I have got this dude of mine who met this young lady who had a job later as a lecturer. they dated for a year and half and thought it wise to do the nuptial. the lady hasn't had a shiny past as such. She is supposed to further her studies to grow along the academic line. she has an option of going abroad or studying within the country for her masters and PhD. Traveling out should be be two weeks after her wedding. dude seems not to know what to do thinking the possibility of infidelity. Guys, if you were in his shoes, would you allow her to do it within or without? honest and straight answers please.

i think opinion from married couples will count here.

cc: lalastica

Personally, i wont agree that she leave the country, she will have to do it in the state where we live....Going abroad, will destroy the marriage in the long run.

If a lady will cheat, even under your nose, she'd do it. But honestly, 18 months no be joke o. She should do it here jare

If am in your shoes

I will tell her that

Go Abroad my desr

Alotta pvcci plenty for naija to enjoy before you arrive... No need to worry bouh me

Simple!

HeWrites:
If am in your shoes

I will tell her that

Go Abroad my desr

Alotta pvcci plenty for naija to enjoy before you arrive... No need to worry bouh me

Simple!

guy your own sef no good o. so u no mind guys dey straff your wife?

kristofa09:

guy your own sef no good o. so u no mind guys dey straff your wife?

I go lay charm for'am any dude wey wan fvck her go die or better still

Do a charm that will make her ugly and scary when dey wan sample her

#Y0l0

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I go lay charm for'am any dude wey wan fvck her go die or better still


Do a charm that will make her ugly and scary when dey wan sample her


#Y0l0

your wifi no reach Europe na

IamLEGEND1:
Make him nack am give am Belle..... Then allow her to travel.

At the very least you know your first child would be yours,you no go drag pikin with another man + dual citizenship.

and if she dosnt want to get pregnant na? hope you no say woman wey no wan pregnant no go pregnant? them know their way

kristofa09:


your wifi no reach Europe na

Everthing go don settle down for her body before departure

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Everthing go don settle down for her body before departure

but really most women are deceitful...i told him to let her study here but dude say e go be like say him no wan make the lady make use of the scholarship the school one give her abroad

kristofa09:


but really most women are deceitful...i told him to let her study here but dude say e go be like say him no wan make the lady make use of the scholarship the school one give her abroad

Let him give her belle

mode take this thing front page. serious opinions are needed here. thank u.

as long as you trust your wife, then allow shit rest,,but just try and impregnate her shaa

sekxy:
as long as you trust your wife, then allow shit rest,,but just try and impregnate her shaa

sekxy you seee... even you no say its a dicy situation...the chick go cheat

Marriage is about faith if your friend doesnt have it on her just dont get married na by force is he marrying
Also is your friend going to be faithful with her,dont expect something that you cannot give.
What do u men by she doesnt have a shiny past??

lay magun on her....simple

Let her school here o!
My guys marriage is a mess right now because his new bride travelled abroad for study 6 months after their wedding. I dont want to go into details op but dont let ur wife travel oo! Unless u go follow am join bodi.

kristofa09:

sekxy you seee... even you no say its a dicy situation...the chick go cheat

ehn,so that his nerves go calm naaw

lomprico:
Let her school here o!
My guys marriage is a mess right now because his new bride travelled abroad for study 6 months after their wedding. I dont want to go into details op but dont let ur wife travel oo! Unless u go follow am join bodi.

brother give details abeg....besides nobody knows them...thanks

IamLEGEND1:
Make him nack am give am Belle..... Then allow her to travel.

At the very least you know your first child would be yours,you no go drag pikin with another man + dual citizenship.

I HAIL O

kristofa09:

brother give details abeg....besides nobody knows them...thanks

Go like gist for real live o!

Wify travelled to X for study, finished and refused to come back probably fell on some dicks.
Even when she came back for a visit went to her parents house, told ma nigga dat she dint come back for of him.
Went back to X, my guy started partying, clubbing n fuçking around.
Until when he decided to call marriage quits n marry a gud gal he found, wifys parents forced her back to make piss, ma guy had to mellow despite his home bois warning him not to take her back. She came back grudgingly n he took her back n its one fight after anoda.
Told ma guy marriage is over! dat they are just patching what cant be fixed!
Now ma nigga is planning to relocate outta this shithole of a country (without her of course 'ma nigga' ).
6 years down d drain no lil rascals to show for it, All because a good guy wanted to please his wife.

Phew!! Are u happy now? Op!

This is very risky but you don't have a right to hold her dream, she will always refer to It. But if it was me, she must stay back.

But on the bad side, the more exposure a woman gets, the chances of cheating increases exponentially, it is left for her to be culpable.

18months is too long to rule out the possibility of cheating and I know she will kick against pregnancy.

Oga, either you follow her or you prepare for the worse during that time frame, be strong. At least, she wants to marry you.

depending on the type of grant she has, most grant considering the fact she is married will make provision for she, the husband and 2 Children maximum... also, if she is blessed with something doing over there, she can always invite her husband over even though it is once in a while they can still make the marriage work home or abroad that way it will be even more romantic having your spouse coming over for honeymoon.

Why not free her then? Since there is possibility of infidelity between the two of you. Go your separate ways and find yourselves better suitors. Simple!

tayo60:
Why not free her then? Since there is possibility of infidelity between the two of you. Go your separate ways and find yourselves better suitors. Simple!

"better suitor" as in, the one that u can cheat on right?

besides am not the person in question

Prevho:
This is very risky but you don't have a right to hold her dream, she will always refer to It. But if it was me, she must stay back.

But on the bad side, the more exposure a woman gets, the chances of cheating increases exponentially, it is left for her to be culpable.

18months is too long to rule out the possibility of cheating and I know she will kick against pregnancy.

Oga, either you follow her or you prepare for the worse during that time frame, be strong. At least, she wants to marry you.

brother ...the type of girls we have these days are nothing to write home about. times are bad