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Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by Annie939(f): 8:15am On Sep 28, 2017 |
AreaFada2:hmmmmmmmm I'm speechless |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by slimmdree(m): 8:25am On Sep 28, 2017 |
alcuin: |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by AntiWailer: 8:27am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Amberon11: Oya follow him and join him in stabbing his father. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by bfmconcepts: 8:56am On Sep 28, 2017 |
@OP, there is little or nothing you can do about it. Just move on with your life and get all you can get from him financially for you to achieve in life. Any negative thing you do to avenge your mother's death will have negative impact on you and your destiny. Focus on God as the best father, work on yourself and your siblings to make sure they are not like him. The judgement of parent is not in the hand of their children (no matter what happens) |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by Nobody: 8:57am On Sep 28, 2017 |
lilmanni: It's not ur business what he does wit his life. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by AreaFada2: 9:08am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Wizaugpet:But most 9ja marriages have no mutual love involved. The men even love more. Reason is this. As a man you chase a lady that attracts you. An iota of love is at least there. If after dating & sex you still stick to her considering the choices and options out there. But women have to wait to be wooed. It is not uncommon for a lady to complain that only weirdos and funny people approach her. We often jokingly say "na village people dey use 4G on you" and such jokes. But at long last she will have to accept one of those "weirdos" as a hubby, even if not her type at all. As the clock begins to tick and pressure from family mounts. She will then choose pragmatism in dating. She will console herself with stuff like: he's caring, he has a good job, he offers me economic security, my friends and family like him, etc. But true love from the heart is often missing. Therein lies the first error. Nothing can replace love. Not money, pragmatism, opinion of others, etc. Indeed many have boarded a ship at the airport & a plane at the seaport. Just that those means of transport (marriages) never really took off or set sail. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by DanielGb(m): 9:15am On Sep 28, 2017 |
There is more to it than what you know. Ask him. No matter how a man cheats he will still respect the death of his beloved wife. He doesnt love your late mum again(before she pass on). Ask. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by ifyain: 9:16am On Sep 28, 2017 |
Sorry it is your late mother,s fault, whenever a man cheats, there is something lacking in the marriage. same with whenever the woman cheats. you are still young and I am sure you will understand as you get older and maybe married. marriage is the biggest scam in the world that benefits no one. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by Wizaugpet(m): 9:18am On Sep 28, 2017 |
AreaFada2:The Truth Unveiled |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by streetzdreamz(m): 11:20am On Sep 28, 2017 |
this is sad, lots of comments on nairaland this days r void of humanity, some won't even stop at the regular insults but would top it up with a curse or two,why are you guys so bitter and angry? either chip in your opinion or ignore the thread, na wah o.......@op it's okay to be mad at your dad cuz of the injustice meted out to your mum,but hey! you can't put the laws in your hands,let karma do the job and if he goes unscathed then hells bells, its funny people still gets married every Saturdays in this country, with all have been reading online, that institution has long lost its original purpose, anyone still willing to go into marriage should know it ain't a bed of roses, its annoying when y'al keep disturbing us with your tales of woes,is it that there are no happy unions out there? or its not worth sharing? its always negativities and nothing positive from the married folks in here.. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by adatemi: 11:57am On Sep 28, 2017 |
As sad as it is, channel your energy towards making yourself a better person. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by DECOtech(m): 12:11pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
lilmanni: You are suppose to leave him to God and not take laws into your hands. |
Re: My Dad Cheated On My Mum Before She Died And He's Still Doing It by Becalm(m): 2:26pm On Sep 28, 2017 |
There are many secrets in marriage you may never understand as a young man or woman. One couple may wrong the other, the aggrieved party refuses to forgive and begins to behave irresponsibly. Sometimes in ability to resolve prolonged disputes results in dying or dead LOVE. Actions like this begin to manifest. You may never know the role your mum played in the whole saga, but from the information available your father is wrong for these actions and its equally not your business if he performs his fatherly obligations of love, care and providing for your needs. |
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