I dont understand the desperacy of Nigerian girls. Every time I tell them that I am in a relationship and I am taking it seriously, they insist they still want to have something with me. I really dont understand this. Now the problem here is my better half is miles away, so when they dont see her around they think I am lying or just playing hard to get.

I never see this kind thing before oh. And I don stop to chop clean mouth oh. make dem no go give wicked animal horn oh

lol. . . how can anybody want someone no other girl wants

life4naija:

I dont understand the desperacy of Nigerian girls. Every time I tell them that I am in a relationship and I am taking it seriously, they insist they still want to have something with me. I really dont understand this. Now the problem here is my better half is miles away, so when they dont see her around they think I am lying or just playing hard to get.

I never see this kind thing before oh. And I don stop to chop clean mouth oh. make dem no go give wicked animal horn oh

Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that ole boy give it a rest if you need people to boost your ego about what a fine or demented boy you are you don't have to start a thread that disparages the character of a whole race of women when other women in other countries could be doing exactly the same thing

Come on Omega, that aint right, what he says is true. Chris Rock once said, "when a man sees his buddy with a hot chick, he says to himself 'I must have a gal lyk dat' but when a chick sees her friend with a hunk of a guy she says to herself 'I must have that guy'." Its in the nature of gals to covet what other gals have

this is funny

Omega25 is one of the few good men in here

@ poster

Keep lying to yourself!

omega25red:

Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that ole boy give it a rest if you need people to boost your ego about what a fine or demented boy you are you don't have to start a thread that disparages the character of a whole race of women when other women in other countries could be doing exactly the same thing

Pls tell him

So what's all this f**cking rubbish all about?.

I didnt put up this post to flatter myself and its not like im some hunk, it just happens that truly wen i become friendly with a irl, she gets attracted and wen she finds out i am in a commited long distance relationship, she then thinks thats when she should pierce her claws deeper. Well its just a wall full of posts anyway.

@ Poster

E be like say you and I get the same problem o, they no dey believe me wen I talk say I dey for LDR (long distance relationship).

@ Sister Jay - Thank you very much, thats where the problem actually lies. Some people think long distance relationships is another way to say I like somebody but she dey Jand so make me and you run things. Long distance relationships do work and I have been in one for 3 years now with intent to commit.

@zaxx, supported . Nice reply 4 a starter

life4naija:

@ Sister Jay - Thank you very much, thats where the problem actually lies. Some people think long distance relationships is another way to say I like somebody but she dey Jand so make me and you run things. Long distance relationships do work and I have been in one for 3 years now with intent to commit.

Good for you, just hang on in there. Long distance relationship is hard, but like anythin worth havin, you make it work by keepin the communication open!

Reminds me of men who say that they are only turned on by married women.

sista-jay:

Good for you, just hang on in there. Long distance relationship is hard, but like anythin worth havin, you make it work by keepin the communication open!

Any woman who says long distance relationship is hard will definitely one day cheat on her man, beside, how do you define a long distance relationship? One in which you see each other once a month or once every three months or one in which you see each other once every six months?

@Poster

Guy, you are very correct. You become suddenly more attractive to some women when they realize you are in a committed relationship.
I've been there and I still experience it and mine wasn't even a long distance relationship

@Poster,we always want what we can't hav

Internet studs.

^^^ very depressing!

Like U2 said we always want what we havent got

A repeat of this has just happened again today. We are meant to be working professional from different companies and we only collaborate when its time to meet and move our companies forward. She is in a relationship and so am I. Today she tells me that I act very mature and that she wishes we were dating. I just go numb. I dont know what to tell her, I tell her that I am really taking my relationshi[p serious and then she says that even attracts her more cos she wishes she was the one.

I tell her that I am sorry but we really have to keep it professional. She has refused to pick my calls all day

dominique:

lol. . . how can anybody girl want someone no other girl wants

perfect response.