iamsirmichael1:
You don't wanna lose being friends? Friends or fuck_buddies?

You really must have enjoyed the pussy enough to want to return

You don't wanna be friends with her, you just wanna keep fūçkīñg. Don't lie

bayocute:
There is this gal, we're a very close friends. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her boyfriend with another woman. I felt for her and patted her on her back consolingly. It was late in the night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass the night here. I wasn't comfortable with that but i let her stay.

I woke in the mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast that we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward, we had sex.

The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me that i make used of that opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how that resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i don't want to lose being friends with her. Thanks

Lalas247:

Thank you jare

Yes she was stwepid but the guy took advantage
That's what they do . Attack the female yet the guy too is wrong .. watch u will see a guy with morals n self worth watch how he will comment ..

iamsirmichael1:
You don't wanna lose being friends? Friends or fuck_buddies?

You really must have enjoyed the pussy enough to want to return

You don't wanna be friends with her, you just wanna keep fūçkīñg. Don't lie

sleekyskillz:
The first mistake u made was letting her spend the night, dude don't u watch movies?

Any other tin dat happened was jus the will of GOD take it as a score n move on...

u did good bro we both knw she needed that

mhizesther:
Lol...that's far from rape my dear.. she gave her consent. She wasn't drunk or drugged.. All through the intercourse she didn't say "no"at all..Abeg she's just playing games with u.. It seems she had it all mapped out before coming over..Don't get get urself worked up jare..

CaptainSALAZAR:
She was traumatized and subconsciously lose herself to you. It happens, beg her and move on.

bayocute:
There is this gal, we're a very close friends. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her boyfriend with another woman. I felt for her and patted her on her back consolingly. It was late in the night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass the night here. I wasn't comfortable with that but i let her stay.

I woke in the mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast that we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward, we had sex.

The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me that i make used of that opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how that resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i don't want to lose being friends with her. Thanks

Chascop:
The summary of the whole thing - "Stay away from Premarital sex".

I'll share a story of how a lady almost lured me into committing such act but thank God I knew my stand..


Back then in 2011, during my university days. There was this lady I used to teach some things(like, I always join my lecturer to class when ever he fixes a class so I used to assist him). Back then, there was this lady I assisted with just a little token just to help her life ooo, infact I help any of the students who has any issue ; academically and sometimes financially depending on the degree of the need.

A day came; this lady in question invited me to her lodge and with my church mind, I jejely went to see her oo.. we talked and talked, sharing different stories of life and some few stories.

I spent like an hour before I left her. That day nothing happened ooo but each time I visit her, she always take my shoes inside (me didn't suspect anything ooo but to some extent, I didn't feel so so comfortable) .


After 2 days, I revisited her but this time around, I told my friend to accompany me because I was not so comfortable anymore. I got a call from her telling me how sick she was.

Fast-forward, I told my friend to escort me immediately (I decided to visit because she told me she was sick so for my church mind ooo, I say make I go see sick person na).. When we got to her room, she was really lying on the bed like a sick person so I wanted to rush out and get some drugs for her but she said No, she doesn't like drugs so I relaxed.


Not quite long, she rose up and we started discussing and talking (for my mind I was like, ' no be person wer say im no well be ds?'),.


This time around, It was getting late so I told my friend I was tired and it was time to go back but to my surprise, the girl in question boldly said NO. say we never even stay 1hr. Say we no fit go nw.

I was like what's ds one saying. I concurred to some extent but something happened. She started making some funny moves oo because I sat on the bed with her.

next move was crossing her legs to mine. That was the moment I knew something was up.

Immediately, I stopped her from doing that.

Could you imagine that this girl told my friend to go get her some drugs because the symptoms of the sickness (headache and fever was being felt all over her system) , I knew it was a lie but didn't catch up the plan. I volunteered to go get the drug oo but she said no, but insisted that my friend goes.


Alright no problem, I allowed my friend go. immediately my friend stepped out, she brought my sandals inside and bolted the door. That was when I knew something is about to happen so I prayed in my heart for Grace to overcome this temptation because I vowed never to touch any lady that's not legally married to me. Never will I do such.


immediately she bolted the door, she pushed me down to the bed and each time I want to rise, she wouldn't let me be thereby holding me so tight. It was like a movie scene oo.. so serious.

next thing, she started rubbing my palms(like sex sign). I stopped it and confronted her but the response I got was shocking because she said I caused it.
I asked how but she responded again saying that I made her develop strong feelings for me. I thought of how I did that and I know very well I didn't do anything that warranted that. The lady no gree me ooooo..


see pushing. the one that shocked me more was wen she raised my hands towards her boobs but thank God I didn't touch it. When she noticed I wasn't interested, she said it boldly that 'I must sex her and kiss her because I caused it..


for my mind I said tufiakwa, which kind devil be ds kwanu. Oh God, you have to save me.. as if dt one no do, ds lady was about removing her cloth wen I rushed to dt door and unlocked it... na so I escape ooo...


While running down, I met dt my friend while he was returning so I told him to run oo..


naso we take reach our lodge oo.. I sent a text to the lady immediately telling her how disappointed I was but to my greatest surprise, she wanted to shift the blame to me, saying that I insulted her via the sms.
she observed that I was so so angry and I knew my stand, so she started apologizing saying it won't happen again and I should take her as my own sister but I never wanted to give the devil another chance so I told her never in her life call me again except she doesn't want to see anything good in her life.


That was how I disconnected myself from her..



Biko, what ever I typed here is exactly what happened.

taylor88:


My love hmmmmm


Am jealous here

mhizesther:



What's making u jealous?

mhizesther:



What's making u jealous?

Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

bayocute:
There is this gal, we're a very close friends. She tells me almost everything that happens in her relationship. Last week thursday, she came to my house sobbing, she told me she caught her boyfriend with another woman. I felt for her and patted her on her back consolingly. It was late in the night and i told her to leave. She was like i will pass the night here. I wasn't comfortable with that but i let her stay.

I woke in the mid-night saw her crying, then i tried putting her back to sleep, but it happened so fast that we started kissing. I wanted to pull back but she draw me closer. Fast-forward, we had sex.

The next day, she accused me of raping her, telling me that i make used of that opportunity cos she confided in me. Since then, she won't pick my call if i call. I don't know how that resulted to rape seriously. What should i say to her pls nairalanders, cos i don't want to lose being friends with her. Thanks

Afrobasic:
So you mean out of all her friends it was you she came to meet that night.

Even after giving her signal to leave, she still decided to spend the night.

Even after sleeping off, she still woke up at night, woke you up and decided to fvck you even after giving her signs to stop.

I think you were raped bruhh.

Daeylar:


Lol, although the bolded part was funny he wasn't raped, they both consented to it.

However I don't find what the girl did/ is trying to do funny,
You carried yourself all the way to his house, he didn't invite you,
Stayed the night, although he wasn't comfortable and wanted you to leave,
Kissed him back when he kissed you,
Drew him back to you when he wanted to move away.
Yet you have the guts to wake up in the morning and accuse him of rape,
The guy didn't do anything wrong and the girl is being silly and immature
She should behave like an adult and take responsibility for her actions.
Rape is not something to be taken lightly, it's not a word to be used carelessly.
She even owes the op an apology for accusing him of rape, it's not fair to him.

She should take this as a learning process, she is responsible for her actions, next time if she is heartbroken and she doesn't want to have sex she shouldn't. she also should remove herself from situations that will lead to such.
if she ends up doing so anyway, she should accept it and move on.
Not to go flinging the word rape around like it's nothing.

Lalas247:

What basic need so one night is too much to think with his brain
Look she may just want company yall need to get it your head company doesn't mean sex ... being there for someone doesn't mean sex
Even if he wasn't thinking about it doesn't he have any pride .. he is cheap sorry

So crying mean u must bang her ... even if she begged for it I know guys that will never in the morning they can discuss it and if that's wt she really wanted it could have still happened .. why not wait


Lots of decent guys out there won't touch her till she has calmed down and thinking again
Cc djeezy

MhizzAJ:
She enjoyed it ...You didn't rape her.

Someone dat drew u closer when u wanted to pull back...what was she expecting self

I still dunno why ladies should ve men as their close friend..some will even go to the extent of telling the guy their relationship wahala.

Papiikush:
Op, you only took advantage of the poor girl.

Ask yourself this question. Would she have allowed you fück her if she was mentally stable?

If your answer is NO, it means you took advantage of the situation to satisfy your sexual desires with her.

Lalas247:
It is not rape BUT

You clearly lack self control
Look she was in a VULNERABLE state yes .. u clearly stated she woke up crying .. even if she begged you to sex her you should have been a good guy and said NO ! Yes she would have thanked you for it and even valued you more


So cause she crying u thought lets fuvk Wt kinda guy are you ..
please ladies careful who you cry to when your mind ain't right .. it's sex the guy will be thinking about shioor
YOU LACK SELF CONTROL ! YOU TOOK ADVANTAGE OF THE SITUATION ! scumbags up n down argh

Don't quote me

Lalas247:

What basic need so one night is too much to think with his brain
Look she may just want company yall need to get it your head company doesn't mean sex ... being there for someone doesn't mean sex
Even if he wasn't thinking about it doesn't he have any pride .. he is cheap sorry

So crying mean u must bang her ... even if she begged for it I know guys that will never in the morning they can discuss it and if that's wt she really wanted it could have still happened .. why not wait


Lots of decent guys out there won't touch her till she has calmed down and thinking again sex is sweeter when its spontaneously done. When discussed, its boring
Cc djeezy