I've been seeing this Soldier, a Major, for almost seven months now, we're not that serious because in a week we might just talk once, but he still calls me his girlfriend and I stay with him a lot.

Whenever we don't talk for long i just assume we've broken up so i hookup with another guy, then after sometime the soldier would want to make things right and I'd agree.

After making love to me he'd say "You been with another man", I'd just lie and say I used a Love Machine. I use to think he was just making a rough guess because we had not been together for some time.

Recently I met someone else and we ended up doing things, it was just once and I'm very sure nothing was expanded, but after meeting the soldier, we just kissed and he asked me "have you been with someone else?", I told him no but he still didn't believe, in the process of making love, he said "I swear you've been with another man". Even after he had asked me to swear on my life which I did, he still didn't believe, he hardly spoke to me throughout last week.

He said anytime he touches me or makes love to me, he'll know if i cheated. I'm really scared because I don't know if he's using jazz to know those things or if it's a normal guy thing.

Must you cheat?

U write like mumagee

That's very likely. It depends largely on the time interval between when you slept your main boyfriend and your side nigga.

rebirthforgoody:
Must you cheat?

When he doesn't give me enough attention, yes.

Eghostwriter:

When he doesn't give me enough attention, yes.

I better break up with a guy than cheating.I only have sex or make love with the person I love not for having sexx seek.

I know d bible x against dix,buh i just can't help it... Yuh a fool... If Yuh story x anything to go by... Yuh just useless in short..

Benita27:
That's very likely. It depends largely on the time interval between when you slept your main boyfriend and your side nigga.

Chai!!!! expert in the house!!!

rebirthforgoody:





I better break up with a guy than cheating.I only have sex or make love with the person I love not for having sexx seek.

Well that's cool. But we're not all the same, some of us value the act more than love.

I am confuse
Please who actually is your boyfriend.
The guy you just meet
The intimacy gadget
The 4 month on five months off guy
Or the other guy that is always around when the four month on five month off guy is not around

I will give you All the attention you need.: Now that i know your flaws, yes I would still want you

Eghostwriter:


Well that's cool. But we're not all the same, some of us value the act more than love.

If you value the act more than love then is not good babe.

Benita27:
That's very likely. It depends largely on the time interval between when you slept your main boyfriend and your side nigga.

Gallant babe, i just dey pass tho

Benita27:
That's very likely. It depends largely on the time interval between when you slept your main boyfriend and your side nigga.

LOL. You even answer her.

I think guy B gives her satisfaction...orgasm I mean . So, she feels sexually fulfilled. Most women are not wired like men that can whip it up anytime. Major meets her and notices she is 'relaxed'... the hunger for him isn't there...

OP, please stop cheating.
It's emotionally and psychologically stressful.
It's unfair to your partner.
It puts you at risk of ....

Benita27:
That's very likely. It depends largely on the time interval between when you slept your main boyfriend and your side nigga.

Ok so is that I'll smell different or feel different, it's still so confusing to me. Because sometimes the interval is like two weeks. But this recent one was just two days apart.

I don't believe this story.

Eghostwriter:

When he doesn't give me enough attention, yes.

If you think you're not getting the attention you desire, why not break up instead of cheating. You still have mouth to say he knows if you've cheated, he may end your life. Better be wise. Sex no be food

Eghostwriter:


Ok so is that I'll smell different or feel different, it's still so confusing to me. Because sometimes the interval is like two weeks. But this recent one was just two days apart.

You see...
Some people will tell you that the vagina expands and contract after intercourse but when you're dealing with a guy that knows how firmly your pussy grips his dick during intercourse then went on to cheat in the manner you just did @embolden, he'd know because someone has drilled the hole he's used to.

Op, if you kno you are not getting the attention u need from ur Major man. Just forget about him instead of cheating. You can't force someone to love you. Guys dat will love and adore you will surely come..But stop ur cheating habit first, so you dnt mistake the one dat will love you and ready to stay with you, for a rans guy.

*yawn*

pocohantas:


LOL. You even answer her.

I think guy B gives her satisfaction...orgasm I mean . So, she feels sexually fulfilled. Most women are not wired like men that can whip it up anytime, Major meets her and notices she is 'relaxed'... the hunger for him isn't there...

OP, please stop cheating.
It's emotionally and psychologically stressful.
It's unfair to your partner.
It puts you at risk of ....

Abeg, let anyone that wants to cheat cheat. The guy may be keeping 5 side chicks sef.

Benita27:

You see...
Some people will tell you that the vagina expands and contract after intercourse but when you're dealing with a guy that knows how firmly your pussy grips his dick during intercourse then went on to cheat in the manner you just did @embolden, he'd know because someone has drilled the hole he's used to.

Spot on bae, it's logical

Benita27:

You see...
Some people will tell you that the vagina expands and contract after intercourse but when you're dealing with a guy that knows how firmly your pussy grips his dick during intercourse then went on to cheat in the manner you just did @embolden, he'd know because someone has drilled the hole he's used to.

It all makes sense now

Benita27:
Abeg, let anyone that wants to cheat cheat. The guy may be keeping 5 side chicks sef.

My hand no dey...

Augustap:

If you think you're not getting the attention you desire, why not break up instead of cheating. You still have mouth to say he knows if you've cheated, he may end your life. Better be wise. Sex no be food

I really like him and he spends a lot on me. Plus the fact that Some people don't mess with me cos they know I'm dating a soldier. Dont want to miss out on all of that.

How to catch a cheater 101

Eghostwriter:


I really like him and he spends a lot on me. Plus the fact that Some people don't mess with me cos they know I'm dating a soldier. Dont want to miss out on all of that.

Since you know all these, why not talk to him. Tell him you're not happy cos he doesn't give you attention. If he really likes you, he'll start giving you attention. This is far better than cheating. Also, remember that your body count is increasing when you keep sleeping around, especially if you don't have just one person you cheat with.

izaray:
Gallant babe, i just dey pass tho

Augustap:

Since you know all these, why not talk to him. Tell him you're not happy cos he doesn't give you attention. If he really likes you, he'll start giving you attention. This is far better than cheating. Also, remember that your body count is increasing when you keep sleeping around, especially if you don't have just one person you cheat with.

Not his fault but his Job. So talking to him won't change much. But I'm still going to stop cheating since he's always knowing these days.

Eghostwriter:


Not his fault but his Job. So talking to him won't change much. But I'm still going to stop cheating since he's always knowing these days.

Aiit then. I wish you best of lucks