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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by crunchyDope(m): 10:18am On Sep 24, 2017
deep down we(the readers) all know she a hoe, @op huh visit d nearest lab ..mk sure u do all kinds of std test winkgrin

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 10:19am On Sep 24, 2017
djeezy:
You're a kid. Grow up and be a man!
Pls pls don't roll in the mud with dregs .. ignore Biko so they don't stain u grin

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by kullozone(m): 10:21am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:

Know ur level Biko

Lmao! My level?
You dey crase oh!

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Lalas247(f): 10:23am On Sep 24, 2017
kullozone:


Lmao! My level?
You dey crase oh!
The cain wey I go use flog u they wait for u grin u dey find my trouble tongue

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:

Lol @starved grin
That's what I am saying op drop some sketchy lines when he knows it's dumb niqqa that's full here so he knows they will lick his crusty ass grin
Wen most of dem will do the same do u blame them grin
Abeg make I go find one religious thread to express myself ...
cheesy cheesy you have killed the op

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lilmax(m): 10:24am On Sep 24, 2017
reminds me of school life grin.... like I said on a thread, if you want free sex, be best friends with a girl grin..... it never gets old, op I'm proud of you, you did well, if she comes again, Bleep her till she comes back to her senses

don't let her make you feel bad o

she wasn't thinking straight, op too wasn't thinking straight, everyone enjoyed it.... grin

it's a win win situation..... imagine you broke up and your next bus stop is a guys house? grin

who's fooling who? guy make sure you don't give in... she already planned it, she wanted to use rape as the excuse

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by kullozone(m): 10:26am On Sep 24, 2017
djeezy:
You're a kid. Grow up and be a man!

It's GROWN men like you that give women the right to blame us for their actions.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by djeezy(m): 10:28am On Sep 24, 2017
kullozone:


It's GROWN men like you that give women the right to blame us for their actions.
Do you think the op didn't know she was vulnerable?

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by djeezy(m): 10:30am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:

Pls pls don't roll in the mud with dregs .. ignore Biko so they don't stain u grin
Lol don't worry I'll be fine.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by phintohlar(f): 10:33am On Sep 24, 2017
mhizesther:


What made her weak? A breakup?
don't forget some ladies are so fragile and emotionally weak,the fact that i have a strong mind doesn't mean you do as well and dah makes us two different kind of peeps.. I get weak any time i had a fight with my friend how much more with some1 very close to my heart. So dude should have controlled himself
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by teejaypee: 10:33am On Sep 24, 2017
some girls are confused human beings tbh angry
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by RedDistrict: 10:38am On Sep 24, 2017
You both had consensual sex. she is confused if she tinks you raped her

She doesnt wanna pick your call and you dont wanna loose your friendship with her Oga find another friend jare

she isnt a matured person, pls move on from her

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 10:51am On Sep 24, 2017
funny how the movie i watched last night potrays exactly the same shiii as this ur story undecided
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 10:58am On Sep 24, 2017
Papiikush:
Op, you only took advantage of the poor girl.

Ask yourself this question. Would she have allowed you fück her if she was mentally stable?

If your answer is NO, it means you took advantage of the situation to satisfy your sexual desires with her.
Wtf!!!
So because she caught her guy cheating, she suddenly became mentally unstable angry

She had the whole plan mapped out going by the event that took place. She prolly wanted to get fvcked as payback to get out of whatever anguish and pain she was going through at that point in time and Op was the closest shot.
She no doubt is just emotionally blackmailing the Op with that rape bullshit so as not to appear cheap and stupid.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 11:01am On Sep 24, 2017
ikbnice:
she was in a vulnerable situation. You should obviously know better. It's not rape but he took advantage of the situation. The girl was only trying to save face by accusing her of rape. He should play his cards well and fhey might end up fvcking more.
That's the plain truth...

She's just ashamed of the circumstances that led to the sex. I can bet my ass that she enjoyed every bit of the moment while it lasted

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 11:06am On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:

What basic need so one night is too much to think with his brain
Look she may just want company yall need to get it your head company doesn't mean sex ... being there for someone doesn't mean sex
Even if he wasn't thinking about it doesn't he have any pride .. he is cheap sorry

So crying mean u must bang her ... even if she begged for it I know guys that will never in the morning they can discuss it and if that's wt she really wanted it could have still happened .. why not wait sad


Lots of decent guys out there won't touch her till she has calmed down and thinking again
Cc djeezy

She came with the intention to get fvcked...
Whether it happened that night or in a fortnight doesn't change anything ma'am

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 11:13am On Sep 24, 2017
djeezy:
Do you think the op didn't know she was vulnerable?
Abeg stop this vulnerability ish... Such evidence is not admissible in the court of law...
If there's anyone to be blamed, it's the girl and I insist that she had her game plan from the onset.
You caught your guy cheating and you think your next stop should be in a guy's arm?
She only wanted to even the scores and she got what she wanted.

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lilmax(m): 11:29am On Sep 24, 2017
lenghtinny:
Abeg stop this vulnerability ish... Such evidence is not admissible in the court of law...
If there's anyone to be blamed, it's the girl and I insist that she had her game plan from the onset.
You caught your guy cheating and you think your next stop should be in a guy's arm?
She only wanted to even the scores and she got what she wanted
.
dude sometimes I wonder how these nairaland babes dey think o..... giving vulnerability crap as an excuse...her boyfriend cheated and she couldn't go to a girl's house or stay on her own

na today we dey hear this nonsense? grin

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by oyatz(m): 11:33am On Sep 24, 2017
It is NOT rape. The lady is aware that she is more experienced than you in Man-woman affairs and wanted to resort to emotional blackmail.
In truth, most of the cases of rape we hear about are not truly rape and can't stand the test of legal scrutiny... To tell you the whole truth, IT IS VERY DIFFICULT FOR ONLY ONE MAN TO RAPE A LADY without the man using weapon,seriously beating or drugging the woman.

However,you took advantage of her weak emotional state (NOT RAPE) and if she feel seriously offended, appease and/or pett her, she may become your lover.






bayocute:
There is this gal, we're a very close frnds. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her bf with anoda woman. I felt 4 her and patted er on her back consolingly. It was late in d night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass d night here. I wasn't comfortable with dat but i let her stay. I woke in d mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast dat we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward,we had sex. The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me dat i make used of dat opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how dat resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i dnt want to lose being friends with her. Thanks
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 11:33am On Sep 24, 2017
lilmax:
dude sometimes I wonder how these nairaland babes dey think o..... giving vulnerability crap as an excuse...her boyfriend cheated and she couldn't go to a girl's house or stay on her own

na today we dey hear this nonsense? grin
I just tire for them....
She wasn't thinking straight but she knew the way to the guy's house angry

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Homeboiy: 11:45am On Sep 24, 2017
bayocute:
There is this gal, we're a very close frnds. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her bf with anoda woman. I felt 4 her and patted er on her back consolingly. It was late in d night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass d night here. I wasn't comfortable with dat but i let her stay. I woke in d mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast dat we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward,we had sex. The next day, she accused me
of raping her, telling me dat i make used of dat opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how dat resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i dnt want to lose being friends with her. Thanks


U get sense so? She's using a reverse psychology on u

Don't call her again ,if she call don't pick

She will come begging except u no fúck her well

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Homeboiy: 11:48am On Sep 24, 2017
Evaberry:
LMAO


I think she raped you instead

Gbam

One bottle of baby oku for u

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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by makydebbie(f): 12:00pm On Sep 24, 2017
Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me
That's why I keep talking about male and female besties when ladies keep confiding to guys, what do you expect? I don't blame the guy tho, it's actually inevitable. grin
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 12:02pm On Sep 24, 2017
makydebbie:
That's why I keep talking about male and female besties when ladies keep confiding to guys, what do you expect? I don't blame the guy tho, it's actually inevitable. grin

Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Sep 24, 2017
sunshineR:
funny how the movie i watched last night potrays exactly the same shiii as this ur story undecided
9ja movie? ?
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by makydebbie(f): 12:02pm On Sep 24, 2017
lenghtinny:


She came with the intention to get fvcked...
Whether it happened that night or in a fortnight doesn't change anything ma'am
Lol she even said she's spending the night, ladies and mind games. grin
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by makydebbie(f): 12:06pm On Sep 24, 2017
lenghtinny:
...
When ladies keep telling males friends their problems making them vulnerable, they forget that guy is not Holy Spirit the comforter. And when they realize he's not Holy Spirit the comforter, that's when they find themselves naked on their beds, I don say this tire. grin
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 12:09pm On Sep 24, 2017
The summary of the whole thing - "Stay away from Premarital sex".

I'll share a story of how a lady almost lured me into committing such act but thank God I knew my stand..


Back then in 2011, during my university days. There was this lady I used to teach some things(like, I always join my lecturer to class when ever he fixes a class so I used to assist him). Back then, there was this lady I assisted with just a little token just to help her life ooo, infact I help any of the students who has any issue ; academically and sometimes financially depending on the degree of the need.

A day came; this lady in question invited me to her lodge and with my church mind, I jejely went to see her oo.. we talked and talked, sharing different stories of life and some few stories.

I spent like an hour before I left her. That day nothing happened ooo but each time I visit her, she always take my shoes inside (me didn't suspect anything ooo but to some extent, I didn't feel so so comfortable) .


After 2 days, I revisited her but this time around, I told my friend to accompany me because I was not so comfortable anymore. I got a call from her telling me how sick she was.

Fast-forward, I told my friend to escort me immediately (I decided to visit because she told me she was sick so for my church mind ooo, I say make I go see sick person na).. When we got to her room, she was really lying on the bed like a sick person so I wanted to rush out and get some drugs for her but she said No, she doesn't like drugs so I relaxed.


Not quite long, she rose up and we started discussing and talking (for my mind I was like, ' no be person wer say im no well be ds?'),.


This time around, It was getting late so I told my friend I was tired and it was time to go back but to my surprise, the girl in question boldly said NO. say we never even stay 1hr. Say we no fit go nw.

I was like what's ds one saying. I concurred to some extent but something happened. She started making some funny moves oo because I sat on the bed with her.

next move was crossing her legs to mine. That was the moment I knew something was up.

Immediately, I stopped her from doing that.

Could you imagine that this girl told my friend to go get her some drugs because the symptoms of the sickness (headache and fever was being felt all over her system) , I knew it was a lie but didn't catch up the plan. I volunteered to go get the drug oo but she said no, but insisted that my friend goes.


Alright no problem, I allowed my friend go. immediately my friend stepped out, she brought my sandals inside and bolted the door. That was when I knew something is about to happen so I prayed in my heart for Grace to overcome this temptation because I vowed never to touch any lady that's not legally married to me. Never will I do such.


immediately she bolted the door, she pushed me down to the bed and each time I want to rise, she wouldn't let me be thereby holding me so tight. It was like a movie scene oo.. so serious.

next thing, she started rubbing my palms(like sex sign). I stopped it and confronted her but the response I got was shocking because she said I caused it.
I asked how but she responded again saying that I made her develop strong feelings for me. I thought of how I did that and I know very well I didn't do anything that warranted that. The lady no gree me ooooo..


see pushing. the one that shocked me more was wen she raised my hands towards her boobs but thank God I didn't touch it. When she noticed I wasn't interested, she said it boldly that 'I must sex her and kiss her because I caused it..


for my mind I said tufiakwa, which kind devil be ds kwanu. Oh God, you have to save me.. as if dt one no do, ds lady was about removing her cloth wen I rushed to dt door and unlocked it... na so I escape ooo...


While running down, I met dt my friend while he was returning so I told him to run oo..


naso we take reach our lodge oo.. I sent a text to the lady immediately telling her how disappointed I was but to my greatest surprise, she wanted to shift the blame to me, saying that I insulted her via the sms.
she observed that I was so so angry and I knew my stand, so she started apologizing saying it won't happen again and I should take her as my own sister but I never wanted to give the devil another chance so I told her never in her life call me again except she doesn't want to see anything good in her life.


That was how I disconnected myself from her..



Biko, what ever I typed here is exactly what happened.


oya make I mention all of una wer type..


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makydebbie
djeezy
kullozone
sekxy
phintohlar
teejaypee
RedDistrict
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Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by lenghtinny(m): 12:11pm On Sep 24, 2017
makydebbie:
When ladies keep telling males friends their problems making them vulnerable, they forget that guy is not Holy Spirit the comforter. And when they realize he's not Holy Spirit the comforter, that's when they find themselves naked on their beds, I don say this tire. grin
I'm telling you cheesy
Keeping a girl as tight friends will only open doors to free sexual opportunities for the guy involved...
Na reality..
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Sep 24, 2017
sekxy:

9ja movie? ?

nah
an american teenager movie

you know a naija movie with same plot?
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by Draei: 12:13pm On Sep 24, 2017
Confused & hypocritical souls all littered
around this thread lashing the 0p with
unrealistic comments...BS!
Re: Did I Really Rape Her? I'm Confused? by makydebbie(f): 12:16pm On Sep 24, 2017

see pushing. the one that shocked me more was wen she raised my hands towards her boobs but thank God I didn't touch it. When she noticed I wasn't interested, she said it boldly that 'I must sex her and kiss her because I caused it..
Oga Chascop. cheesy

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