tee59:
Your whole salary now and you be suffering till another month ending .Since ,she is disabled and liability that can't work to make her own money. Be wise in spending.

MiztaFabulous:


Do you know how to read at all?

tee59:
Your whole salary now and you be suffering till another month ending .Since ,she is disabled and liability that can't work to make her own money. Be wise in spending.

MiztaFabulous:
[s]in every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.[/s]

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

Wilfredpat22:
. It is even bad enough you are the one taking care of the house bills, school fees of 3 children (of which one of the 3 children may not be your own) and you will now be placing her on a Budget.

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

Wilfredpat22:
But why should a man be giving someone who got complete hands and legs any money whatsoever. It’s nice to go out as couples and pay the bills. It is even bad enough you are the one taking care of the house bills, school fees of 3 children (of which one of the 3 children may not be your own) and you will now be placing her on a Budget.

Budget to do what exactly ??

mayorhy:
. you're definitely not a female, i have gone through your posts on nairaland and all you do is bash women online. I wonder why you're on a campaign against the female gender. If you had a terrible experience with a gf or a wife doesnt make all women the same. For you to masquerade as a female online to talk evil or bash women in the pretense that you're a female and your views are feminine shows how dangerous and psychopathic you are. I pray someone sees this and get you help because you're a danger to the society

victorian:







God bless you! Thank God for seeing it, the way it is.

I knew the person behind the moniker is a guy who been heartbroken by his gf or wife. So he bashes women with his moniker. He's a danger to himself and society.


Anyways inbetween op, you can start from N60k monthly if u earn much more than 60k. That's what my friend collects monthly from her husband. And he still takes care of everything in the home and also assist both his family and hers join with all gladness and God keeps blessing him more.
So It depend on your salary.

Bluezy13:

"And he still takes care of everything in the home and also assist both his family and hers join"


So what exactly does your friend use the 60k for

victorian:

She buys hajias clothes, shoes and jewelleries, then save some Incase of rainy day. Cause if any of her friends is broke, she has to borrow to friends
She is that nice with money. She even bought a Samsung galaxy phone for her dad last week. Everybody around them is happy with them.

She and her husband are very nice. And the husband is making more money. He's not complaining at all. They are truly blessed.

Bluezy13:


"She buys hajias clothes, shoes and jewelleries...She even bought a Samsung galaxy phone for her dad last week."


Hmmm...

Are you married??

victorian:


Yes am married. Why do u ask?

MiztaFabulous:
In every reasonable way it is very necessary that a man gives his spouse a certain amount of money every month for the upkeep of the home whether she is working, doing business or not.

In your opinion, how much do you think is very reasonable for a man to give his spouse every month that will definitely be okay to maintain a comfortable home?

ZIMDRILL:

In any home thats has an income monthly budget show be there and all expenses put on the table to see what you can manage with the income you have

Remember every man wishes his wife to be beautiful like she was from day 1 or more beautiful so if income has extra money give wife to buy personal things like make-up ear rings nice outfits etc then way not give her own allowance

The same applies to you as the man you get your own for beer, hair cut cologne etc

This allowance should be last after other main expenses eg rent, food, transport, skol fees, savings etc

The problem with most african is this, their finance providers but there are not good st managing the little they have, hence you find women managing the little there are given by husbands, they manage by cutting corners eg not paying attention to her personal needs but putting hubby and kids 1st becoz the little she is given is not even enough for kids & hubby

So both hubby and wife should get allowance for personal things, but depends if the family income can afford that

In my world give personal money to wife or hubby so thats they remain atttractive by buy things that brings out beauty in yo other half

Bluezy13:


I like you.
I would have fallen for you if you were single.

You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours.

So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??

Bluezy13:


I like you.
I would have fallen for you if you were single.

You successfully and effortlessly disclosed your friend's own, but you didn't disclose yours.
And that's unjust.

So, tell me; how much do you get monthly from your husband??

victorian:

I and my husband, our arrangement is different. I earn more than him and I don't request for monthly allowance. It's not necessary for me. I don't have parents or siblings to take care of. So am satisfied with what am earning.

Offpoint:


I'm watching you on HD TV for the bolded statement

UyaiIncomparabl must hear it

Bluezy13:


Hehehe...


I'm being cleverly logical just to drive home my point and smuggle out the necessary information from her

How have you been

Offpoint:


You see the bolded? that's a playboy lines


I've been around.... and broke

Bluezy13:


And among other things, that explains why you see it as a normal thing that your friend collects 60k monthly allowance from her husband for the purpose of buying clothes, shoes, jewelleries, buying phones, lending (not borrowing since borrowing means collecting or taking) and for rainy day (which is in doubt) and yet her husband takes care of basically everything in the home and their respective families as well, whether with gladness or not.

I'm not after how huge or little the 60k may seem but I believe you would have had a different perspective of reality if;

(1) Your husband was earning more than you are and was giving you monthly allowance.

(2) If you were instead in your friend's husband's shoes.

(3) If you were of the average standard of living.

(4) If you could tell with 100% certainty who really happens in your friend's family because she may only reveal what she may think you should know.

Bluezy13:


Did You just edited my post and accused me

That's unfair bro.

Why broke when I'm around

victorian:

True on that. I would have had a different perspective if our roles were reversed.

But she's not making it up. Shes an open book. I know their inner struggle and it's not money.
But Incase am happy for her and her family. It's way different from mine.

Bluezy13:



I'm glad you understand my point.

I am positive our conversation will not instigate some negative sentiments about your family and also your friend's family too, on you... right??

Offpoint:


you want to accuse me of your crime so that she can think I'm behind that right? ain't gonna werk



Lemme forward my account details.......?