Dreyl:
BTW who forced them to marry? marriage isn't for everybody. i agree, especially for immature folks, some people marry for the wrong reason while some people marry for the right reason. everyone has reasons why they jumped into the bandwagon of marriage, marriage isn't something you can just jump on asap, it starts somewhere, it starts with relationship and it takes years to build a strong union, the reason why some people marriage never last is because they jump on marriage asap, just because one of their friends just married and they want to taste what it feels like to be a married man/woman, such marriage never last, it's a total bondage.

But you too need to be careful. Your mindset may land you into a turbulent marriage of you are not careful.

BluntBoy:


But you too need to be careful. Your mindset may land you into a turbulent marriage of you are not careful.

Sorry it won't.

Well, you guys are taking this issue for joke which is not. Do you think some girls that are yet to make it are not trying their best to be successful too, you think they are just lazying around without dreams, right? You said some go around using their private part as ATM. Don't you think we men made them believe they can make living out of it through our acceptance of their belief? If you know how hard some ladies are trying legally to be successful you will not talk the way you have talked. Success draws not just even women but men too, don't be deceived that women don't want to leave successful men because even men don't want to leave another successful man. There is nothing wrong if a successful man help another woman to achieve her own successful dreams too, when you start thinking like this you might have issues in your relationship not even marriage.

bamisepeters:
Well, you guys are taking this issue for joke which is not. Do you think some girls that are yet to make it are not trying their best to be successful too, you think they are just lazying around without dreams, right? You said some go around using their private part as ATM. Don't you think we men made them believe they can make living out of it through our acceptance of their belief? If you know how hard some ladies are trying legally to be successful you will not talk the way you have talked. Success draws not just even women but men too, don't be deceived that women don't want to leave successful men because even men don't want to leave another successful man. There is nothing wrong if a successful man help another woman to achieve her own successful dreams too, when you start thinking like this you might have issues in your relationship not even marriage.

You really don't get it, do you? We are not talking about being friends, business associates or even a mentorship relationships. Full blown seductive kind of approach from girls who might have slapped you if you had approached them prior to becoming loaded.