A while ago, my husband brought up an interesting question: should you love your spouse more than your kids, or vice versa?

After a bit of discussion, we agreed – spouses should love each other more than their kids.
Now it goes without saying that love is immeasurable, and that at the end of the day, we do love our kids to the same extent as we love our spouse; and in a different way to how we love our spouse. I think it’s more a question of priority.

So why should a spouse get priority? Because your spouse is really the only person in the world that you choose in a mutually exclusive and committed manner – they’re the one person who is yours and only yours. We don’t choose the family we come from; and we don’t choose who our kids will be. We may choose our friends but they are not exclusively ours in the way that a spouse is.

Read more at: http://www.virtuedigest.com/love-spouse-kids/

No your kids should come first .....
A spouse can leave whenever they feel like , unconditional Love should only be reserved for your children cause no matter what we will love them ..

Let's be realistic here....you can't actually love one more than the other. Remember one day we all grow old and those children today will start their own family tomorrow....then you will see the importance of your spouse or partner.....
As a man or woman, raise your family with a sense of balance amongst your spouse and children alike....

We love them both in different kind of ways.
Let's not compare or contrast both Love.
When the kids are grown and no longer at home, it's your spouse that gives you companionship.
That companionship is everything!

Lalas247:
No your kids should come first .....
A spouse can leave whenever they feel like , unconditional Love should only be reserved for your children cause no matter what we will love them ..

I Concur ! Na who spouse epp.

The heart is big enough for all, I think. No need to quantify.