lefulefu:
ok apart from character is she attractive? I dey ask cos i check her dp i no see anything dere

Everything na risk baba

tosyne2much:
Everything na risk baba

abeg i no dey take dat risk oo.watt of if na man dey behind d moniker dey pretend to be babe.no be nairaland again

lefulefu:
abeg i no dey take dat risk oo.watt of if na man dey behind d moniker dey pretend to be babe.no be nairaland again

Hahaha roflwkmd

Some guys even dey woo their fellow guys dem no know

tosyne2much:
Hahaha roflwkmd

Some guys even dey woo their fellow guys dem no know

na normal tin for nairaland na.those guys using fake female monikers they cash in on the konjivitis worrying those guys wooing dem.as dem woo dem ..dem go send money as well.all na hustle.