I will be brief in my story
My ex got married sep1, right before their marriage, I kept a very long distance from her cz I could understand I still have a soft spot for her...
Shortly after the marriage I totally stopped calling until yesterday while in office I got her call, meanwhile I was busy with work had to drop the call and seen her a text message to beep her later,little did I know the text message is gonna cause a lot for her,
Now am caught in between on how to save my dearest friend marriage just because of an insecure husband
Please my people how do I go about it

What nonsense is this?

After marriage cut off all contacts with exs plain and simple.

I guess you two didn't get the memo.

The lady is very unserious and not yet ready for marriage.


And for you I have one question for you.

Would you like your wife communicating with her ex like this?

I want peace in her marriage
Am really down
Seriously I got nothing to do with her even while they were courting not to talk of now married

Be careful Thread with caution

Rokia2:
What nonsense is this?

After marriage cut off all contacts with exs plain and simple.

I guess you two didn't get the memo.

The lady is very unserious and not yet ready for marriage.


And for you I have one question for you.

Would you like your wife communicating with her ex like this?

In as much I wouldn't want my wife talking with her ex I still have nothing to do with her again, ,,this is one reason I didn't goo for her marriage besides we are in different state, heaven knows when last we saw self
Her route has been from abuja to ado my I remain in lagos to Imo state

maxti:
Be careful Thread with caution

I know
Will be even happier if he could see it cz I meant no harm
I can't remember when last I saw her maybe 2015
This is even the reason I didn't go for her wedding

ochobaba:

In as much I wouldn't want my wife talking with her ex I still have nothing to do with her again, ,,this is one reason I didn't goo for her marriage besides we are in different state, heaven knows when last we saw self
Her route has been from abuja to ado my I remain in lagos to Imo state

How did she get your number?


From whom did you received those text from?

A ghost?

Rokia2:


How did she get your number?


From whom did you received those text from?

A ghost?

Even in death
She could still know my line same here too

Ewu!

Leave somebody's wife alone.

We have more than 150milion ppl in Nigeria. 50% r young ladies in search of husband n look at you causing another man mayhem..

You still have softspot for her, why didn't you marry her?

The fact you're working should have made you save some money n marry her.

You called her, the first time, she warned you not to call her that she will call you bk, still your stupid thinking didn't inform you that you have to stop calling her.

If the man divorces her tomorrow. You will come online to say that he is feeling in secure.

What you wouldn't want somebody to do to you don't do it to others.

You're from IMO state?
No Wonder, we have large population of perverts there..

Don't goan marry

ochobaba:

Even in death
She could still know my line same here too

My nigga you need to read what you just wrote.

Go wash your face with cold water and come read it.

Rokia2:


My nigga you need to read what you just wrote.

Go wash your face with cold water and come read it.

Need an advice
Stop being a kid

Flushing down my old sims after marriage biko... Don't need any stress or blast from d past.

ochobaba:

Need an advice
Stop being a kid

You are the childish one here not me.

Am serious just read what you wrote.

Its obvious you Still have a thing for this girl. And she seriously have zero respect for her marriage communicating with her ex behind her husband back.

Non of my exs really got over me right away. What I do is cut all contacts with them. You have to respect your new relationship. There's a saying..... old flame easy to catch. Avoiding temptation is better then putting yourself in a position to resist it.

ochobaba:

Need an advice
Stop being a kid

When her call comes in, start shouting at the top of your voice for something unrelated.. That should throw d man off balance or you could block her number.

BornAgainMay:
Ewu!

Leave somebody's wife alone.

We have more than 150milion ppl in Nigeria. 50% r young ladies in search of husband n look at you causing another man mayhem..

You still have softspot for her, why didn't you marry her?

The fact you're working should have made you save some money n marry her.

You called her, the first time, she warned you not to call her that she will call you bk, still your stupid thinking didn't inform you that you have to stop calling her.

If the man divorces her tomorrow. You will come online to say that he is feeling in secure.

What you wouldn't want somebody to do to you don't do it to others.

You're from IMO state?
No Wonder, we have large population of perverts there..

Don't goan marry

Now I see reasons for your delusion
Does having a soft spot for someone got to do with having someone's back
Besides how does Imo state got to do with this
See lemme tell you
Being on social media together doesn't mean that we are intellectually equal or historically sound is just a testimony you are still alive
If you don't have anything to say. Why not shut up

ochobaba:

Now I see reasons for your delusion
Does having a soft spot for someone got to do with having someone's back
Besides how does Imo state got to do with this
See lemme tell you
Being on social media together doesn't mean that we are intellectually equal or historically sound is just a testimony you are still alive
If you don't have anything to say. Why not shut up

Mr Man, why did you bring up the topic of you wanting to break another man's home?

Why did you keep on calling even when she told you that her husband is around, you were desperate to invite her home.

Leave a married woman alone abeg n goan marry...

Rokia2:
You are the childish one here not me.

Am serious just read what you wrote.

Its obvious you Still have a thing for this girl. And she seriously have zero respect for her marriage communicating with her ex behind her husband back.

Non of my exs really got over me right away. What I do is cut all contacts with them. You have to respect your new relationship. There's a saying..... old flame easy to catch. Avoiding temptation is better then putting yourself in a position to resist it.

what are u saying? really? I think you are off here. abeg read d guy post again, carefully.

lalanice:
what are u saying? really? I think you are off here. abeg read d guy post again, carefully.

take your own advice and do that right away and don't forget to check the attachments especially the last one.

Rokia2:
take your own advice and do that right away and don't forget to check the attachments especially the last one.

he is asking for advice, give an advice and stop judging its not yet judgment day.

lalanice:
he is asking for advice, give an advice and stop judging its not yet judgment day.

judging lol I can't even with you. I bet you would want your future husband to be chatting with his ex.

People can judge oooh.please dear stop picking her calls and also stop calling her too with time she will fully adjust ok.

Adaumunocha:
When her call comes in, start shouting at the top of your voice for something unrelated.. That should throw d man off balance or you could block her number.

Ok

Rokia2:
take your own advice and do that right away and don't forget to check the attachments especially the last one.

I understand your point
How I wish I could screen shot my dialled calls for today and see

rebirthforgoody:
People can judge oooh.please dear stop picking her calls and also stop calling her too with time she will fully adjust ok.

Thanks

ochobaba:
I want peace in her marriage
Am really down
Seriously I got nothing to do with her even while they were courting not to talk of now married

Not ur fault, just chill.


The lady is having probs, their issues go far beyond insecurity!

ochobaba:

Thanks

Uwc.

Op.. This is not a matter of insecurity. Tell me if you were in her husband's shoe.. You won't feel insecure. Believe me, no man would see such massage, and won't suspect something, even if nothing is happening

BornAgainMay:
Ewu!

Leave somebody's wife alone.

We have more than 150milion ppl in Nigeria. 50% r young ladies in search of husband n look at you causing another man mayhem..

You still have softspot for her, why didn't you marry her?

The fact you're working should have made you save some money n marry her.

You called her, the first time, she warned you not to call her that she will call you bk, still your stupid thinking didn't inform you that you have to stop calling her.

If the man divorces her tomorrow. You will come online to say that he is feeling in secure.

What you wouldn't want somebody to do to you don't do it to others.

You're from IMO state?
No Wonder, we have large population of perverts there..

Don't goan marry

after being a loud mouthed fella what reasonable solution did you provide? or you want us to know ya desperation has reached it peak?

after being a loud mouthed fella what reasonable solution did you provide? or you want us to know ya desperation has reached it peak?

That's why I never bothered answering him
To whom brain is given sense is expected
And to whom brain is taken from nonsense is expected

Sylverly:
Op.. This is not a matter of insecurity. Tell me if you were in her husband's shoe.. You won't feel insecure. Believe me, no man would see such massage, and won't suspect something, even if nothing is happening

I didn't message her first o
Besides that's why I stood far from them

The bearded op.