iamJ:
see how u dey lawyer everything, an older man will not make a woman cum like a younger man

An older man is not presentable like a younger man

An older man wouldn’t understand her trends or jokes

An older man will need her to work more in the House, is that good for feminist?

An older man will want a male child faster

An older man will carry her like an asset because he suffered to get his money on his own


An older man will not listen to her, because he knows that he is older

I like smart girls and u dey try but ur hypocrisy eh get as e be


Oya twist this one make i see

pocohantas:


I no sabi all these ones you dey talk
Nah, this isn't about hypocrisy...I am not imposing it on anyone, I actually said it's an advice based on what I see happen around. I'm not blaming it on the guys either, money is the problem.

I think you're taking older for ancestor.
Like a lady of 26 ready to settle down, do you think a guy of 26 would be ready as Nigeria hard so? Her older can be 30-35. Is that much? A man of that age will not make her cum? Wow! I never knew it's that bad for you men, sorry ooo

Joislim:
I didn't read all that but I always wonder why people especially married women cheat with their ex. Why leave him when you can't do without him.

iamJ:
The younger men I was talking about was btw 29 and 36

Even if the guy is 34, if the girl is 26 like u are suggesting, he will be commanding her, how is that good for feminism?

saying that it's appropriate to be in a relationship where the man will be using age to control u is an insult to all aspiring feminist

pocohantas:


The crux isn't the age, but the fact that girls gets impatient faster. The guy isn't always ready due to the reason you've also cited...financial stability.

Older men are more financially stable than the younger ones. They have the head start. These girls marry them for financial security.

So you see...you're right and I am not wrong either. Older is subjective and in relation to the lady's age. I don't really mean ancestors. Yes, we always think you're trolling

You're right about knowing if a guy is serious, but you should know how most relationships work. When sex is involved, some ladies see it as staking too much, makes it more difficult to keep walking away.

Joislim:
I didn't read all that but I always wonder why people especially married women cheat with their ex. Why leave him when you can't do without him.

babile:
A YBL reader has shared with us, screenshots of his conversations on Whatsapp with his ex-girlfriend, who apparently, is now married and has a baby child.

The married ex-girlfriend, is still hung up with her ex-boyfriend, and she just can’t seem to let go… According to the chats, she said she married her husband, out of pity, because he loved her so much.

Read the shocking chats below;
http://newsnow.com.ng/still-love-hate-husband-shocking-whatsapp-conversation-nigerian-guy-ex-girlfriend/

Jman06:
Not only financial stability. Women generally age faster than men due to the stress of childbirth. Now, imagine marrying your age mate and after 10years of marriage with say 3-4 kids, the woman now looks older than the man. Ofcourse the man would lose interest and start cheating. But if the man is say 10yrs older, you will age together and that way he will not see himself as too young to be with his aging wife.

Joislim:
I didn't read all that but I always wonder why people especially married women cheat with their ex. Why leave him when you can't do without him.

lefulefu:
cos she wants to get married ASAP and the ex probably didn't have the financial power then.when a lady breaks up with her ex over non readiness to marriage they always go back having sexual flings with their ex even when married to another guy.happens all the time.

SmellySperm:

gal why!!! u no knw say na money

Joislim:
I've seen it happen too, ladies should just date older guys not their age mates

lefulefu:

i think whats even more important is that ladies should get married to who they love .

lefulefu:

i think whats even more important is that ladies should get married to who they love .

pocohantas:


all the one wey love you, you done marry them?

lefulefu:

i think whats even more important is that ladies should get married to who they love .

KreativGenius:


Love kor. Love ni. Bros money nko ?

lefulefu:
haba money is important if person wan marry. but then e no mean say the man must get money like Dangote or live in a big palace for the marriage to work cos had that been so na only poor ppl for dey get marriage breakup abi?.we dey always dey see funny writeups for here dat a man must ride a brand of car b4 he thinks of marriage or dat he must have a big duplex with swimming pool.tell me na swimming or flashy car or clothes go help ur marriage?.anyway sha its important the woman u getting married to loves u.no go marry a woman wey just dey manage u cos her main guy wey she like left her.if u marry her and d main guy come signify interest,she Will cheat on u and e no matter weda u rich pass dangote.

KreativGenius:



Mehn, God go epp us. Financial stability and security makes love work, if money is in place, loveworks better bros. Don't get it twisted. Money makes love easy. Love is good, love and financial stability is better

No time for social mediaring abeg !

How is everything

lefulefu:
if the love is already there and money come dey the love go sweet more.but if she no love u,she has no attraction for u even wen u marry her and spend trillions on her she won't still feel love for ..if d ex dat she loved snap im fingers at her she will cheat behind u.she go only jus dey pretend say she like you.there have been cases of ladies cheating on their millionaire boyfriends/husbands.some dey even dump d man if im business crash or dem lay am off from im six figure salary job.Even the late chief MKO Abiola u no hear that many of the children wey some of im wives born were not his own? If money can make a woman faithful to u then why those im wives cheat on am.bro marry a lady with love and adore u oo.all dat one na fallacy wey dem dey talk say a woman wey no like u if u come force marry her dat she will grow to love u.abeg make u come Benin make u see d number of married ladies wey dey cheat on their rich husbands.u think money can keep a woman?...lai lai it can never.

KreativGenius:



I don't know much about love. I am learning sha. Me na learner. May God epp us make the ryt calls. Love oh, money oh. love and money oh, ayam not understanding all anymore. God go epp us

lefulefu:
e get this popular Benin singer...osayomore Joseph..the guy be go perform for palace of the oba.as he dey return home with im wife na im some kidnappers block am for road.as dem dey grab the man na im the wife start to dey struggle with the kidnappers. Dem shoot the wife then grab the singer enter their car.though d action of d wife was on the extreme but then had it been the wife no get love for her husband u think she would risk her life? There are cases where husband go die the wife go shed crocodile tears and the next week her boyfriend go dey shack up with her for house.na so e be brother .when u get a wife wey love u then u have an ally.marry a gold digger then she go invite assassins into ur house and take over ur wealth(God forbid).

KreativGenius:



Bro that is loyalty, a trophy wife. Where can a man find such a woman?

donstan18:
I'm yet to decipher what prompted the man to share this whatsapp chat, Because I can't see any erotic and sexual trance that she made.

She said "she love you with passion(Casual)" then you shared it for people to see.

Ofwhich if she attempt to bleep you, We'll watch the video!

Anything for fame! attention and stunt these days.



Your EX should be your EX, No need for pretentious forming in the name of "Friends with benefits"



Leave her to leave you... It's simple.


And stop sharing chats for fame and attention!!


Use your head.

lefulefu:
dem boku brother.u also remember how d beautiful kudirat abiola took a bullet for her husband for daring to campaign for the release of her husband by the then abacha regime. Bro when a woman moves up with u along the social ladder she will always remain faithful and loyal cos she has experienced things with u.but if u come get 30 billion for akant use am impress one small girl to marry how do u expect her to be loyal? She will only be loyal to ur money na.

babile:
A YBL reader has shared with us, screenshots of his conversations on Whatsapp with his ex-girlfriend, who apparently, is now married and has a baby child.

The married ex-girlfriend, is still hung up with her ex-boyfriend, and she just can’t seem to let go… According to the chats, she said she married her husband, out of pity, because he loved her so much.

Read the shocking chats below;
http://newsnow.com.ng/still-love-hate-husband-shocking-whatsapp-conversation-nigerian-guy-ex-girlfriend/

pocohantas:
Foolish, cheating woman... The husband thinks he has married a submissive wife, not knowing she is an undercover olosho.

On a serious note, this is the case with many Nigerian marriages. Some ladies date someone of their age for years. It doesn't work most times, 'cause when the guy is trying to build a life, the lady is already in her late twenties.

Everyone starts asking her "when will you call us for asoebi?". She starts putting pressure on the guy and he'll say "I'm not holding you, if you see someone good...go, I will wish you well". So, she starts looking for someone else, most times an older man. She sees and marries him ASAP. They are both married, but are they happy? It's a vicious cycle. I don't advise girls to date their mates. Most times, women marry up and men marry down. Don't rush into marriages only to cheat on your husbands.

People saying she isn't cheating, is it until she climbs into his bed? If you see your husband/wife, telling an ex they still love them with passion. Will you say it's not cheating ? This is emotional cheating. If the guy presses further, it's only a matter of time

pocohantas:
Foolish, cheating woman... The husband thinks he has married a submissive wife, not knowing she is an undercover olosho.

On a serious note, this is the case with many Nigerian marriages. Some ladies date someone of their age for years. It doesn't work most times, 'cause when the guy is trying to build a life, the lady is already in her late twenties.

Everyone starts asking her "when will you call us for asoebi?". She starts putting pressure on the guy and he'll say "I'm not holding you, if you see someone good...go, I will wish you well". So, she starts looking for someone else, most times an older man. She sees and marries him ASAP. They are both married, but are they happy? It's a vicious cycle. I don't advise girls to date their mates. Most times, women marry up and men marry down. Don't rush into marriages only to cheat on your husbands.

People saying she isn't cheating, is it until she climbs into his bed? If you see your husband/wife, telling an ex they still love them with passion. Will you say it's not cheating ? This is emotional cheating. If the guy presses further, it's only a matter of time

Jman06:
Not only financial stability. Women generally age faster than men due to the stress of childbirth. Now, imagine marrying your age mate and after 10years of marriage with say 3-4 kids, the woman now looks older than the man. Ofcourse the man would lose interest and start cheating. But if the man is say 10yrs older, you will age together and that way he will not see himself as too young to be with his aging wife.