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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by 2lateBiafra: 11:11pm On Sep 22, 2017
Sabrina18:
He has a side chick.


Like u grin angry
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Olaniyimubarak: 11:12pm On Sep 22, 2017
Ginaz:
Cold catch me on your behalf o. Chaii only 3years of marriage and husband Don dey behave like this.

Anyway, may God restore your home.
stp u tink say na to dy born b d tyn all dis women self all there own na to born dem no dey eva reason of hw dem go take good care of d one may dem born na soso Bleep jst three years she don dy complain
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:13pm On Sep 22, 2017
kimbraa:
See...It's more than obvious the first account is yours based on how you immediately mentioned yourself, and with the response. cheesy

You do this often so I know you live in self-agrandisement. You could as well login more accounts. grin

Yes o i have. Half the accounts on NL are my own grin undecided. This girl you think everyone is like you with multiple accounts grin

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 11:16pm On Sep 22, 2017
thesuave10:


Yes o i have. Half the accounts on NL are my own grin undecided. This girl you think everyone is like you with multiple accounts grin
You're not smart, and will never be. Jezz!, will liking and sharing your post put sleep in your eyes?. Continue!.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by correctguy101(m): 11:16pm On Sep 22, 2017
Billyonaire:


Dear Loving Wife,

What produces babies is not the interval of the sex. If his sperm communes with the egg even if the ejaculation happened in 3 seconds, then pregnancy is supposed to occur if you monitor your ovulation and gestation period and program them into your sessions.

Be guided by Biology not emotion.

Thank you.

The forces be in your favour brother.
She should just cry for satisfactory sex and stop bringing child bearing into this.

But Jesus, 30secs The nigga surely will have a helper.
Me na 5secs o. No time, it's not a bed where I'll sleep till Dawn .
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by sukkot: 11:17pm On Sep 22, 2017
you sef go and lose weight and stop eating 6 ogunfe with 5 wraps of eba for breakfast lunch and dinner. try eating only carrots and celery for dinner
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bangalee1(m): 11:18pm On Sep 22, 2017
Rrrrrr

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 11:19pm On Sep 22, 2017
Aunty send me a DM let's solve that issue
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:19pm On Sep 22, 2017
bangalee1:
Rrrrrr

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by iluvpomo(m): 11:21pm On Sep 22, 2017
Alariwo2:


Na igbo guys dey end up with sh.its like that for wife.. they are soft targets for those hoes grin

Yoruba demons dey sharp naturally, so e hard to deceive us.
Yikes and just like that, you unnecessarily and ridiculously bring up tribalism in this conversation.... If you want to continue with this discussion then please relocate your brain away from your nyásh so as to enable you to have a coherent thought process, OK?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Callmedondee(m): 11:25pm On Sep 22, 2017
AuroraB:
Tell him NEVER to blame you to massage a non-existent ego. If he as much as cough your name to people, go ballistic on his stewpeed behind angry
What nonsense undecided

With this attitude u are not going to last long in any relationship. I pray u last long in any u find Urself. But the truth is dat you don't talk to ur Man anyhow no matter how he Bleep up. Cos if u do u will only destroy what u have build. Note man will always be a man.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Mydazz(m): 11:26pm On Sep 22, 2017
My questions for you, which might give me a clue as to what the best advice could be....
1. Has premature ejaculation always been there, or it just started?
2. What changes have you noticed in the home since you' gave birth,..... is the home tidy and clean at all times, are suddenly in love with tieing wrappers, do you take potty to odd places in your apartment are you always clean yourself,....... Pls check this.
3. What change has occurred in your body since you gave birth, are your boobs fuller now or deflated, is there stomach fat that was not there before, etc
Men are moved by sight so take a stock of these things.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thesuave10(m): 11:27pm On Sep 22, 2017
AuroraB:
Tell him NEVER to blame you to massage a non-existent ego. If he as much as cough your name to people, go ballistic on his stewpeed behind angry
What nonsense undecided

What is this thing? undecided

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by chineduemmao: 11:28pm On Sep 22, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
criminal
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 11:32pm On Sep 22, 2017
correctguy101:


The forces be in your favour brother.
She should just cry for satisfactory sex and stop bringing child bearing into this.

But Jesus, 30secs The nigga surely will have a helper.
Me na 5secs o. No time, it's not a bed where I'll sleep till Dawn .
I don't know about you but I do not fancy the idea of mocking the man. No man would have loved to lose erection . We should sympathize with him. He probably has a lot on his plate already and the wife is about to let him down.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by chineduemmao: 11:33pm On Sep 22, 2017
Husband that last less than a minute, is dat one a husband?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Sirambassador(m): 11:34pm On Sep 22, 2017
Lol.... Talk to your husband

#heart to heart
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by vigorHealth: 11:35pm On Sep 22, 2017
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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by fortunechy(m): 11:36pm On Sep 22, 2017
how do you know that it was 30sec??..... ar u checking the time when he's in top of u
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 11:36pm On Sep 22, 2017
As long as he releases, he can claim you are the problem. Sperm na sperm, whether he nacked you for 30seconds or 30hours.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by 1metre: 11:41pm On Sep 22, 2017
muller101:
Look for a way and rape him
rape? A 30seconds man? By the time u initiate rape, he will come and never to come again u go tire cheesy
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by correctguy101(m): 11:44pm On Sep 22, 2017
Billyonaire:

I don't know about you but I do not fancy the idea of mocking the man. No man would have loved to lose erection we sympathize with him. He probably has a lot on his plate already and the wife is about to let him down.

I am not mocking him, might sound so but I definitely wouldn't consciously do that.
He has enough problems already and I wouldn't want to add to it.

One thing. He should stop blaming their not having a second child on the woman"especially in front of his family members" or anyone for that matter.

Own up that he needs help and go for it. Denying the problem and running away from it only shows his ego needs fixing.

There's nothing bad in having a problem, sexual or no. Even this his problem could be fixed by regular sexual practice plus the wife is ready to assist.

The guy will just let the woman go outside and I just hope the woman ain't my neighbor cos my married neighbor just started entering my flat and playing what I call dangerous play with me. Sighs.... I hate this

IMO. Thanks.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 11:45pm On Sep 22, 2017
Have you sampled another man to know for sure whether ya husband has plobrem - League of IPOB Elders
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bunmifx(m): 11:55pm On Sep 22, 2017
You need to move back to his room and have heart to heart talk with him.Stress and Anxiety could make him release within a minute. Ability to stay long during sex is mindset,he should learn to take his mind off the feeling and think about APC and PMB or Basket mouth during sex,sincerely he could stay 45 minutes to 0ne hour without release. I stay average of 45 minutes using this method
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by hooklover: 11:59pm On Sep 22, 2017
No need to complain or spoil ur man's ego. I help ladies in this regard to keep fire pussy busy while dere husband
can rest and look for money to keep family going...

I give nice company to married ladies...
Don't disturb him again for sex. I will support him in that area. is not easy to be a family man work pressure and ur change of body no longer gives him d appeal. I have seen such cases....

I can assist in giving u a baby u can give him as gift....
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by sollybaby(f): 12:00am On Sep 23, 2017
Put viagra in his egusi soup.. Simple!

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by hooklover: 12:03am On Sep 23, 2017
correctguy101:


I am not mocking him, might sound so but I definitely wouldn't consciously do that.
He has enough problems already and I wouldn't want to add to it.

One thing. He should stop blaming their not having a second child on the woman"especially in front of his family members" or anyone for that matter.

Own up that he needs help and go for it. Denying the problem and running away from it only shows his ego needs fixing.

There's nothing bad in having a problem, sexual or no. Even this his problem could be fixed by regular sexual practice plus the wife is ready to assist.

The guy will just let the woman go outside and I just hope the woman ain't my neighbor cos my married neighbor just started entering my flat and playing what I call dangerous play with me. Sighs.... I hate this

IMO. Thanks.

Send d married lady coming to ur flat to my crib to play I play with them regularly..

I am used to their play.. If u don't know how to play d game I can assist..... I specialise in that area of play...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 12:08am On Sep 23, 2017
correctguy101:


I am not mocking him, might sound so but I definitely wouldn't consciously do that.
He has enough problems already and I wouldn't want to add to it.

One thing. He should stop blaming their not having a second child on the woman"especially in front of his family members" or anyone for that matter.

Own up that he needs help and go for it. Denying the problem and running away from it only shows his ego needs fixing.

There's nothing bad in having a problem, sexual or no. Even this his problem could be fixed by regular sexual practice plus the wife is ready to assist.

The guy will just let the woman go outside and I just hope the woman ain't my neighbor cos my married neighbor just started entering my flat and playing what I call dangerous play with me. Sighs.... I hate this

IMO. Thanks.

The Cause of the man's sex problem is the same thing that makes him lie that his wife is the problem. He does not know how to communicate. He is governed by emotional immaturity. By the way, if your neighbor's wife play rough play with you, please do not touch her, especially if she is very beautiful. Just send me her number grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by MagicPie: 12:09am On Sep 23, 2017
[quote author=Ninethmare post=60687844]You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...[/quote[color=#990000][/color]

It sounded funny and people laughed it off but you are not only a fool but a disgrace to mankind. I guess you aren't married , still one useless internet fraudster right? .. continue , your cup will soon be full.... senses in Ghana must go bag fall on you.. amen
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Notatribalist(m): 12:14am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
your story is not complete Madam. You married for three years now,and you have a son,of how old if I may ask?and you're already having problem because the second one is not coming yet?all of this within three years? People are married for ten years with issues and yet their married is intact.. The only problem I see here is the one you both are trying to created..

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by UEDIBO: 12:18am On Sep 23, 2017
Do him woman on top
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by hooklover: 12:19am On Sep 23, 2017
[quote author=MagicPie post=60738001][/quote]

Are u a tranny or followcome.Cant place if ur sex

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