I don't believe this story.

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

E mean say ur something sweet well well. 30secs

But duration of sex does not mean baby.

It might be u

Ladies and problem haha. U Bleep long Bleep like I do attimes dry will complain of tiredness u Bleep short 30sec Bleep dey will complain.

Many married ladies are just sere to answer married so other ladies can respect dem.....

Their pussy is not been serviced as a wen due....

Marriage does not solve sex problem.
Variety of sex options is d spice of marriage.

Married ladies who Bleep outside are better wives and less burden to husband.... She is more happy from research..in [b]Wellington post... [/b]

Married ladies don't die on one dick.. Taste others but make sure u are not caught.....

JaffyJoe:


A man who can't last beyond 30secs with his wife whom his system should have been familiar with over the years, has no business venturing into an extramarital affair.

WHICH MAKES THE WHOLE STORY FAKE AND FABRICATED..

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This is a f*ck issue in the court of conji

I understand your situation and deal with the issues separately.
The cooperation of both of you is required.
Don't let him rush to penetrate.
Spend a lot of time in pre-intimacy and give him a head. Keep massaging his ego with words of encouragement that he's doing a great job. Moan to keep him on.
Every man's goal is to see the impact of his moves on the woman, give it to him.
Give him a Mouth Action and help him release without penetrating.
Communication is key. Tell him how you feel and ask let him tell you what he likes in sex.
The first ejaculation should calm him down.
You also would need to learn how to press the head of the penis to delay ejaculation.
Your ego massaging is very important.
Don't forget to get in touch with him during the day before he gets home. Set the mood where you can talk about sex freely.
For babies, you need to watch your calendar but I would advise you enjoy sex first then work towards your timing so you don't pressure him with child birth and your calendar. Fun first, babies will follow.

Rokia2:
Try to spice things up a bit. Change up your look. I know how stressful it can be having a newborn baby you barely have time for yourself. But you just have to try a bit and change up your look. Hey I'm not blaming it on you, trust me am not but sometimes especially after having a baby the whole thing can be so exhausting one can forget one self. Get some sexy clothes, fix your hair, look after your skin get your make up done once in a while just to look Beautiful for him. We women like to dress for other women forgetting the most important person our husbands/bfs.

When there's a weeding we slay like there's no tommorrow. An occasional or a party we dress to kill. But we forget the most important part looking absolutely beautiful for our partners in the house. Also try to buy some sexy lingeries go for a nice wax.......(depends on his preference though lol and yours you know best) and put on some nice smelling perfumes at night. You know those sensual body mist not those overpowering perfumes for daytime. Having a baby is possibly the most stressful moment a couple can go through especially the woman. Sometimes take the child to family members and have some ME time.

It could be way deeper then this and something better knew to only him but you may never know unless you try.

Wise counsel.

Like I have said many times, too many women assume that men are robots sexually. They assume that "men love sex", so no matter what, men can simply get it up, insert, and thrust for hours nonstop. So because you're a woman and you feel Hot (oh really?), you expect a man to press a button and get groovy to your satisfaction no matter what.

It doesn't work like that.

I know for a fact that many men (including my humble self) are TURNED OFF by the whole pregnancy/post childbirth wahala of women. The whole baby wahala, breastfeeding, breast milk stains all over the nightie, untidy appearance due to baby wahala, postnatal belly stretchmarks, etc. We're talking about a man that was used to a 'hot' young chick, and the whole freshness mental image underpinning their sexual encounters. Now all of a sudden she is a mama de mama and yet expects him to be shaking with lust and standing at full attention at the sight of her unappealing naked body.

Yeah Yeah you can supposedly try to be logical about it and say 'and so what', after all, it is his baby too, he made me pregnant, blah blah blah. But sexual arousal is not a matter of logic. It's all about cognitive signals.

So like you said, paying attention to her appearance is super important to help the man overcome the repugnance he is feeling. Super important.

30 seconds keh for what I don't blive u.
Even if u have the tightest punna self he will still do more than 60 seconds.
Talk less of an after 1.
Shift abeg

but even 5 seconds can give person belle na abi?
or belle dey only come when i Bleep you hard nonstop for 4 hours?

TINALETC3:
Ws he like dat b4 u had ur first son or he recently changed? Wateva way, u remain d only person one dat cn help hm out. Double ur caring attitude 2wards hm, u no hm beta, treat hm like a king he is. Dere is dis romantic stage dat men attain and dey wl find it difficult to turn d requests of Dia woman down (pple wl even begin to tink dat u used juju on hm), make sure he attains dat stage, if na food, cook his favorites, den tro d discussion, if he opens up, u guys shud visit a specialist in dat aspect. It may take u days or months to get hm down bt continue until u get ur result. Best of luck.

You would make a good wife. Kudos for this advice!

tosyne2much:
We don't even know fabricated stories from real ones again

You are right. Most of these stories we read everyday are fabricated

FvckShiT:
This is so fúçking Pathetic!


I would gladly fúçk you on his behalf

You don't need a prophet to tell you this
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You wondering how I know it too
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It's kinda easy to spot with this comment
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But you wouldn't know
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You tot you've hidden it well
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Well the day you know your Stupidity is visible, will be the day you become smart
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But that day won't come you were born stupid and you will die Stupid

jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

Don't try it... Talk to your husband please.. Then look a Good doctor and work things out

tosyne2much:
We don't even know fabricated stories from real ones again

this particular one doesn't sound fabricated, move closer to ur screen...
drop ur advice, it will be appreciated.

rahman25:


I have similar issue before but I overcome using the procedure I stated above. Sometime using drug poses a more adverse effect on an issue than solving it. Natural herbs, food and fruit are sometimes of good remedy if used in the appropriate manner. I know what I am saying.

Oh I see that's interesting. Thanks for sharing.

My brother, thank you very much for your words of wisdom. Sometimes I wonder whether these folks who came here to broadcast their family problems are actually for real or just making up stuffs to get a reaction. I mean, are these folks really looking for a serious advice from mostly faceless strangers on the world wide web? Don't they have families, pastors, and/or even friends? And you wonder why the divorce rate is skyrocketing by the day. Some dumb women may get these "suggestions" from a bunch of messed up folks on the internet and then, based on that, decide to end their marriages!

Incredible but true!!!


O pari

LordIsaac:
It coulɗn't have ɓeen for 30seconɗs, stop exaggerating it; except, of course, you hold a watch to his face from start to finish. In which case, you woulɗn't enjoƴ it as you woulɗ have had a diviɗeɗ attention. That ɓeen saiɗ, consult all the stakeholɗers at your weɗɗing, they'd intervene ɗecentlƴ. Flee youthful counsel from some Nairalanɗers! For the thing is, you tooƙ that VOW "for better, for WORSE." This is that part that will not ɓe captureɗ in pre weɗɗing pictures. Now the test.

The dude might have a high sex drive but just don't get aroused by his wife. Trust me, I have seen that happened with many folks. The man is horse when he meets other women but the same man can barely get it up when he gets home to his wife.


O pari

adeniyisamuel59:
Let me give my little medical advice:
Tell him to stop taking anything sugary like carbonated drinks, soluble sugar etc, let him take much water especially in the early morning when he has not eating food; at least 50cl of water.
Having said that, drugs can also be introduced to fix it up such as:
1. VigRx
2. Talafil
3. sidnafil
4. vigor capsule
5. Rovigon.
Thank me later and remember to invite me to naming ceremony.

Chei, prayer and intimacy gadgets in the same sentence! There's nothing once can't hear on this web forum.


O pari

Adaumunocha:
Sometimes knowing you have the power to make things happen really help with some of these marital issues. Don't visit his room anymore... He'll come looking for you. Get a very good toy if you open minded for such( It never fails). Plus pray.

hooklover:
Ladies and problem haha. U Bleep long Bleep like I do attimes dry will complain of tiredness u Bleep short 30sec Bleep dey will complain.

Many married ladies are just sere to answer married so other ladies can respect dem.....

Their pussy is not been serviced as a wen due....

Marriage does not solve sex problem.
Variety of sex options is d spice of marriage.

Married ladies who Bleep outside are better wives and less burden to husband.... She is more happy from research..in [b]Wellington post... [/b]

Married ladies don't die on one dick.. Taste others but make sure u are not caught.....

u need Jesus

thorpido:

He obviously has premature ejaculation issues but his ego won't let him address it.

was it not the same premature ejaculation he used in making the first baby?

adeniyisamuel59:
Let me give my little medical advice:
Tell him to stop taking anything sugary like carbonated drinks, soluble sugar etc, let him take much water especially in the early morning when he has not eating food; at least 50cl of water.
Having said that, drugs can also be introduced to fix it up such as:
1. VigRx
2. Talafil
3. sidnafil
4. vigor capsule
5. Rovigon.
Thank me later and remember to invite me to naming ceremony.

doc for extra and maximum performance,can I take all these drugs together at once for her to have quadruplets?

selfmadeboss:
but even 5 seconds can give person belle na abi?
or belle dey only come when i Bleep you hard nonstop for 4 hours?

don't mind the op,is not just for the sperm to drop inside like eyes drop,after all as the saying goes "a little drop of sperm makes a mighty baby"

This story has many inconsistencies. Your baby still cries up to the point he sent you back to your own room so where is the second child now an issue when the only child is still a baby madam calm down just say you are trying to justify your cheating this matter over clear

Boyooosa:
this particular one doesn't sound fabricated, move closer to ur screen... drop ur advice, it will be appreciated.

Alright bros

travelpoint:

You are right. Most of these stories we read everyday are fabricated

That's it my brother

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Kimkardashain:
your husband is seeing another woman.
dip deeper ma'am

No, but the man has quick ejaculation problem, it will be difficult for him to see another woman, the problem can be solved if you are telling us the truth.